Kinky Boyfriend

When doing watersports, it's always important to pay special attention to hydration for the 24 hours beforehand.
 
As mentioned, it should be clear.

When doing watersports, it's always important to pay special attention to hydration for the 24 hours beforehand.
 
As mentioned, it should be clear.

When doing watersports, it's always important to pay special attention to hydration for the 24 hours beforehand.
 
As mentioned, it should be clear.

Also - treating sex as pretty much anything other than an explorative conversation about connection and affirmation that we're having using our bodies and psyches is doing ourselves a disservice, in my opinion.

When doing watersports, it's always important to pay special attention to hydration for the 24 hours beforehand.
 
As mentioned, it should be clear.

I prefer between a week to a month in advance, though 24 hours in advance is my minimum with rare exception.
 
Schedule it like you would all other appointments.
 
I find that last-minute/on-call appointments tend to be less fulfilling for either party than appointments that allow time for the excitement to build up.

I prefer between a week to a month in advance, though 24 hours in advance is my minimum with rare exception.
 
Schedule it like you would all other appointments.
 
I find that last-minute/on-call appointments tend to be less fulfilling for either party than appointments that allow time for the excitement to build up.

Rubberwear is a lot more fun to play with!

Oh - those are pretty normal questions - I'm surprised that you're not receiving a response based on those questions.

Hey there!
 
I know that for me personally if the questions dive into too explicit a territory or ask for the specific series of actions will take place during our time together - I draw back as that makes me uncomfortable for a multitude of reasons, not the least of which is the legal aspect.
 
 
What sort of questions are you asking / what details do you need to know?

I prefer between a week to a month in advance, though 24 hours in advance is my minimum with rare exception.
 
Schedule it like you would all other appointments.
 
I find that last-minute/on-call appointments tend to be less fulfilling for either party than appointments that allow time for the excitement to build up.

I prefer between a week to a month in advance, though 24 hours in advance is my minimum with rare exception.
 
Schedule it like you would all other appointments.
 
I find that last-minute/on-call appointments tend to be less fulfilling for either party than appointments that allow time for the excitement to build up.

Oh - those are pretty normal questions - I'm surprised that you're not receiving a response based on those questions.

Hey there!
 
I know that for me personally if the questions dive into too explicit a territory or ask for the specific series of actions will take place during our time together - I draw back as that makes me uncomfortable for a multitude of reasons, not the least of which is the legal aspect.
 
 
What sort of questions are you asking / what details do you need to know?

During a 1-2 hour session, that's a huge no.
 
With overnights/days/weekends, I believe there's a reasonable expectation of LIGHT phone use, but that should be discussed beforehand along with all of the itenerary for extended bookings.
 
Checking emails/texts once a day is a reasonable guideline - to make sure there's not something going on outside of the time together that needs his attention --- friend/family emergencies come to mind, but admin work as well.
 
 
Phone time, daily routine, sleeping expectations should be discussed along with the rest of the itenerary.
 
 
That being said, checking while in bed is just... Rude and tacky.

I love a client that's willing to book weeks or even a month or so in advance. I have quite a few clients who only get to SF once or twice a year and therefore will schedule with me when their dates are confirmed and will prioritize and plan around our meeting. There's alot of excitement in the anticipation.
 

During a 1-2 hour session, that's a huge no.
 
With overnights/days/weekends, I believe there's a reasonable expectation of LIGHT phone use, but that should be discussed beforehand along with all of the itenerary for extended bookings.
 
Checking emails/texts once a day is a reasonable guideline - to make sure there's not something going on outside of the time together that needs his attention --- friend/family emergencies come to mind, but admin work as well.
 
 
Phone time, daily routine, sleeping expectations should be discussed along with the rest of the itenerary.
 
 
That being said, checking while in bed is just... Rude and tacky.

If secure communication is a concern - one should be using an app such as Signal/Telegram or an encrypted email service such as Protonmail.
 
 
Text/Phone communication is not secure.
 
Using the above options are a bit more secure but only when both parties communicating use said services every time.

Thanks for the responses. This was for a first-time meeting. ( I wouldn't have any problems texting hotel information to a provider I knew. ) Also, with a first-timer, either with phone or texting, I'm very careful what I include: basically arranging for a meeting and that's all. Nothing about what I want to happen at the meeting.
 
I like the idea of meeting a new person in a public area, especially if the pictures are not accurate. This would be a good reason to stay at a hotel with a key card system. I was at an older, boutique hotel, which didn't have key cards.
 
From an escort's perspective, I think it's better for the escort if they can get a definite room number, but it made me uncomfortable for the escort to ask for it. I was afraid it could have been a sting operation, and I'd be leading the police straight to me. Although, as I said, I never put anything "incriminating" in the text.
 
But my worries were needless - we had a great time.
 
Not too long ago, I met an escort who had been the victim of a sting operation. He was very careful with me and seemed like a cautious guy. It would seem to me the police have better things to do.
 
BTW, I just found out about Protonmail and signed up. Thanks for the info on Signal/Telegram.

If secure communication is a concern - one should be using an app such as Signal/Telegram or an encrypted email service such as Protonmail.
 
 
Text/Phone communication is not secure.
 
Using the above options are a bit more secure but only when both parties communicating use said services every time.

During a 1-2 hour session, that's a huge no.
 
With overnights/days/weekends, I believe there's a reasonable expectation of LIGHT phone use, but that should be discussed beforehand along with all of the itenerary for extended bookings.
 
Checking emails/texts once a day is a reasonable guideline - to make sure there's not something going on outside of the time together that needs his attention --- friend/family emergencies come to mind, but admin work as well.
 
 
Phone time, daily routine, sleeping expectations should be discussed along with the rest of the itenerary.
 
 
That being said, checking while in bed is just... Rude and tacky.

If secure communication is a concern - one should be using an app such as Signal/Telegram or an encrypted email service such as Protonmail.
 
 
Text/Phone communication is not secure.
 
Using the above options are a bit more secure but only when both parties communicating use said services every time.

Be specific as possible about what you are looking for and when. I much rather a client lay it all out from the jump vs. being asked a multitude of questions.
 
“Hello,
I’m reaching out because after reviewing your ad you’ve sparked my interest. I am looking for (insert scenario), I prefer to play (insert scenario specifics) specifically on (insert date), I am a (insert age, description if you see fit, but not necessary, nor relevant). If available, may I proceed with a couple more questions? Thank you for your time.”
 
Be polite, clear and transparent.

you may want to open the contact with a very brief "hello"/"like the look of your ad"/"thanks for your time with this note"-type greeting.....ask if they are available for a specific date and time (already figured out by you that will work for you), very briefly describe yourself (stats/age/demeanor)......be friendly, professional, and to-the-point......ask if they have questions or requests for you

Oh - those are pretty normal questions - I'm surprised that you're not receiving a response based on those questions.