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Yes that was what I meant by black Americans being pitted against African immigrants. Many Americans think African immigrants are like the black model minority. Hard working, value education, never complain about racism or living in America. And compare them to black Americans, whom many Americans think are lazy, hate white people, hate the police, or whatever other negative stereotypes of black Americans are out there. But I always remember a true racist will hate you regardless of if you are a product of African immigrants or you are of black American descent. So it is best not to pit the black ethnicities against each other, and for the two groups to learn and understand each other better.

I’ve never heard of homosexuality being part of tribal hunting culture in many parts of Africa, though I’m not trying to negate your claim. All I know is most of Africa is very homophobic. With strict gender roles for men and women. Men work and make a living while the women do domestic things, stay home and raise the kids. Most Africans in the continent (not really the ones who have immigrated to America and Europe) are very conservative because of their religious beliefs.

I agree with your comment. But, Black American men and women have historically been pitted against each other for generations. It goes back to the days of slavery. Black women were seen as less of a threat. Nowadays you see African immigrants being pitted against Black Americans to an extent.

I don’t have the exact statistics but I do know the black female voter turnout is generally very high. Far higher than the voter turn out for black men. Most likely due to felony disenfranchisement, and having their voting rights stripped away.

I think volunteering is great. But in my own experience I have found some non profit organizations to be skeptical of using volunteers. I almost feel like some non profits are thinking what is this person really trying to get in return? I remember I wanted to volunteer for a local food bank, and I got an impression from them that they were thinking why would someone be looking to work for free? Plus they asked all sorts of screening questions, like if I had received food from the food bank before. Because they didn’t allow people who have received food from them to volunteer. Which I haven’t. I ultimately decided not to do it. I could be overthinking this, but this is just my experience.

I wouldn’t have it done on myself, but I don’t think it looks bad. Kind of has a bad boy vibe, like a tattoo or piercing.

I have been a fan of hers for a long time, and can’t wait for her new album release. I think she will dominate the pop music scene this year, like Taylor did last year. The song itself interpolates Madonna’s Vogue, while the music video is inspired by Paula Abdul’s Cold Hearted.

He has been discussed here before, he changes rentmen name frequently. Nevertheless I have hired him a few times and each time was great. His ass is beautiful.

A couple of people here mentioned Joan Rivers wasn’t as mean as Kathy Griffin. But Joan Rivers made some nasty jokes as well. Mainly fat jokes towards women celebrities, such as Oprah and Adele. I don’t ever remember Kathy calling a woman fat. Probably because she stated she has overcome an eating disorder before. She even defended Britney in her 2007 vma performance when people were calling her fat. I love Joan’s humor as well, but she was no angel either.

I’m pretty sure the Darius Long from DC on rentmen was a white guy of Mediterranean descent.

No it’s not the same guy.

I actually think Kathy Griffin is hilarious, and a very funny comedian. I love it when she makes fun of pop stars like Britney in particular (whom I adore). She never really says truly mean things about her, and you can always tell she respects Britney and makes jokes out of admiration for her.

I’ve had maybe one or two people directly ask me if I’m gay in a social setting. But they were straight, and intentionally trying to be rude and homophobic. I’ve had managers from work and coworkers ask me if I have a girlfriend or if I’m married, on many different occasions. Personal life questions do come up often, and you just have to know how to answer them. It’s something that gives me social anxiety.

I’m not entirely convinced that someone being homophobic usually means they are closeted gay. I think some people are just haters. When I went through school in the early 2000s, people definitely knew what the word gay meant. And it was always used as an insult. Teens would say things like, that’s so gay, or you’re so gay. I remember effeminate kids being bullied as well. I don’t know how things are now in the middle and high schools, or if any progress has been made in the use of the word gay as a slur.

I agree. I think her face looks great, considering her age.

I’ve had providers reach out to me who were traveling from out of state, letting me know they will be visiting my city again. It is kind of annoying because I’m not always interested in hiring or have the money to hire.

I don’t know the exact statistics. But I believe most escorts tend to be top or verse/top anyway. I think the OP @socurious is a top. I would think a sizable amount of clients are looking for an escort to top them, so not always the other way around. So the question is would he be willing to top someone or be able to get it up for someone he might not be physically attracted to.

Yep. Hiring is not just for the guys who are too old or unattractive or can’t get laid without paying someone. There are so many reasons why I prefer hiring over grindr.

I know that there is this stereotype that most clients are unattractive, old, out of shape, and can’t get laid unless they pay someone. But if you found a client hot enough would you ever hit them up for a non paid hookup? I’m not specifically talking to you, this question is for other providers as well. 🙂

True with number 3. That is what I was thinking. Why would an escort hookup with someone for free even if the other guy were hot and sexy, when they can get paid to hookup with someone.

I figured that, but I always assumed that escorts don’t go on Grindr because people would think they are looking for generous clients. And I know hiring for escorts is specifically banned on Grindr and other hookup apps. So I wasn’t sure. That’s why I posed the question, if escorts aren’t on Grindr how do they find hookups for nsa fun or do they even do free hookups. 🤔

I actually like licking hairy balls, but for the hole, I prefer smooth.

How do providers find guys for hooking up, outside of clients paying you? Do you go on the hookup apps? I know most escorts don’t hire other escorts, so if they are getting laid for free, where do you go to meet other guys for NSA hookups? Or are most providers in long term open relationships?

Looks hot. I never met him but would like to.

I agree with this. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we all like different types, but if I’m paying, the other guy needs to be very hot, not just average. Of course looks are subjective. It would be different if it was a free meetup, or meeting someone on Grindr. I don’t particularly find MikeAustin attractive and wouldn’t hire him, but I’m sure he is someone else’s type.