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I think both missed my main point. The gay bar scene is a b**ch for older gays but I handle my home strip club (Secrets) fine twice a week. The ages vary from 21 to 91 and blend. What I'm more concerned with is the tendency toward bitterness and irritability as one ages. I find myself avoiding many people as old or older than me now because of so much bitterness from them and am extremely sensitive of younger people accusing me of being a bitter old man when I get mad.

Why is California so much more?

The hotel industry varies prices amazingly by date. Las Vegas has always been at the forefront of this but most cities do so now. Off-season in DC they sell rooms for not much more than housecleaning costs. Peak season can get ridiculous. HotelTonight is great. So is Hotwire Hot Rate hotels, where they usually tell you the hotel now. Even peak times the Windsor Inn and the District in Dupont/Logan show up @$100 on Hot Rate. The Embassy Inn there is even nicer and not expensive. It's probably the #1 regular pick. The District is marginal but location, location, location.

I'm pretty sure Mueller, Dowd and Kelly don't spend many saturday nights in gay bars trying to hook up. Sure there are plenty of other ways to stay sexually active but I think for many gay men, especially here, becoming asexual is not an appealing alternative.

For many of us gay life is a cruel life to age in. A few gay men age very attractively but generally, it is a very youth-oriented life. Even if you're able to stay youthful in mind, the outward appearance is what you are often judged by. Harshly. Not uncommon to gay life, the real test is to stay inwardly and outwardly happy. It's all too common to get bitter and/or depressed as life begins to dim. Fading out gracefully is not easy to do. But hard as it is to do you must. Not for your popularity but for your own inner spirit. You owe it to yourself to stay as healthy as possible both physically and mentally. My own thing is to keep close friends of all ages, to travel, and to keep projects going that keep me physically active. But yup, many times I get so irritated with some people I wanna rip them a new asshole. That's life.

I've lately noticed that wifi at Kaiser Permanente has started blocking Boytoy lately but not the forums part of this site. PITA because cell signals won't reach into the building. I don't know what company does the filters but they seem to be getting stricter.

Weekends are a whole different topic price wise. There are a few hotels that stay the same....mostly the cheaper national brands. Also if you book government rate the Westin next to the eye ferris wheel stays low on weekends....probably the best weekend deal.

Nick is 100% perfect physically, mentally and erotically. Nicest guy ever. 25 but looks younger, beautiful smooth muscular body, intense smile, eager to please.

For 3 weeks an airbnb is almost the only answer. See if the Tube has weekly passes and how much......the Tube can be expensive. There may be cheaper buses. London has had cheap private car services for a while in several of it's towns and Uber is still working fine. Knightsbridge, South Kensington and Gloucester Road along Cromwell are full of hotels for a reason. Very close to most things. Earl's Court may be a walk too far. The City on the East End and the South Bank are not as convenient. Camden Town north of the center is very trendy now and relaxed. Check what are the trendy neighborhoods now if you like mixed residential. There is the "house with guys " too in Earls Court... Villa Gianni.... https://www.boytoy.com/forums/topic/22611-villa-gianni-in-london-uk/?tab=comments#comment-128669

A good % of FLL tax money comes from bars. They will keep them open. This is vice-versa to what happens most places where a small suburb would ban or heavily restrict bars. Wilton Manors is unique.

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I help some friends who come here to DC work from S.Florida. More clients here and easy. Hotels are extremely cheap in winter. Otherwise there are two or three good little hotels in Dupont/Logan always on Hotwire. There's a real shortage of providers in DC. Generally NYC/LA/DC are the big 3.

Confession time. I'm past racist. I have never been able to get an erection for anyone with brown eyes. Ive tried and tried. Contacts work but that's a lot to ask of a guy. At least on the first date. I'm an eye-contact person and to me with brown there is none. (I have brown eyes).

I wish I had a dollar for every "porn star retirement".

There are some boyfriends guys wish they could get down to $500 for every hour of sex.

I wonder if any of the Bel Ami guys refused to film with RR. Very likely because they will only do bareback with other Czechs, never Americans. And having unprotected sex with RR is like having unprotected sex with 500 Americans. Plus they start at 18 and are done early.

I wonder if any of the Bel Ami guys refused to film with RR. Very likely because they will only do bareback with other Czechs, never Americans. And having unprotected sex with RR is like having unprotected sex with 500 Americans. Plus they start at 18 and are done early.

A minute ago he finished filming a Bel Ami piece in Prague so this minute he's retired. Those of us lucky enough to get his IG to Prague saw Bel Ami paid for business class for him and Alam Wernik. And then Alam put his feet on the back of the seat in front of him.........going and coming. He's doing the QueerPlans.com travel with gay porn stars thing next.

It really is putting the cart before the horse. When you have a long-term developed affair with someone of course they are high on any list of whom you'd want to help. How I do it. To go to someone and say "If you'll develop a relationship with me I will leave you what I have" is not going to immediately peek the interest of any but the most hard-core who may not be beyond hastening the event. http://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/news/courts/sd-me-meza-sentencing-20171211-story.html Pamper them at first and then let the idea slip that you'd like to make sure they keep living this way. They'll start clinging.

They do randomly make people use the bag sizer at all airlines that have them (most do). Doesn't fit ? Counter check at up to $100. For both personal items and carryons, the issue is usually the size at the wheels. Many personal-item bags are advertised as 8" thick (the new rule) but at the bottom where the wheels are they are actually closer to 9". That stops it from going in the sizer no matter how hard you try to push or bend it. Carry-Ons have similar problems. Even if the bag you're buying says a certain depth, check it with a tape measure at the bottom where the wheels are. $100 surprises at the airport are no fun. European airlines lowered their carry-on limits to 8" depth a couple years ago and US lines are just catching up to that. Going from 9" to 8" has made a lot of money for the airlines in oversize fees, and fees are what the airline business is all about.

I think a luxury of an anonymous forum is that people can seek experiences of similar situations without being public. Everyone's situation is different financially and you have to be clear what yours is for your experience to useful.

I mean in some states a witness is not necessary to a holographic will but having at least one makes proof easier. One with two witnesses is a regular will but if it is in the deceased's handwriting then if it fails as a regular will for some reason it probably will be valid as a holographic will. Generally, states that allow holographic wills without witnesses still want witnesses that the handwriting is the deceased's. Handwriting experts also do. Virginia law: There is an exception for a will that is entirely in the testator's own handwriting. Such a will is known as a holographic will and is valid even without any witnesses (though there is a requirement that two witnesses who are familiar with the testator's handwriting testify that the alleged will is authentic). The following states recognize holographic wills made within the state : Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Idaho, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Michigan, Mississippi, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Jersey, North Carolina, North Dakota, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Virginia, West Virginia, and Wyoming. wikipedia

Yup-----"Locals only, must pick up."

Be wary of pre-nupts ! Many courts don't like to enforce them. There's an assumption the marriage would not have gone ahead without one which many courts consider coercion. Both sides have to have their own lawyers drawing them up, etc. Almost married with one then found out how troublesome and iffy they are.

"Holographic" wills are given much more weight because proving who wrote one is the major issue. In some states they don't even need witnesses at all and 2 witnesses is just added. Every state is different on holographic wills. Of course someone must execute the will so that takes fees while joint ownership is simple.