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I have hired AJ Dalton as an escort, and would definitely hire again when I’m next in OC. He also does massage, but I can’t offer an opinion of his massage skills though. Not sure if you’re looking for something more therapeutic but you might like to check him out. https://rentmasseur.com/AJDaltonMasseur

I’ve met him a few times. Good guy. PM for details.

A big favorite of mine is Abel Rey, a prominent escort in NYC until a few years ago, who even had his own YouTube channel “Ask an Escort”. I haven’t seen him in a couple of years, and he’s now successfully moved into a more ‘conventional’ job and is doing well. Over time, he took down his RM add and web site. Such a sweet, sexy guy, with a great personality and love for life. In my early days of hiring, he treated me with tenderness and compassion and the sex was mind blowing!

https://rent.men/LatinRedHead
Been with him a few times. Highly recommended. 

A big favorite of mine is Abel Rey, a prominent escort in NYC until a few years ago, who even had his own YouTube channel “Ask an Escort”. I haven’t seen him in a couple of years, and he’s now successfully moved into a more ‘conventional’ job and is doing well. Over time, he took down his RM add and web site. Such a sweet, sexy guy, with a great personality and love for life. In my early days of hiring, he treated me with tenderness and compassion and the sex was mind blowing!

https://rent.men/LatinRedHead
Been with him a few times. Highly recommended. 

A lot of what a masseur puts on his ad is open to interpretation. If they list all types of massage (therapeutic, sensual and erotic) then there’s a chance but not a guarantee that it will progress to full on oral and anal. I look at the masseur’s private pictures as an indicator. Close ups of an ass indicate he’s a bottom, pics of a hard dick, maybe he’s a top but again, nothing is guaranteed. Many masseurs will take it further if they really like the client, which is why they are masseurs and not escorts. 

I recently met https://rent.men/SantiSF/ and would definitely repeat. 

I recently met https://rent.men/SantiSF/ and would definitely repeat. 

A good indicator is the private pics on Rentmasseur. If they show a close up of their butt hole or erect dick, that often implies that they are open to engaging in more activities. You do need a premium account to be able to unlock those pictures though. I asked a masseur once if he’d considered doing escorting. His take was that as an escort he’d be expected to have sex with the client, but as a masseur, he could decide how far he wanted to take it and set limits if he didn’t want to do more than a “happy ending” usually a hand job. 

A good indicator is the private pics on Rentmasseur. If they show a close up of their butt hole or erect dick, that often implies that they are open to engaging in more activities. You do need a premium account to be able to unlock those pictures though. I asked a masseur once if he’d considered doing escorting. His take was that as an escort he’d be expected to have sex with the client, but as a masseur, he could decide how far he wanted to take it and set limits if he didn’t want to do more than a “happy ending” usually a hand job. 

October 24 was the day on which I first had sex with a guy.

I have hired him and would absolutely duo so again. He was quite forthcoming with pictures before I met him, but sent them directly rather than posting them in a more public place.

I have hired him and would absolutely duo so again. He was quite forthcoming with pictures before I met him, but sent them directly rather than posting them in a more public place.

I’ve always enjoyed Seattle, but sounds like it’s recently become my kind of town for sure. 😀

I recently had an amazing experience with https://rent.men/SantinoCruzXXX. He is vers and very skilled as a top. 

I recently had an amazing experience with https://rent.men/SantinoCruzXXX. He is vers and very skilled as a top. 

Personally, I hire all year round. Even in the dark winter months. 
I suppose since I do all of my hiring in London, where I make use of the Underground network and buses (I don't drive my car down there), going out to meet escorts even when the weather isn't great is not much of an ordeal. 

I understand the medical profession's desire to know all things - mostly for altruistic reasons - but I'm sorry, the individual person's rights to privacy, in spite of the risks that might create, should prevail. That may frustrate a physician, but their perceived "need to know" should always be checked, IMO, by the desires of the individual's rights and intentions. If the patient doesn't want them to know every medication they take, then for better or worse, that should be up to the patient. The attitude that "someone else knows better," is a slippery slope. Of course, so much of this lack of privacy, is encouraged by insurance companies who make all of this data available to all. And the individual patients simply comply and allow their privacy rights to be signed away in something akin to a "terms of service agreement," that few read and ultimately waive the privacy they think they are being afforded. 

In my experience, most providers prefer cash and that keeps true identities hidden on both sides. Only once have I been asked for an electronic payment, but that was from somone I already knew and trusted. Anything less, cash is definitely the way to go.  

I always book at least a day or two in advance, or if I’m traveling and want to book time with an escort while I’m in his city, I usually book about a week ahead. I did have a surprising experience last time I was in Madrid. I had booked a great guy fir Wednesday night and had a great time with him, could not meet on Thursday so tried to book him for Friday but he was going out of town. Late on the Thursday night I contacted another guy to ask if he was available the next night. He responded that “I am not available tomorrow night. But I’m free now if you like”. He got to my hotel within an hour and it was another great session. So those short bookings do work, but I wouldn’t rely on them. 

I always book at least a day or two in advance, or if I’m traveling and want to book time with an escort while I’m in his city, I usually book about a week ahead. I did have a surprising experience last time I was in Madrid. I had booked a great guy fir Wednesday night and had a great time with him, could not meet on Thursday so tried to book him for Friday but he was going out of town. Late on the Thursday night I contacted another guy to ask if he was available the next night. He responded that “I am not available tomorrow night. But I’m free now if you like”. He got to my hotel within an hour and it was another great session. So those short bookings do work, but I wouldn’t rely on them. 

I always book at least a day or two in advance, or if I’m traveling and want to book time with an escort while I’m in his city, I usually book about a week ahead. I did have a surprising experience last time I was in Madrid. I had booked a great guy fir Wednesday night and had a great time with him, could not meet on Thursday so tried to book him for Friday but he was going out of town. Late on the Thursday night I contacted another guy to ask if he was available the next night. He responded that “I am not available tomorrow night. But I’m free now if you like”. He got to my hotel within an hour and it was another great session. So those short bookings do work, but I wouldn’t rely on them. 

I really appreciate your words, @IronMaus the past month or so have been some of the most eye opening weeks I've ever had in my life.
I do plan on moving forward, and I'm excited to see where life takes me. I guess I've come to some terms and plan on allowing things to organically unfold.

Sounds like you’re fairly decided on Colorado, but my favorite place to ski in the west (actually on the world) is Whistler in Canada. It’s an easy drive from Vancouver, unbelievable skiing for every level, good nightlife and gay friendly.