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I don’t know the exact statistics. But I believe most escorts tend to be top or verse/top anyway. I think the OP @socurious is a top. I would think a sizable amount of clients are looking for an escort to top them, so not always the other way around. So the question is would he be willing to top someone or be able to get it up for someone he might not be physically attracted to.

Yep. Hiring is not just for the guys who are too old or unattractive or can’t get laid without paying someone. There are so many reasons why I prefer hiring over grindr.

I know that there is this stereotype that most clients are unattractive, old, out of shape, and can’t get laid unless they pay someone. But if you found a client hot enough would you ever hit them up for a non paid hookup? I’m not specifically talking to you, this question is for other providers as well. 🙂

True with number 3. That is what I was thinking. Why would an escort hookup with someone for free even if the other guy were hot and sexy, when they can get paid to hookup with someone.

I figured that, but I always assumed that escorts don’t go on Grindr because people would think they are looking for generous clients. And I know hiring for escorts is specifically banned on Grindr and other hookup apps. So I wasn’t sure. That’s why I posed the question, if escorts aren’t on Grindr how do they find hookups for nsa fun or do they even do free hookups. 🤔

I actually like licking hairy balls, but for the hole, I prefer smooth.

How do providers find guys for hooking up, outside of clients paying you? Do you go on the hookup apps? I know most escorts don’t hire other escorts, so if they are getting laid for free, where do you go to meet other guys for NSA hookups? Or are most providers in long term open relationships?

Looks hot. I never met him but would like to.

I agree with this. I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we all like different types, but if I’m paying, the other guy needs to be very hot, not just average. Of course looks are subjective. It would be different if it was a free meetup, or meeting someone on Grindr. I don’t particularly find MikeAustin attractive and wouldn’t hire him, but I’m sure he is someone else’s type.

When I was in high school back in the day, someone once teased me for wearing a Mossimo watch from Target. After that incident I saved up to buy myself a Fossil watch which were popular at the time. 😂

I met him years ago, when he advertised on adam4adam. I do remember having a good experience. His rate he requested at the time was very low like under 80 dollars, but it was more like a quickie. I did leave satisfied.

I've met him once. Very hot experience.

Do you mind sharing what happened? You can pm me if you don’t want to post it here. I have thought about hiring him. His pictures are very dated, and I wonder what he looks like now.

I think a lot of old money folks drive nice cars, but nothing ostentatious or flashy. Something practical and reliable like a lexus, volvo, bmw, mercedes, or suv. But they are more likely to spend their money on real estate that appreciates quickly. Like on homes in a particular zip code or part of town that is established, usually in close proximity to the most prestigious country club in town.

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Same here.

A little off topic. But I never found any of the guys she previously dated to be my type. But her current boyfriend, Travis Kelce is probably the hottest guy she has ever dated, and I find him very sexy.😍

My therapist recently did a sex addiction screening on me. While I didn’t qualify as a sex addict by a few points, she was concerned about my exposure to porn starting at an early age and my hiring of escorts. She said like other addictions, sex addicts don’t care about the risks associated with the addiction, and often pursue more progressively risky activities to get their fix, similarly to a drug addict.

I’m pretty sure his age is accurate. I met him when he was 25. And he has updated his age every year since then. He looks good. I had a couple of hot times with him. But I did incall sessions with him hosting.

Target to me is actually upscale, at least compared to walmart where I normally shop for basic items. I know many people with money who shop at Target.

Yes I’ve met him. He’s definitely real. Pics are accurate. Recommended.

For me I think coming out is almost like an everyday occurrence. People always ask me if I have a girlfriend. Including some of my previous bosses and coworkers. I remember I was eating donuts alone at a krispy kreme shop and a lady facetiously asked me “does your girlfriend know that you’re eating krispy kreme donuts without her?” I just chuckled and told her I’m single. I wasn’t just going to tell her that I’m gay and into guys. I’m a pretty masculine acting guy so people just assume I’m straight. At this point I’m done sweating over having to acknowledge being gay every day. Though I wouldn’t say I’m closeted, I’m just fairly selective of whom I choose to tell or let know.

I will admit I’m a diehard Britney fan. So I’m slightly biased here. People always criticize her for being manufactured, when she is in fact not. It was a different time in the 90s. Pop singers didn’t really have to write their own songs, as long as they could sing. Britney had great vocals early on in her career, and had to audition for three record companies covering a Whitney Houston song “I have nothing.” She was rejected by two and one said yes. She had a barbie doll image and can dance, yes that helped her but she was extremely talented as an underage teenager. Where as Taylor her real talent lies in her songwriting. Plus her dad was a rich financier and made business dealings with record companies in order for Taylor to become famous as a country singer. So in reality Taylor’s career was bought for her and Britney who literally grew up in the country in Louisiana worked her way up from nothing to the point of having songwriters, producers, and choreographers clamoring to collaborate with her. Britney is the true rags to riches story.

I didn’t know jacking off in the morning was such a common thing. I jack off before I go to bed since it makes me sleepy.

It’s funny because it seems many gay men have great relationships with their mothers and not as great relationships with their fathers. Me growing up my experience was the opposite. My mother rarely showed affection to me, and we argued a lot. I always thought she was mean and cold at times. My dad wasn’t affectionate in a touchy way, but we talked a lot and he was always willing to listen to my problems, while my mom was more dismissive. Sometimes I even question if my poor relationship with mother is why I have same sex attractions. I know we are “born this way”, but I still think about the what ifs.