nycman

Funny, my greatest fear is being on a ventilator thinking......”Goddammit, I knew I should have hired one more escort before I died”. Grin

I don’t think the author of that article really understands the concept of “Pride”. If you’re focusing on the Muscle Marys.....then that’s all you’re going to see. True Pride is about so much more than that. Every Pride I’ve ever attended, has been an eye opening experience about the diversity and strength of our community. Yes there are some stunningly beautiful self centered young men (and I may have once even been one of them), but they have never been the heart and soul of Pride, and they never will be. In the words of Mother RuPaul, “if you can’t love yourself......”

I like it. Except when I accidentally grab it at the grocery store thinking its flat Italian parsley. Then I fucking hate the shit.

No.

I love cemeteries. Especially Gothic/Victorian ones. In my youth, I used to take first dates on picnics in the Laurel Hill Cemetery in Philadelphia. If you were into it, we were a match. If not, well....better that we find out early on, right? Needless to say, most dudes were NOT into it and I rarely got past the first date. And people wonder why I’m still single....lmao.

Goddamit Baller! I swore I wasn’t going to cry reading this thread anymore. Fuck you! And for the record, he‘s “the gentleman caller” in my book. Then again, I adore all things Tennessee Williams....so I may not be the best one to ask. Have fun bro.

No.

A quick “this isn’t going to work”, and then I beeline for the exit. I’ll forgive 5-10 lbs., but more than that or any attempt to hustle me (e.g. “I get paid upfront”) ends in an immediate dismissal. Too many fish in the sea to put up with that kind of crap. I‘ve had a few stunned faces, the rare angry frown, and the occasional bitchy follow up text, but that’s all. They know they’re being deceitful and they know the drill. Trust me.

Looks like he’s doing this to fufill his own jollies. Not yours. Hard pass.

Ok, not what I was going to suggest, but let’s roll with it and keep it classy. Grin Best of luck on you future career Victor!

I fear the latter.

I fear the latter.

Can’t top Doesn’t bottom. That dog won’t hunt.

Can’t top Doesn’t bottom. That dog won’t hunt.

DT Huh? What? Oh....it’s a West Coast “thing”. Never mind.

DT Huh? What? Oh....it’s a West Coast “thing”. Never mind.

Being shaved by a hot naked man is incredible exciting to me. It’s scene for which I would pay a fortune to experience. Hell, I even got off on the infamous Herb Ritts Vanity Fair cover of k d land and Cindy Crawford. Despite a ton of gay people in the industry, I’ve never seen it offered.

I always thought there was a certain whift of the B&T about you. Just kidding, great story.

In the spirit of “anything by The Pet Shop Boys”.... Anything by Dead or Alive. And their entire “Nude” album. A copy of which was given to me the first time I broke a boy’s heart in 1988. It is an album that has gotten me through countless tear stained nights since. I will leave you with the penultimate song from that epic masterpiece of heart break...

Big. Just kidding, it’s Auntie Mame.

It’s just a word. Albeit a loaded word. Some men say “rape me”....when they are clearly not prepared to be “raped”. Even with safe words, it can go very wrong. Rough/manhandled sex? Sure no problem. ”Rape” you?.....yeah, pass.

Get new friends.

Yeah,.....Brooklyn. Nope.

I hate boats. So, no.

Suddenly, I’m willing to risk Corona and fly cross country to San Diego. Please someone find out if he’ll do the massage in those baseball pants......!