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  1. 15 minutes ago, Gadfly22 said:

    Just back from biking and I saw my guy again and just like last time he was shooting baskets by himself. This time it wasn’t about to rain so I continued my ride. When I got back he was still there so I took a break and watched him for a while. After about 10 minutes he started to get his things together to go. My heart was racing. He walked back using the same shortcut path through the middle of the park that he did the previous time I saw him but this time I was sitting there quietly sipping on my bottled water trying not to look too obvious. He got closer and I was like ok finally my dream is about to come true! He got closer and closer.  I didn’t dare look up, I just listened. He got to where I was..... and kept going. No acknowledgement whatsoever. I guess I should have expected that. Like someone said in a previous thread - rejection is best when its blunt. 😔 The whole thing had a very Third Man feel to it.

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=N8Njr-jbj2s

    Maybe I’ll go to the beach tomorrow. 😐

    You didn't actually make contact, so I wouldn't view this as a rejection, because he had nothing to reject. If you were waiting for him to make contact, his not doing so is not a rejection--he merely did not do what you hoped. Right now you're just a guy he may have noticed watching him, and that might even make him a little uncomfortable. Have confidence in yourself & try talking to him. Maybe it will lead somewhere (possibly just a short exchange, possibly more), or maybe not, but it's worth a try. 

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