nycman

I hate walking / running too. In fact, at the height of the local pandemic panic, I asked a work out buddy if we could go for a cross country run in the woods. His response?...”Wow, it’s gotten that bad, huh?” To answer the question, I’d suggest finding a trainer that can bring some workout equipment to your house. You don’t need much, you’re just looking to keep moving, not be the next Arnold. You avoid the unwashed masses, you get to spend some time with a cute dude, you get some exercise, and you don’t have to walk. Win, win, win, win.

Can anyone confirm if the pics are recent? I don't care if he's 92...if those are his real pics.

Eastern European = Avoid until verified. Even then, think twice. Such a simple formula.

It’s the Post, so don’t waste too much time on it. However, I do believe that masks will be with us for quite some time. Just like they became de rigueur for sick people in Asia after the last SARS outbreak.

I agree. The issue isn’t wether or not we think your friend is racist. The fact is you perceive his behavior to be racist. Personally, I’d have no problem hooking up with him. I’m looking to get off, not have an intellectual discourse on racial inequality in America. Then again, I’m really good a separating sex from love from friendship. Could I be his friend or boyfriend? Oh, hell no. Could I bend him over and fuck his ass all night long and maybe even get off on making that dumb ass racist my little bitch for the night? Oh, hell yes.

I think the therapist needs to acknowledge (at least to himself) that it will be an issue. Transference, counter transference, the whole messy life of the patient and the therapist is all a part of the therapy game. It happens in all therapy, wether or not the therapist was an adult entertainer. It just one more factor that may or may not enter into the mix. If the therapist can’t handle that, they should seek another profession. If the client can’t handle it, they should seek another therapist.

I especially avoid responding to PMs form Newbies. No matter how polite you try to be, they will incessantly pepper you with idiotic questions like “so did he fuck yer hole good”? I assume they are all Vice looking for a lead, and I move on. If you don't actively participate here, I don’t feel the need to help you. Even people I ”know“ get pretty generic responses like, “he looked like his pics, he was honest, and I had a good time”.

Define “escort”. While cash may have never graced my palm, I was a world class whore. I don’t regret a minute of it, and obviously now I hire.

As a random hook up once said to me.... ”I’m REALLY into you... and we’re gonna have great sex...... and I REALLY need great sex right now..... so please don’t talk and fuck this up.“

I agree. I’ve ventured out a few times. Sitting out side....not horrible. Not great. Staff is confused and slightly terrified. Inside is even worse. Strange table placement. Staff really terrified. Customers not much better. Not relaxing or enjoyable at all. And after all, isn’t that the point of eating out? To relax and enjoy a good meal. I applaud the effort, and I‘ll keep trying as well, but I’m not hopeful. Already a few places are starting to collapse under the burden of rent due. No doubt, there will be more soon.

What they meant to say was..... ”No seriously, he’s sick.”

One of my earliest crushes was on “Little Joe“ Cartwright. In fact, I‘ve still got a strong attraction to the real life “Little Joes” of the world. Confession, in my youth I thought Lou Reed’s line “ Little Joe never once gave it away” was about Little Joe Cartwright. Then college came. I discovered the real “Little Joe“ Dellasandro, and a whole new fetish sprang forth!

Last time I checked fist fucking one dude, never stopped me from just holding hands with another. Give your guy the benefit of the doubt.

Eastern European. Automatic pass from me.

I never thought he was cute, but yeah, those are some rough years.

I have it on pretty good authority that no one in the theater world is even talking about the possibility of Broadway reopening before 2022. They are just publicly saying “maybe Jan 2021” so they don’t have to refund the 2021 tickets....yet.

I’ve only observed Vin from a distance, but I have seen him interact with a client over several days. All I can say is I’ve never seen a more loving and human interaction between a client and an escort. Clearly, the client was a “regular” and it was an extended vacation, but I can tell you I was hell-a-jealous of the client the entire time. I’ve been trying to end up in the same city at the same time with Vin ever since. And while he is truly a stunningly attractive man, I’d say his “non-physical” assets are even 1,000 times more impressive.

I’m sorry you were in pain, but broken rib or not, you’re still better off without the narcotics. Trust me.

Funny, my greatest fear is being on a ventilator thinking......”Goddammit, I knew I should have hired one more escort before I died”. Grin

I don’t think the author of that article really understands the concept of “Pride”. If you’re focusing on the Muscle Marys.....then that’s all you’re going to see. True Pride is about so much more than that. Every Pride I’ve ever attended, has been an eye opening experience about the diversity and strength of our community. Yes there are some stunningly beautiful self centered young men (and I may have once even been one of them), but they have never been the heart and soul of Pride, and they never will be. In the words of Mother RuPaul, “if you can’t love yourself......”

I like it. Except when I accidentally grab it at the grocery store thinking its flat Italian parsley. Then I fucking hate the shit.

No.

I love cemeteries. Especially Gothic/Victorian ones. In my youth, I used to take first dates on picnics in the Laurel Hill Cemetery in Philadelphia. If you were into it, we were a match. If not, well....better that we find out early on, right? Needless to say, most dudes were NOT into it and I rarely got past the first date. And people wonder why I’m still single....lmao.

Goddamit Baller! I swore I wasn’t going to cry reading this thread anymore. Fuck you! And for the record, he‘s “the gentleman caller” in my book. Then again, I adore all things Tennessee Williams....so I may not be the best one to ask. Have fun bro.