Brock O

I don’t always cum, but my reasons have less to do with saving it up for the next client and more to do with client satisfaction. My focus is the client. If he wants me to cum, perhaps in a specific way, I make it happen for him. If he is ambivalent, I see no point in wasting my sexual energy trying to put the spotlight on my climax. And yes, saving up my spunk is very much a real concern, particularly when I have more than one client in a day.
Frankly, I am often not ready to cum when the client asks/demands it of me and I have to catch up. If I can satisfy the client without having to force myself in such a way, it’s a big relief. I would rather not cum at all than push myself into a rushed, less than stellar orgasm. That thinking applies whether or not I have other clients that day.
Recently in a session I came a bit early, about halfway through the session, pulling out and shooting all over the client. We were having quite a hot time together. It was one of those jizzy but not quite complete orgasms. I told him not to worry, that we weren’t done. We played around doing other activities for a while (which he very much enjoyed) until I was ready to go again. I lasted much better the second time, and made him cum as I pounded him. Then shortly afterwards, at his request - much more intentionally and pleasurably this time - I came inside of him. It was hot!
Sometimes all the client wants is for one of us to fuck the other (or flip) until the client cums in whatever way he wants. Sometimes it’s fast, sometimes it’s drawn out. I’m not rushing the client. I respond to his body language and verbal cues. The time is his. If either or both of us cum well before the time is up, I offer several things like cuddling, massage time, or a shower together, or sometimes all three when the client is eager to reach the finish line way early. 
It’s less frequent, but some clients don’t feel the need to cum at all. Fine by me. As long as the client is happy, because that’s what really counts.
Some of my clients end their sessions early. It’s never me saying it’s over and then rushing them out the door. When they are done early, I ask if they are satisfied, and if there is anything I can do to make the rest of our time together enjoyable. Sometimes they say they are truly satisfied and ready to wrap up. With me at least, the approach to all these issues is client centric.
Tip for any client for whom provider cum is an important part of his satisfaction: request this when you book. When your provider knows your expectations, he can meet them.
Even better: book him regularly so you don’t even have to say what you need the next time. He knows what you like, what’s important to you, and if he’s any good, he will note it and deliver it again and again.

Vin/danny is not only one of the sweetest humans I have ever met his body is breathtaking but guys he is also a provider who is always rock hard and ready to go and that baby arm size dick is a absolute marvel to play with 

Eek!! I think you meant 5" circumference (40mm diameter is a little over 1.5"). I'm not sure what universe 5" diameter is comfortable, but if that's your universe I'm in awe!

He is worth the trip to Palm Springs!  He is an absolute legend and is one of the best in the business.  

I’m hoping to see Vin on an east coast visit soon. He’s fired up his OF again and he looks fucking enormous, as well as insanely shredded — honestly, better than he’s ever looked in all the years I’ve followed him. He sent me a few photos, taken this morning — too good not to share with the rest of you filthy animals!
 

Thanks for saving me the disappointment!
 

He is worth the trip to Palm Springs!  He is an absolute legend and is one of the best in the business.  

I saw that book at the bottom too.  When I think of Captain Cook,  my first thought is usually what he said about Antartica, Terra Australis.  It was something along the lines of "I make bold to declare that nothing shall come from it."  I quoted it in a paper of mine 32 years ago; online now, I can't find the quote.

Frankly, the odometer mileage is, for me, one of his more attractive features. His life experience and range of interests contribute to his appeal — I feel like I’m with a man, not a boy.

Awwwww! If there’s an annual or bi-annual ‘Tristan Thread’ then perhaps there had to be the bi-annual or annual RESPONSE to it!
Absolutely swooning in the compliments; appreciate all of you so very much who have supported me over the years. I have never attempted to be the same as some of my colleagues- whose business model is to pack an absurd amount of clients into one day, fill themselves up with money like the cheeks of a chipmunk, then disappear for weeks. 
 
My model is slow but steady, only a couple a day at max- and that allows me my other obligations to the Army and to family / dogs / regular job. Communication with me can suck; and I will state that in advance…but as all of you who stayed the course have seen; I never do people wrong. 
 
As far as not being everyone’s type; oh well. Some people on this forum also strive for guys that perpetual con artists and hustlers, or because a guy is 22 and ‘less touched’, his value increases? ROFLMAO. Alright, let me know how that works out when he leaves after 35 minutes or doesn’t show up period, demands deposits, or blackmails you down the line when he’s desperate for 👌.
I feel better at 41 then I did in my early 30s;  and what you bring to a session as an escort is more important between your ears, as between your legs or the biceps on your arms. 
 
Time and experience shape perspective; and I am thankful to all my ‘mentors’ out there for helping craft mine. Love you all! ❤️
‘TB’ / Jordan

Tristan is A+++ 
Yes he has changed over the years.   Change can be a good thing. 
One change is that he is more muscular now than he was 15 years ago.  Shredded abs.  If you like muscle, Tristan has always been great, but is better than ever.  IMHO. 
He also has more experience and even wisdom than he did years ago.  He has always been smart--and a great ham actor in sweaty roleplays.  He has many many costumes   And more roles where he can turn in a star performance. 
One thing that has not changed is that Tristan is very popular and, as others have said, often hard to reach.  Be patient.  Try several avenues.  Let him know what you are interested in.  If he thinks he can deliver, you will very probably have a great time,  

I have known Tristan for 15 years.  I make arrangements with him regularly.  You need to have some patience with him as he has a very complicated existence with his various interests and assorted travels and jobs.  He is well worth the trouble and you will never be dissatisfied with a visit from him.  However, just beware, that last minute changes in plans are frequent.  On the other hand, he gives undivided attention.  He is not a clock watcher.  He has a strong masculine aura and he has alpha qualities that are great but you may also find him willing to take a less dominant role, if you are inclined to want to alpha out.  He is generous with his attention.  He will leave you breathless and well satisfied in a way few others are able to do.  He is without doubt as sexy and sensual man as you will ever meet.  He will be passing by my area on his way back from his latest trek and I am hoping he will stop for spell here.  

I feel like I’m in the big leagues now, I’ve finally just met THE @tristanbaldwin.  I can’t share all the adjustments that he made to make this dream meeting come true.  He is truly way up there among the providers I’ve met.

This guy!
 
 

I do not play a doctor on TV but I am one in real life..   If you want to be totally safe, continue to be abstinent.  If you want to be as safe as you can reasonably expect to be, start Prep for at least two weeks and be faithful about taking it.  Do not start it until you are sure you are going to proceed as there is no reason to subject yourself to potential side effects if you are not committed.  
As to finding a man, go to RentMen and go to the listings for your area or the largest area within a reasonable travel for a weekend.  Look at each of the photos and read the comments.  Once you have narrowed down the field, come here with a list and ask for recommendation.  I suggest looking at all the ads as you never know what might strike your fancy and if you use the checklist, that man may have been passed over. 
As to the event itself, the first time I met with a man, my story was very similar to yours.  It is not a unique tale, n fact, it is common enough to be considered mundane.  So once, I got to the hotel and the escort arrived,. it took a bit of encouragement to start to do anything and once I got started it took all the willpower I had to stop.  Did not get to anal on my first encounter, nor my second encounter, which took place the next night nor my third encounter, which came two days later.  I then arranged an overnight while I was away on a trip and I finally had the time and was relaxed enough to try anal, as a top.   Many many men later, I decided to try bottoming and found it was not for me.  It took about 5 encounters to even get to the point where I was actually entered.  Word to the wise, do not become inpatient and just blurt out "just push the fucking thing in". I got what I requested but not what I wanted when I did that.      
You may have very specific requirements for the men you want to see at this time, but that will change and broaden as time goes by.  So consider being a bit less specific about what the man looks like and more about what kind of person he is.  For most of us here, the intellectual connection more than compensates for any perceive physical traits that the person may be missing from you checklist.  
My best advice, as opposed to Curious ByNature, do not wait for the perfect man and the perfect time or you may find that there is no perfect man nor perfect time.  But once you start to appreciate and accept your desires, almost any time can be the perfect time and you just need to allow your partner to be the perfect man.  If not, move on to the next one.  

This is what it means to me. Facial hair is a deal breaker for which seems to quite limit my prospects these days. 🤷‍♂️

Pornstars: If Zeb Atlas suddenly came out of retirement I would SO make it worth his while; and MAYBE Kris Evans/Csaba Szigeti.
Bodybuilders: where do I even start??? Eric Janicki, Nick Walker, Joey Sergo, Regan Grimes will do as appetizers!

Jett Wayne is a great looking guy but he definitely did not need the neck tattoos he recently added.  

Well...he could play with my Bre-X Mineral and National Bank of Cuba stocks; the Imperial Russian government bonds are right pretty, and, too, the swamp land down in South Alabama with my blessing.
 

Great to read memories and experiences from you all, and thanks to Rod for going to the trouble of finding old reviews/photos to post along with his memories. It certainly is great to put faces to names and reviews/memories.
On that note, I wanted to share a few photos and recollections of the guy I consider the most (physically) beautiful escort I ever hired. I believe he went by the name Justin in his RB ad, but others may know him by Niko, which was closer to his actual name. He was Czech, and had come to LA (he told me a modeling agent had helped him come out here) on a tourist visa, then massively overstayed. I'll never forget when he showed up at my door, I've seen beauty but he was just ethereally gorgeous. Seemed pretty closed and shy at first, then slowly over a session or three his very dry humor emerged, and after that a much more open and tender side. That face! That body! That ass! That dick...I could go on, but every single inch of him was perfection.
He was limited in his offering (basically he was open to receiving oral and rim jobs) but always hard and always came. I normally want someone  more interactive, but every minute spent with him felt like a gift from the Gods, so I never even thought to ask for more (I was young and pretty naive at the time). As we got to know each other better, that tender side came out, and in our (what turned out to be final) session, he grabbed me and passionately kissed me. He actually laughed about it after the session, and said he wasn't sure what came over him, but he was moving to Miami the next week and wanted to give me a goodbye kiss. Bless. We stayed in contact for a few months after he moved, and I talked about coming down to see him. Then he seemed to vanish. I read something on a forum saying he'd been arrested due to overstaying his visa, jailed then deported. Then nothing for at least 10 years. One day I was scrolling a Czech fitness model's feed and saw a guy, much older and MUCH more muscled, but clearly him. He was tagged in the picture and I could see he had re-established life in Czech, gained a lot of muscle (and a few tattoos) but still had the beautiful face. I sent him a DM, never heard back, wasn't surprised. And that's the end of that story. But I still swoon when I see his photos. and I'm grateful that young me got to come of age with young him

Not all clients hire simply because they're horny and need to unload. The first holidays after my divorce, I enquired with a regular (at the time) if we could have a session around Christmas. I felt lonely and did not want to be with the little family I had because it would remind me of the divorce.