nycman

I was recently playing with a new “straight” fuck buddy. I figured I’d bring along a small dildo to get him used to the idea of having his ass played with. Two seconds into it he said...”I can do that myself bro.... I want you to FUCK me like dudes fuck!”...and with that the dildo hit the floor and we fucked, and sucked, and fucked, and sucked the rest of the afternoon away. Ya never know.....

Have you never been horny? It doesn’t always work that way.... Grin

I agree. It’s part of the time. Not saying it’s a great “business” move on his part....but it’s a fair one.

That’s not a parade....that’s a “stroll through Chelsea” on a Sunday afternoon.

He has hands?

I like having both. Nothing beats the familiarity of a fuck buddy that you get along with enough to become a “regular”..... Unless, it’s the torrid hot lust of a new fling. God I love men, and all our fickle ways!

Whatever evil link I hit that brought me to this long dead thread.....DAMN YOU! Although I did briefly find his writing style entraining. The content wasn’t nearly worth putting up with because of all the bullshit it contained. I agree, he's clearly the mentally “touched” love child of William Faulkner and James Joyce.

I abandoned my laptop in favor of a tablet a few years ago. I never looked back. Unless you need a laptop for work (e.g. lots of typing) I don’t see the point. Even then, I’d just get a detachable keyboard and mouse for my tablet and use them as needed. Laptops have essentially become useless in my world.

Saw it the other day. I didn't hate it, but certainly didn’t like it. Hated Orpheus....”last seen in Spider-Man Turn Off the Dark”....says it all. The child needs to give up the stage before his milk toast blah-ness destroys yet another show. It was fun to see De Shields slink into his role. Good but not great. Persephone was a mostly great. Eurydice...well no one really cares when she dies. The whole overblown, and pretty much irrelevant to the plot, Trump/Wall subplot takes its toll. Although Hades voice is impressive. One spinning turn table does not great choreography make. The “workers” seem like a desperate attempt to inject something sexy into a dull show. At least “the big dude” is nice to look at. “The Fates”...are sadly not used well at all. The entire show seems like a giant musical Frankenstein of mashed up parts. Bits of Rent, Little Shop of Horrors, Les Miserables, Book of Moron, The Wiz, and not one but Two Greek Tragedies are all painfully visible. In the end, too many ideas, too much borrowing, not enough originality or editing. At least they killed Eurydice.

“There’s no such thing as a free lunch”

For a newbie in Manhattan I’d say go with Hush. They are nice guys. They've seen it all. And they're professionals. I’ve never had a bad experience there and I’m pretty sure I’ve been with every therapist they have.

More power to him....if he can get it.

I’d also suggest keeping your expectations low. I’ve rarely had overnights work out well, even though the vast majority were with guys I had had incredible 1-2 hour sessions with before. If fact the few great overnights I’ve had were with guys I’d never hired before. Nonetheless, I don’t recommend it. I really enjoy having dinner with my escorts and I don’t mind paying for their company or their “time”, but I do find most overnight rates to be excessively high (especially in the US). At this point I stick with 1-2 hour sessions before dinner and then invite the escort to dinner if we’re really hitting it off. Most politely decline. No problem. I’d love to find a dude who can truly “escort” in all senses of the word. They are a rare breed.

Ummm.....one lesson you didn’t learn..... Warn others about losers so the rest of us don’t fall into the trap. Name names sister!

People are people. And sometimes some people are assholes. Don’t overthink it. Sounds like you’re a nice guy. Don’t stop being a nice guy because sometimes some people are assholes...including you and me. At then end of the day it’s a random dude who doesn’t really know you and doesn’t really care about you. It still sucks....but it’s not really that big of a deal. Chalk it up to experience.

I’m “one and done”. If you can’t take the time to even reply to a simple text, why should I bother? If the massage ever does take place, it always sucks. Unprofessional behavior is never limited to just texting skills. Even a brief “I’m unavailable” is enough for me to try again another time. Radio silence?...gets radio silence in return.

A big dicked versatile transsexual? Not THAT I would pay to see.....lol

$300......and he “specializes in therapeutic massages”?!?!?! You lost me.....

You got great advice here. Just one more thing....don’t get butt-hurt if he doesn’t respond to your request for another appointment. People are people. Some come into our lives for a brief moment never to return, others stay for a lifetime. And some come and go repeatedly for no clear reason. The one sure way to make them never return is to get bitchy or clingy about it. Just be thankful for all of the moments and keep on moving. There are too many fish in the sea to loose sleep over the one that wasn’t a perfect match.

Position - “ask me” How hard is it to say wether or not you take a dick up your ass?

Welcome to Philadephia!

Sounds like everyone is doing great! Thanks for the update.

Can’t we make a queer play...that isn't 7 fucking hours long for Christ’s sake? I don’t want to sit through 7 hours of ANYTHING....even an amazing 7 hour blow job....is too long!

That’s a torn biceps. He hot....but that’s a deformity....not an enormity.

I love when a dude shoots his load into the sheets while I’m fucking him. Doesn’t always happen....but when it does......!