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@dutchal - I definitely paid a kings ransom..... aka his posted rate, lol. I thought abt the session some more, he did eventually get completely naked. Again decent massage skills but we just didn’t connect. The experience left me wanting more and to be fair this was probably all on me.

Sergey for the rim, the length and thickness and for the erotic factor

Yes to so much of the above advice. I love this forum for very practical advice. Where temptation really goes off the rails is when what you are really doing is paying for the excitement and risk of the new masseur with whom you may hit the jackpot. Most of the time (with new guys you don’t know) rhey rarely « measure up to the demands of the temptation and is often disappointment. It’s a waste of time and money. Just remember that horrible moment of walking away from the dude who had no massage skills for whom you paid waaaayyy to much for what was never ever going to be delivered. « Getting a grip » on the urge always helps ?

Looks like with more practice, he may turn out to be a very good experience in the future as long as he keeps the willing and able. ?

You're right. Some would argue that if Wilde had followed his own advice, ignored the Marquess of Queensbury, and gone abroad for a time his life would have turned out differently.
 
On topic though, I agree with Big Dale above that if a guy truly has an addiction to massage then professional help is warranted. For many of us, temptation is tempered by our bank account and the demands of day to day living.

The great thing about this forum is i always finds people who have the similar issues. I love the process of hunting up a massage, getting ready for it, thinking about what's to come. Then, after it's done and the money's gone, nine times out of ten there is a feeling of.......MEH!!

Amen!!! Masturbation:
1.) prevents STDs
2.) reduces stress
3.) lowers blood pressure
4.) mitigates mercy fucks
5.) prevents going on bad dates
 
the list goes on...

Jacking off usually works...

If you want a masseur to start a massage while you're wearing underwear (or draped with a towel, which is easier), and then gradually slide his hands under the towel or the underwear, JUST TELL HIM THAT'S WHAT YOU WANT HIM TO DO, and turn the session into a scripted role-play. I've done that, and we both enjoy it. I also tell him to begin the massage in his underwear, and then take it off without my knowledge, and suddenly appear, standing directly in front of me, with his junk in my face. Very sexy and lots of fun!

Thanks for sharing your experience. You just saved me the time, money and disappointment. And sorry you had a bad experience

When i hear of something like this i mark the ad and copy and paste it to my “Hell No” file on my computer. I check this folder every time i am thinking of seeing someone new or looks familiar and this research step has saved me lots of times . I also ,if i can, block that individual on the various RM and Rent masseur sites as well so they do don’t show up when i search the sites. Of course if they change their screen name they pop up hence while my “refresher” folder comes in handy

Great ass in his private pics! and a promising tool as well.

DEFINITELY Carlos in NYC. Amazing. Round, beautiful.
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Puertoricanstudd

$60? Wow. I’d rather spend $55-60 plus some to be determined tip for an hour massage.

$60? Wow. I’d rather spend $55-60 plus some to be determined tip for an hour massage.

I'm glad you didn't post the masseur's name. Based on what you've written, you should have ended the communication when you found out that you that he was conducting business where you wouldn't be comfortable.

Once you knew it was a dump why did you keep on? So what where the parking is located would that have changed your mind? I doubt it so why keep pestering him. I understand his getting annoyed but of course he shouldn’t have blown up your phone after that. You guys were two peas in a pod in a way haha.

Yes I am. I have been a total of 5/6 times on the past 2 years and I always leave very happy. As I have said, don't expect the best massage per se in NYC, but....
He has a very enjoyable asset on the front of his body as well

That's a bit unrealistic, given that what many of these guys do in the name of massage is illegal. The best you can do is be critical of their business practices here and hope that some of these guys read it and consider your advice.
 
There has always been a hustle aspect associated with sex services for money. Many sex workers see their work as a legit opportunity to upsell, no different than a rental car agent selling extras. The more product you sell, the more you can charge. It's about making money. Some guys wish to conduct their business this way, while others prefer not.
 
There is a lot of choice out there. I prefer the non-hustle types, but if a certain look appeals to you, the temptation to book a hustle can take a pinch out of your wallet. I think Omar is hot, and if he wants to suck my cock during the massage, I'm afraid I might be willing to pay extra for that, even if I didn't know about it in advance. It's not like he is allowed to advertise that. A hot man nibbling at my ear during a massage and asking to provide oral @ $25 extra can have a strange and intoxicating power over me. You just have to be sure to bring extra cash.

End of October is Fantasy Fest, which has likely sold out Island House for nearly the last year.
 
Wait until it's over. First or second week of November.
 
https://www.fantasyfest.com/

Read the latest issue of PASSPORT magazine. There's an excellent article regarding KeyWest. I enjoyed reading it, for I compared some of the content to what I experienced when I ventured there some years back.

Alex works at Utopia, or at least he used to several months ago. He's Venezuelan. He's hot, too!

Just left Jorge at Shangrila. It was amazing. Better the second time around. Even hotter than I remember. So cute with his glasses on. He’s a keeper.

Also remember that your experiences with a masseur, may be exclusive to YOU.
 
Giving explicit details to the wrong person could result in some jerk with no manners, reaching out to the masseur, hoping on his table, and literally asking for the exact same thing you experienced, as if he’s ordering from the dollar menu, and then saying “you did this for xxx”....
 
Definitely get a feel for the person who is asking the questions, and ensure they aren’t a jerk with involuntary celibate tendencies, before sharing such info...

Yes it can be. Hit or miss.