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I’ve never met him, but he’s changed his screen name. He’s been on rentmen under drakex for a long time. You can also search drakex on this forum.

I’m actually considering relocating to Dallas or Atlanta. Dallas I believe has a cheaper cost of living, but Atlanta is much closer to where I live in the southeast. I love Latino men, and I think Dallas has more of them compared to Atlanta. Does anyone know how the gay lifestyle compares to Dallas and Atlanta? I think Atlanta is gayer overall per capita.

I’ve met him twice. He is good. His ass is a bit hairy, and I normally prefer naturally smooth or shaved guys to rim. But other than that I enjoyed him.

I’m a person of color, not to say people of color can’t be racist, because that isn’t true. So I’m going to be honest. I’ve never been sexually attracted to an oriental man. I’ve never been with an oriental man. Or even liked watching oriental porn. I love them as people, and friends, and their culture, but not in a sexual way. I’ve been around orientals since childhood, as I am in an artistic field that is dominated by people of the orient. I am however attracted to Indian men, and recently started watching some great gay Indian porn. (That is why I said oriental instead of Asian, not to be derogatory) But I’m sure a lot of gay Asian men aren’t into black/African men either. Has nothing to do with being racist it’s just what turns you on. Racism is about respect.

Shawn didn’t put on a show at coachella, he was just there watching. In fact Shawn hasn’t had a hit in years. His last album flopped. His music careers is already down the tubes. He has nothing to lose. He has stated he is not gay. Maybe he is in the closet, or maybe he is bi? Maybe he only has romantic feelings for Camila, and nothing sexual for women? I think at this point asking someone who has repeatedly said they are not gay to come out of the closet, is almost the equivalent to outing someone.

I’m all about giving people the benefit of the doubt when it comes to sexual orientation. I mean who would fake kiss a woman to prove to be straight? I frankly don’t think he’s lying when he says he isn’t gay. I think there is a bit of wishful thinking from the gay community wanting Shawn to be gay.

Looks like Shawn and Camila are back together. They were spotted kissing at Coachella.

Good insight. I agree. I get burnt out of my artistic field as well, especially when I feel I don’t measure up, get rejected or receive negative criticism, which I’m more likely to take personally. I guess that’s why I yo-yo back in forth between the two fields. I need to avoid all or nothing thinking.

I did take before pictures but I deleted them. So it’s hard to tell if I had results or not. Definitely nothing significant.

I actually did four treatments on my butt. But only one treatment on my abs, because it was too uncomfortable for me to want to continue on that part of the body.

I agree. I don’t see a flabby belly either. His physique is great.

Most likely a tummy tuck.

Thanks for all the helpful advice you guys. I know I was pretty vague, but just wanted not to disclose everything about myself. Yes my “passion” is in an artistic field, as some of you might have figured out. I work part time doing my craft, and it does pay my gas and help out with little things. But it’s not enough to survive and pay my rent alone. I don’t necessarily hate the other field, and I can make a lot more money, I just burn out quickly doing it. But I may just need to fake it until I make it.

Do you think it’s better to follow your passion as a career, or follow the money? I find myself torn in pursuing a career, because in the field that I’m passionate about, generally doesn’t pay enough to make a living easily on it’s own. On the other hand the field that offers the higher pay, and status, and the opportunity to make a comfortable living, I find uninteresting and burnout quickly when doing jobs in that particular field. What would you choose? Are you passionate about your job and making a great living?

12. The summer before starting seventh grade.

He doesn’t bottom. He is an alpha dom, which I’m into. He does do half hour sessions, and his rate is lower for them. On his rentmen, his orientation sometimes says bi then sometimes he switches it to straight.

I have to admit, though definitely not a fan, Ron Desantis was a hottie back in his younger days.

This the one? I find him attractive even with the tattoos. https://rentmen.eu/THEVALENTINO/

Justin Timberlake from his early Nsync days.

I know that having an appetite for sex is healthy. But I think the question is if porn and hiring escorts is different from having casual sex with a partner. I feel like I need porn as a visual and aural stimulation to be able to masturbate. It may be considered an addiction. Only one therapist I had talked to told me I should just masturbate in bed without watching porn. She said watching porn is an addiction. She also told me I should stop hiring escorts as well. She didn’t say sex was an addiction. She encouraged me to go to gay bars and date, but not pay for sexual encounters. I may be addicted to hiring, because all my extra money goes to having sexual encounters, which could be used for other things.

The only lie I can think of is if an escort asks what my name is I don’t give them my real first name. I usually just tell them my middle name.

I used to get turned on too when I had a hot dentist who would stick their gloved hands in my mouth. Like you I didn’t get hard but I loved the feeling.

I’ve had lipo on my abdomen. It works. The only thing is afterwards I had loose skin in my lower abdomen. I had to get a mini tummy tuck where they remove skin from below the belly button. Keep in mind things like coolsculpting and even lipo aren’t meant for major weight loss. Just body contouring. I tried one session of Emsculpt on my abs. It was not comfortable, and in my opinion it was borderline painful. I can’t say I notice a dramatic difference. I also tried Emsculpt on my butt, and it was very tolerable, no pain, felt like a massage. No major difference either yet.

He’s not like that at all actually. He asked me beforehand what I wanted to get into. He was very accommodating. For me he was just to submissive for my taste. I think he would do well with a dominant type of guy.

I’ve talked to several therapists over the years. Only one of them told me watching porn and hiring escorts was an addiction. Most of the others said it was a good coping mechanism, and had no problems with it. The dsm doesn’t list sex addiction as an actual disorder. My problem is I feel like I can’t romantically be attracted to a person. I only seek out sexual only relationships, which is why I hire escorts. I think I’m aromantic, but definitely not asexual. I’ve never been in a longterm relationship or been in love. Just hookups. For me it’s satisfying my needs, because if I was in a relationship it would have to be an open one. I can’t imagine having sex with just one person for the rest of my life.