Redwine56

https://rentmasseur.com/Tylerwinchester
 
new guy? anyone tried?

Anyone have any experience with this young man and his blissful hands?
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/handsofbliss.shtml

I don’t mean hands.
 
Sure, you want a great massage from a skilled man, and you hope he’ll be handsome, kind and have strong arms. But don’t you wonder: Of all the masseurs in Los Angeles, who has the biggest (longest...thickest...) D in town?
 
Asking for a friend ;-).
Thanks.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/mrgomez.shtml
 
damn... another hot newbie... anyone?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/xavier_nyc.shtml

Bump!

I have my eye on two guys in Ft. Lauderdale for a massage... both have a lot of reviews, but nothing on the board. Anyone have any experience? Wondering what the boundaries are for each, and how good the actual massage is. PM if you prefer.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/relaxforyou.shtml (Albert)
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/strongesthands2.shtml (David)

You've got to try Tony at Utopia. He was formerly at Greenhouse.

You've got to try Tony at Utopia. He was formerly at Greenhouse.

Any info?
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/ginosmassagenyc.shtml

As my Wicked favorite Idina Menzal sang.. “Let it go, let it go, And I'll rise like the break of dawn.”

I only ask a “legit” masseur after I’ve seen them several
times and we’re comfortable with each other. Several
times they’ve offered without my even requesting.
They usually say something along the lines of “This
sheet is just getting in the way. You don’t seem like the
“shy” type. Are you cool if we just get rid of it”.
 
None of them have seemed to care at all. None of them
became more sexual as a result though either.
 
A “blanket” during a massage is a deal killer for me.
If it’s “spa policy”....I get up off the table and make it
their problem. “I’m sorry, I didn’t know this is the kind
of sleazy place where proper spa etiquette might be
perceived as a “problem”. I will be getting dressed
and leaving now to find a more professional spa”.

https://www.massagem4m.com/masseur/18386/
 
any experience with this guy? He's so close to me.. would be nice to make him a regular.

Try Utopia Spa, on Lexington Ave & 70th St. Most of the masseurs are young Chinese men, who are like their place of work, welcoming and clean. They give good massages, and you may get some "extras" also. $60 for 60 minutes, and you should tip well, as they work hard!

You guys are all so cool. I hope these responses helped LA Doug from "feeling so awful."

Please let me know when he is coming to NYC again. When I saw this post, I realized that I owed all of you guys who recommended a session with Ian while he was in NYC a great big "Thank You"! I was fortunate to manage 2 sessions with Ian before he returned to Honolulu. He was absolutely fabulous. He doesn't compare to anyone else that I've seen since. Not only did he give a great message but the sensuality component was just unbelievable. A nice, sweet guy as well. Just a memorable experience that I'd love to repeat.

Hi there, hoping that someone has some feedback about this guy.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/magusmassage.shtml

You guys are all so cool. I hope these responses helped LA Doug from "feeling so awful."

Another prejudice remark, but maybe that should be expected.

I am married to a guy and everyone was at my wedding.

I did not start having sex with men until I was over 50 and widowed. So now I am a man who sleeps with women and I am a man who sleeps with men. But mostly I am an old man and no one I know wants to even consider that I am having sex lest I tell them about it. I do not ask the people I know who they are sleeping with, I do not ask them about their politics and I try to treat them with courtesy and respect and I get the same in return.
And while being gay is not just about having sex, being true to oneself is not about living up to other people's ideas of how one should live one's life, in or out. Surprise Surprise Surprise, there is more than one way to be a man who sleeps with men, there is more than one way to be a sexual human being and there is certainly more than one way to be happy and proud of the way one lives one's life.
If someone wants to appoint themselves judge and jury, look somewhere else, cause hell I ain't on trial.

Whom I choose to engage in a sexual relationship ain’t None-Ya.
 
None-Ya bidness.
 
And whom you may chose to bump genitalia ain’t none my bidness
 
Everything else is subservient to those two facts.

My current employer seems to be gay-friendly. They provide FREE health insurance for domestic partners. And, one of my current gay co-workers has his domestic partner on our company insurance. But, my current assignment is with a joint-venture company. That means that 3 different companies have "made" a joint-venture company. Very common when dealing with a large project like my current assignment. The other 2 joint-venture partners are NOT as gay-friendly as my company. So, a low profile is important.
 
In addition, we have no control over how the customer / owner perceives gay issues. This particular owner is , IMHO, homophobic. So, keeping my gayness out of the workplace is my choice and preference. This practice has served me well for over 25 years. I'm not about to change now. Some co-workers, owners and stakeholders prefer NOT to know about my private life. So, I don't make my private life a workplace issue. I do my job and earn a very good paycheck.

I'm out. Family, friends, neighbors know.
I'm out because it just became too much effort to lie, dissemble, mislead and obfuscate. Its exhausting!
 
I feel no pressing need to tell everyone immediately upon meeting. I fly no flag. There's no rainbow on my bumper. So I suppose some business acquaintances don't know. But if we're friendly enough to chat, go to lunch, they know. In fact, I often have a little fun when people, getting to know me, asking questions, reach understanding. It's visible on their face, evident they want to ask "are you gay?" but are afraid. I usually smile and chuckle, saying "its ok. I have nothing to hide. You can ask."
I'm not proud of being gay. I reserve pride for accomplishments; I had nothing to do with being gay. I'm not proud of being six feet tall or having brown eyes. Or size 13 feet....well ....
I'm proud of the manner in which I live my life. I'm proud that I've upheld my personal commitment that I'll never ever make even the slightest effort to hide who I am. I'm proud of my lifestyle choices, and my career accomplishments; I think its important that others see that I live a quiet suburban lifestyle, have advanced through management into owning my own business. Being gay doesn't define me. Not all gays live the stereotypical lives depicted by the entertainment and other media. When its finally apparent that there are gay butchers, congressmen, executives, techies, single and partnered, thin and fat, black white & brown, quiet or outspoken, timid or faaaabulous living in cities, suburbs, towns and on farms..... maybe people will stop looking for, focusing on, and reacting to differences.

Don't beat yourself up over this. When all is said and done, you are not responsible for their lives. The situation was a crap shoot. Like others, I would have asked him what he needed, given him some money, offered him a hot meal, but beyond that I too would have left him as I found him. Yes there are some good kids out there, that are just a little lost, tossed out of the family home and down on their luck, hoping for a better life, but many do have drug problems and mental health issues that make them dangerous. Your safety and well being should always be considered first.