nycman

I’ve been asked for a photo several times. In every instance, I’ve politely declined but sent a brief (and painfully honest) description of myself. That preserves my privacy and allows the provider some information so they can see if we’re a good fit or not. Honestly, I’d rather not see an escort who was struggling to perform because of my age, body, and/or looks. In all instances the escorts have gone through with the appointment without receiving a photo. Mostly the requests seem to come more from basic curiosity than from any real desire to screen clients. And everytime it’s been a good hire despite the lack of photos being provided. I thinks it’s a dumb business move on their part to ask....but I understand. If an escort seemed genuinely nervous about meeting without seeing a picture, and I really wanted to meet them, I would offer to meet on neutral territory (e.g. a Starbucks) with both of us reserving the right to walk away, no feelings hurt. If an escort insisted on a picture, I would assume we weren’t a match and politely move on. The take home message is...don’t ghost them because they requested a pic. Just politely decline. In my experience, you can still have a successful hire.

The Chinese are poisoning our balls so we create less humans to compete with them.... In the mean time...the Chinese are using “sperm extractors” to increase their population.... https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-7280395/Hands-free-vibrating-sperm-extractors-used-Chinese-hospitals.html Jesus....don’t you guys know anything?!?! grin

Yeah, I’d say Vegas is the “least gay“ of all my vacation spots. I go for sun, pool scenes, dinners, and spa time. Most the times I’ve gone out looking for anything “gay”....I’ve regretted it. Its a shame. If they had a fun gay club I’d book a table in an instant. Evidently there aren’t enough like me to support a year round business though.

Cash is King. Lesson learned.

That’s soooooo cute! He thinks Donna Summer’s “Last Dance”....is from The 80’s. That was 1978 baby.....a completely different era.

Strange....when I first looked at your post there was only the Coke ad. That’s the one I was talking about.

I’m embarrassed that I could sing along through the whole commercial.

Holy shit.....you paid $125,150 for an in-call?!?! Grin

Upright coach....my limit is 6 hours. Pseudo flat (which in my book is anything short of 180 degrees flat)...I despise. Flat.....I can do 12-30 hours pretty easily (Jet lag is another matter). Business vs First isn’t that important as long as I’m flat, my shoulders have room, and my legs are straight.

A rare disagreement with my luxury top brother...... I prefer the Four Seasons on the Bosphorus: https://www.fourseasons.com/bosphorus/ The Spa is amazing and dinner overlooking the Bosphorus is a welcome break after a hectic day in Istanbul. Admittedly, the one in Sultanahmet is in a much better location for tourism.

I don’t ask. I’m willing to roll the dice and risk $150ish in order to avoid Vice entrapment. No problem. I don’t leave satisfied with the massage?....I just don’t repeat. No problem.

I‘ve tried to hire him on several occasions. He never responded. I stopped trying.

I’ve recently been in Cape Town. It’s definitely not a ”safe“ city...at all. The streets are empty at night. You basically go from your hotel past security....into a waiting car...then out of your car at your destination, where security opens the car door and the door to your safe haven destination. Beautiful? Yes. Safe? Yes, as long as you stay within the limits of constant security. Two steps outside those lines....and you’re on you own....good luck! The whole place felt like a ticking racial time bomb waiting to go off. And, I couldn’t find an escort to save my life. Thankfully, the world class body builder / masseur in the spa was most accommodating.

Favorites: Pumpkin, pecan, sweet potato, and any cream pie....in that order. Hate most fruit pies. Apple is ok. Cherry, blueberry, strawberry and peach are all vile abominations.

I prefer oil. In fact, I prefer a certain brand of oil. I recently brought it with me to an appointment with a new therapist. He seemed insulted and basically refused to use it. “I use cream, it’s better”. Never hired him again. To answer the OP‘s question, I like to shower after a massage.

One of the nicest escorts I’ve ever met.

What a slacker!

We all have a price.

Oh hell yes! Why the fuck not? I want my money to go to people who cared for me, and whom I care about. While perhaps the vast majority of escorts wouldn’t qualify.....some would.

Trip Update. Jerusalem was fascinating. Tel Aviv thinks it's more interesting than it is. Think of a run down Miami, that's overrun with Brooklyn hipsters. When will I finally learn to just let BN be my spirit guide?

I think the pics with the “diappearing“ tattoo.....are pics of his “boy”. I made the same mistake.

But you’ve never in all these years experienced the best part of NYC...... grin

I’ve found masterbation solves every “male problem”.

I've used Botox in the past with great results. Do you mind me asking how much it cost?

Don‘t get your hopes up too high. As others have said it’s very hit or miss. Of course, it only take one real “hit” to make it incredible. That’s up to you. Just remember you’re at a bathhouse....not an afternoon tea. Most people will assume you’re there to get off.