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Can you elaborate? His profile sometimes pops up in my city. And I have been curious.

For me it’s convenience and also safety like someone else mentioned before. For example I was on a grindr hoping to meetup with a guy, and of course exchanging pics. Til he said he prefers smooth butts not hairy ones like I have. Which prompted me to start getting my butt hair lasered. Plus the endless ghosting is a problem on grindr. Though I am guilty of ghosting other people as well. With the safety aspect, I know with verified reviews and money on the line, I can always just pay them off and leave if something goes wrong, and don’t risk going to a strangers house that could be catfishing or a creep.

I started lasering my butt and hole again. I now get treated using the candela laser. It does seem to be working great so far. But takes multiple treatments to work.

Also wanted to point out, while someone receiving oral or topping is usually the dominant partner, rimming can go either way. A person rimming someone else can be seen as the dominant one or it could be a submissive act. I do think specific sex acts can define dominance and submission. I naturally veer on the submissive side, and love to give pleasure, and feel dominated. Whether that be being verbally degraded by dirty talk, giving oral, or rimming another guy. I don’t particularly enjoy receiving pleasure, like getting oral or topping. I like the other guy to take the lead.

It’s very common in the southern United States for people to address others older or more senior than them as sir or ma’am. It’s simply a sign of respect.

I met him a few times over the past few years. While he is equally hot in person as his pics, and has the most amazing ass, he was incredibly rude by text message. Wasn’t sure if it was a roid rage issue.

Neutral experience here. While he is a very nice guy and great conversationalist. He just wasn’t what I was looking for. He is skinnier and much leaner in person than what is portrayed in the ads. Which some others might prefer. But me, I like muscle men. He is also slightly on the effeminate side. Which again some others might prefer as well, but not me. Overall wouldn’t repeat. Raphabrazilian - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Raleigh, NC | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Raleigh, NC - Raphabrazilian: RAPHA HUNG

I don’t think the socioeconomic status is the issue. Where I live there are many public swimming pools in all parts of town and in neighborhoods of various economic status. I grew up with access to swimming pools, and swimming lessons starting at age 5. But, I still won’t go in water unless I can stand in it. But that’s just me personally. I think whites are just more into seafaring activities. Especially where I live in the southeast, many white families can trace their lineage to the pirate eras and the revolutionary war. If their ancestors came here sailing on a ship, I would think it would just be more natural, that they would know how to swim, sail, operate a boat, etc.

Ok. I was looking at his stats, where he lists himself as top.

His ad says top. I don’t understand why someone who tops, would be looking for another top, to bottom or even give oral to them. Might be better off looking for a vers or a bottom.

I get what you are saying, but I don't think being young equals being attractive, and vice versa. There are many guys I find sexy that are in their 60s. I even find myself fantasizing about my boss who’s in his 60s. He’s in shape with a handsome face. On the other end, there are some guys in their 20s and 30s that I don’t find attractive or hot at all.

The “straight” escort I used to meet with doesn’t kiss, suck, or rim clients even for pay. Which would be a deal breaker for many gay clients either way. Ironically he doesn’t mind bottoming for clients that want to top him.

I kind of agree to this. One of my regular providers I used to see identifies as straight. He is married to a woman and has four kids. According to him, he is gay for pay. He would never seek out sex with a man without being paid for it. But he told me he would pay to have sex with a woman, and told me he has had sex with over 100 different women in his lifetime. I don’t think he is bisexual, because he doesn’t seek out male companionship unless he is being paid as I mentioned. (Though he has said he would pay to have sex with a trans woman). He does perform very well and has no problem getting it up, and cumming in my mouth at the end of our sessions. He even told me I’m his go to guy for getting sucked and rimmed. I personally would never be able to get it up for a woman, and have no desire to, even if they paid me by the hour. So I couldn’t even imagine being straight for pay.

I think a lot of escorts who bottom don’t like to give oral. Even some escorts that I know of who are strictly tops, would rather take it up the ass than suck a client’s dick.

Michael?