Vegas_Millennial

I've hired a few hundred guys. Only one asked for a deposit, which I did not give so we never met. Only twice have I missed an appointment. Both involved me falling asleep in the middle of the afternoon while on holiday. Both times I apologized and tried to make it up to the provider by meeting later and paying extra. Now I try to schedule where they come to me, and/or at a different time of day where I'm less likely to be interrupted by a nap.

When I book a masseur, I am looking for a genuinely good massage... At least for the first 90 minutes of a 2 hour session. What happens in the last 30 minutes of a 2 hour session is unexpected. I will tell you this: I won't return to a masseur who gave a mediocre massage but threw in a happy ending. But I will always return to a masseur who gives a thorough deep tissue massage, and just happens to brush up against the goods at the very end.

Happy Protestant Reformation Day for those who celebrate. And a little bit of home state trivia: October 31 is Nevada Day. Nevada citizens ratified their state constitution on October 31, 1864.

Hula's bar is the gay bar with the best view. Get there in the afternoon to start drinking, and enjoy the view of Diamond Head from the 2nd floor bar open windows.

That's me. I had frequent unprotected penetrative sex for years before I ever kissed someone. For some, kissing is more of an emotional connection reserved for the very closest in their life. It's not about risk; it's about emotions and relationships. A previous partner and I were allowed to penetrate and be penetrated by others; but, we agreed not to kiss others. It worked well for us.

To the original question of "What is considered acceptable healthcare in your country?", It sounds like: In Canada, it is acceptable to wait for months or years to see a new doctor or for a procedure. It is acceptable to pay high taxes now for security to know you won't be hit with a surprise expense later. In the United States, it is acceptable for patients to elect to pay for drugs, procedures, and doctors that may be out of network or not generic, if that's what better suits the patient. It is acceptable to pay more out of pocket for healthcare because you've had the opportunity to work and save for it. It is acceptable to forgo routine healthcare if the patient priorities spending co-payments on other aspects of their lives.

The "gay district" in Honolulu is the same as the generic tourist district, which is Waikiki. All 4 gay bars on the island, and one video arcade, are in Waikiki within a few blocks of each other. There is one gay night club, only open on weekends, in downtown Honolulu, but the reviews say most of its patrons are straight female tourists. Most of the gay tourists I met for interaction were via Grindr or Growler in Waikiki, not at the bars.

I don't kiss or receive oral from most of the men I hire. There's so much more to do in an hour that I prefer!

You may get a better response rate if you change the phrasing of your questions. For example: "Hello, I am looking for a massage on a table with massage lotion (not oil). I am a big guy at over 6ft tall and 300 pounds. Do you have the table and lotion to accommodate a man of my size?" See what I did? It's just one question he can answer "yes" to without back and forth.

A few years ago I was hypnotized on stage in front of an audience. While under hypnosis I was instructed to pretend I was auditioning for porn casting with 2 chairs on stage. It was fun!

To add... I've never asked an escort about their testing status or their meds. I take responsibility for my actions, not theirs.

As a client, I take it as my duty to get tested regularly for all STIs, and notify my partners including escorts if I've tested positive for anything after our encounter. I let my partners including escorts know my status up front, what prescriptions I'm taking to prevent STIs, and that I prefer bareback. In summary, I act like a responsible adult and found my partners and escorts do as well. I've only ever had a masseur decline to meet with me once because I was not vaccinated against the 2019 Chinese coronavirus.

I sailed 5 sea days each direction from San Diego to Honolulu then back with Celebrity cruises (on a smaller ship that is now decommissioned). There were a few rough days where I stayed low and center in the ship. But overall it was more pleasant than flying and I would do it again.

If gay men are finding it difficult, my advice is to use more lube 😉 That, and other safer sex accommodations like beds or slings placed at the appropriate height, and the use of a safe word, could help reduce injuries and deaths by the participants like the subject of this thread.

Or Orthodox, or Muslim, or Islam, or Atheist, etc., Let's not discriminate.... We're all hypocrites and occasionally do things in secret that we don't condone in public.

For me it's the opposite. Making out is fine for me, but I get a sore throat when I deep throat someone. That's why I try to move from making out to anal with only a little oral if they are big.

Unfortunately that is becoming the norm on many cruise lines who now have exclusive restaurants, swimming pools, and lounges reserved for suite occupants. (Celebrity and Norwegian come to mind). At least Cunard still enforces a formal dress code for evening dinners and entertainment. It is ludicrous to attend an "exclusive" restaurant for a five course meal only to be sat next to people wearing Tshirts and denim.

I will make sure to attend this church when I visit Poland!

I was quite sick the day after I received my vaccine from the pharmacy at my supermarket. I don't blame the supermarket. It's our immune system doing what it's supposed to do.

What was wrong with that?

The topic title is asking for information about a masseuse. Not too many men on this forum have experience with a masseuse. You may get more attention if you changed the title. I only clicked on the thread to see if men were actually reviewing a female in this forum.

Yes, there is. One is male. The other is female.

His advertisement says he's a masseur, not a masseuse.

Given the shockingly horrid remarks of students and clubs at universities recently, any new language generated by universities should be taken cautiously instead of becoming the norm.

That's s small price to pay if it prevents a death. I consider it a bargain, even without insurance.