harlow

To clarify I meant I tell everything about the price details...obviously if I didn't meet the provider I wouldn't know much, or anything about them. Besides its not my style anyway...I believe in karma

Good point. I know escorts who pack protein shakes in their suitcase but we're talking about a smoked salmon sandwich. I don't think subway has that available but I'm sure most restaurants do.

I just set an appointment with him for Sunday while I'm in DC. Hope all goes well

He is visiting DC now.
 
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https://rentmen.eu/Krisswan

Not sure how I only saw this thread now. But to answer your question, in my short experience as a client? YES. In fact when I reach out to a provider about a potential booking, I always mention my race early on. And again I'll confirm/ask if my race isn't an issue after the session is booked. I'm a very observant and quick learner, and since diving into this world of "companionship" I've noticed a lot of the new providers and ones around my age are treating the business like Grindr.
 
The whole reason I got into the hiring scene was that after the Craigslist shut down the other options out there (Grindr, Cruising) weren't working for me. In fact since stepping over into the M4M, LGBTQ+ community a few years back its torn me down mentally, ripped whatever self confidence I did have before stepping over and now has me looking to seek some form of therapy in the near future.
 
I'm in my 20s, healthy, workout, good teeth, with a high sexual appetite. But so far in my few years the inclusiveness that's often promoted in the community is a big farce IMO. But anyways that's for another thread I've been thinking to make for some months now but I've held back for the potential pitchforks that maybe thrown my way.
 
But YES I always ask providers if there's any issues with my race. In fact I've passed on 3 providers (2 during my recent USA east coast trip) because they were subliminally obvious they weren't into guys of my race. Last year I reached out to a popular couple (who are also members on here) about a potential booking. When I was speaking with one of the guys and mentioned my race he said he's only into caucasian guys.
 

 
Where I live, Asians are pretty much equal majority with white people. In the M4M scene that's pretty much all they're after in my observation. It's W+W or W+A.
 

 
Yeah I find that hilarious. I feel they're the last (and should be the last) to scream "discrimination", considering they do the same and are very blatant about it in public spaces (again just off my personal experience).
 

 

 
I guess it depends on location, but again in Canada, in the usual hookup spaces, they're loved by the white guys they praise.
 
 

 
Pretty much. That's the feeling I get, especially when trying to book providers around my age.
 
 

 
I've been shying away from Grindr but in recent times, I've removed my race from my profile. It's hilarious how many more messages I'll get when my race/photos are removed.
 
 

 
The world needs more guys like you. <3

Yeah, he was one of the really good guys out there.

I was scheduled to meet him next week for the first time. Likewise disappointed, but mostly hope that AndrewK is taking good care of himself and on to living a fulfilling and vigorous life

90% chance racial/ethnic

That’s very reassuring to read!

My pattern is more or less:
 
Meet at about 7.
Have some wine and wild monkey sex.
Go out for dinner at a nice place. Or if we’re really mellow just order in a pizza or something.
A bit of personal time to check email and messages.
Second round of fun - slower, more mellow.
Sleepy time.
Often, middle of the night round, usually just oral. This is often impromptu. I get up to pee, slip back into bed put an arm around him and start to play a little bit. He begins to respond and it goes from there.
Morning. One more round often starting in the shower. Maybe followed by breakfast, maybe not.
 
I actually prefer a longer daytime session:
 
Meet in the afternoon and have that wild monkey sex as above.
Go out and do something together - museum or whatever. Sometimes he just shows me around town.
Back to hotel for drinks and sex and cleanup for dinner out somewhere.
Back to hotel for the last round of just great low key sex.
He’s out the door by about midnight and I get a good night’s sleep.

The OP asked us “what should I do...any advice?” and now I’m being criticized for doing exactly that? Jeez.

I love the idea. I’m just not willing to pay $300/hour for it.
Same way I feel about overnights. In theory, I love the
idea of a relaxed romantic evening that involves a
beautiful man sleeping next to me in bed and ends
with a beautiful hotel breakfast.
 
$2,000 for it though?....yeah no, I’m good.

Present when ordering and you'll get more bread, rice or potatoes, a cheaper and unhealthier meal.
 

that's how a gentleman talks!

Boys I saw Cade Maddox live and in the flesh tonight here at Decadence....OMG he is sexy. All the talk about him looking roided out is false. His body a perfect balance. Not to mention how nice and sweet he is. He was more than accommodating when I reluctantly interrupted his break from dancing at Oz to say hello. He simply flashed that beautiful smile and gave me a genuine thank you for the compliments. I definitely have to set something up with him in the future!

I definitely can’t wait to see him again

I met Erik last week while he was in DC. He is 100% worth it and I can't wait to see him again. We had similar backgrounds so talking with him was so natural and easy. Judging by the way our conversation went when I was setting things up with him I think I was communicating with him directly. I was having travel delays but kept him up to date on my progress and he was more than accommodating. Didn't feel like a middle man was involved at all. I didn't even know about the PJB ad until I saw this thread. At any rate go for it and if you don't I could care less...I don't want to share him with anyone!

For the discerning minds..... YES! Enough said. had a wonderful experience with him yesterday.

Boys I saw Cade Maddox live and in the flesh tonight here at Decadence....OMG he is sexy. All the talk about him looking roided out is false. His body a perfect balance. Not to mention how nice and sweet he is. He was more than accommodating when I reluctantly interrupted his break from dancing at Oz to say hello. He simply flashed that beautiful smile and gave me a genuine thank you for the compliments. I definitely have to set something up with him in the future!

Boys I saw Cade Maddox live and in the flesh tonight here at Decadence....OMG he is sexy. All the talk about him looking roided out is false. His body a perfect balance. Not to mention how nice and sweet he is. He was more than accommodating when I reluctantly interrupted his break from dancing at Oz to say hello. He simply flashed that beautiful smile and gave me a genuine thank you for the compliments. I definitely have to set something up with him in the future!

Boys I saw Cade Maddox live and in the flesh tonight here at Decadence....OMG he is sexy. All the talk about him looking roided out is false. His body a perfect balance. Not to mention how nice and sweet he is. He was more than accommodating when I reluctantly interrupted his break from dancing at Oz to say hello. He simply flashed that beautiful smile and gave me a genuine thank you for the compliments. I definitely have to set something up with him in the future!

Here's a recent thread on ERIK
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/eriksd-of-san-diego-travelling-to-dc.151532/
 
@harlow stated on Aug24 he met Erik
 

I met Erik last week while he was in DC. He is 100% worth it and I can't wait to see him again. We had similar backgrounds so talking with him was so natural and easy. Judging by the way our conversation went when I was setting things up with him I think I was communicating with him directly. I was having travel delays but kept him up to date on my progress and he was more than accommodating. Didn't feel like a middle man was involved at all. I didn't even know about the PJB ad until I saw this thread. At any rate go for it and if you don't I could care less...I don't want to share him with anyone!

I saw him last week. He's definitely legit

Yes this is very real. Just look at some Grindr profiles. I'm Black and when I find an escort that doesn't have any racial hang ups I'm so surprised. On several occasions I'v been turned down or ghosted when they find out I'm Black. I'm a successful put together clean cut guy and I've still had a door closed in my face by a provider. When they ask my race in a text I just think to myself oh no here we go again. Sometimes they're ok with it and other times they're not. I'm pretty fair skinned and one time I just sent my picture to a provider....we met had a good time and after it was over the conversation about my race came up. The whole time he thought I was Hispanic or "mixed". He kinda looked disappointed like I had tricked him into fucking a Black guy. I just flat out ask if they have an issue before I even try to make plans and waste my time. If you don't want my Black dick then you won't get my green dollars.