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mentalkink got a reaction from + tassojunior in 411 on SethSantoroXXX visiting NYC from DC
anyone on this board in metro DC can give you the low down on those 2, caveat emptor
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mentalkink got a reaction from Topbreed in Anyone see this bodybuilder "professionally" ?
[MEDIA=instagram]BuHfh91HN0X[/MEDIA] He looks familiar
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mentalkink got a reaction from FRyan22 in Size Differences
I like that dynamic as well , and I would like to try and play that out with a professional and willing participant from a voyeur perspective
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mentalkink got a reaction from beachboy in 411 on Cowboybytrade in DC
my apologies https://rent.men/CowboyByTrade
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mentalkink got a reaction from Nvr2Thick in 411 on Cowboybytrade in DC
my apologies https://rent.men/CowboyByTrade
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mentalkink got a reaction from Stefcho in 411 on BigDomJock DC
Hard pass , pictures do not reveal any "muscularity" and frankly, 300 seems a little high ( no pun intended) given the quality of the merchandise
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mentalkink got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in 411 on KSL, DC
I saw his listing too and was interested
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mentalkink got a reaction from marylander1940 in Friendly gian Bryan Knight in DC now. Don't miss him!
I am pretty sure I saw him on the Metro at Union Station, massive man, very boyish in the face.
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mentalkink got a reaction from Milo Farnsworth in "DARKOLEC" (I post without comment,but you can make some!)
This listing for some reason reminds me of Golden Corral Buffet , a lot of items to choose from but maybe not the best quality
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mentalkink got a reaction from LivingnLA in If you've tried therapy, was it worth the $$$?
I disagree with everyone who says it's not worth the money. When I was in my mid 20s I had major depression and combination of cognitive therapy and antidepressants helped me get to the other side. Without the cognitive therapy I would never understood why I had that inner voice telling me how worthless I was and what was causing it. The therapy helped me face my demons. Now days your primary care physician will put you antidepressants without even a psyc consult. I think that is why we see so many suicides of people on antidepressants because they are not getting the therapy. The two go hand in hand in depression treatment.
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mentalkink got a reaction from Kenny in If you've tried therapy, was it worth the $$$?
I disagree with everyone who says it's not worth the money. When I was in my mid 20s I had major depression and combination of cognitive therapy and antidepressants helped me get to the other side. Without the cognitive therapy I would never understood why I had that inner voice telling me how worthless I was and what was causing it. The therapy helped me face my demons. Now days your primary care physician will put you antidepressants without even a psyc consult. I think that is why we see so many suicides of people on antidepressants because they are not getting the therapy. The two go hand in hand in depression treatment.
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mentalkink got a reaction from LADoug1 in If you've tried therapy, was it worth the $$$?
I disagree with everyone who says it's not worth the money. When I was in my mid 20s I had major depression and combination of cognitive therapy and antidepressants helped me get to the other side. Without the cognitive therapy I would never understood why I had that inner voice telling me how worthless I was and what was causing it. The therapy helped me face my demons. Now days your primary care physician will put you antidepressants without even a psyc consult. I think that is why we see so many suicides of people on antidepressants because they are not getting the therapy. The two go hand in hand in depression treatment.
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mentalkink got a reaction from + FreshFluff in If you've tried therapy, was it worth the $$$?
I disagree with everyone who says it's not worth the money. When I was in my mid 20s I had major depression and combination of cognitive therapy and antidepressants helped me get to the other side. Without the cognitive therapy I would never understood why I had that inner voice telling me how worthless I was and what was causing it. The therapy helped me face my demons. Now days your primary care physician will put you antidepressants without even a psyc consult. I think that is why we see so many suicides of people on antidepressants because they are not getting the therapy. The two go hand in hand in depression treatment.
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mentalkink got a reaction from Zapped in Reviews of Clients
I am sure the escorts on this forum and on Rentmen frequently discuss clients both good and bad amongst each other. I would expect that , an I am sure for every asshole escorts out there there are 2 asshole clients .
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mentalkink got a reaction from + freecahill1965 in Reviews of Clients
I am sure the escorts on this forum and on Rentmen frequently discuss clients both good and bad amongst each other. I would expect that , an I am sure for every asshole escorts out there there are 2 asshole clients .
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mentalkink got a reaction from + goosh69 in What do you do when he wants payment upfront?
The one time I did that was the poorest experience with the most rude asshole ever. Paying up front is a guarantee you will have an experience not anywhere close to being satisfactory.
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mentalkink reacted to + Keith30309 in What do you do when he wants payment upfront?
The first time I meet someone I’ve already done enough due diligence to be satisfied that not only is there virtually no risk of any sort of defrauding but also that the gentleman has a sincere intent that we have a great time together.
Put another way, I’m filtering based on “how will I feel after spending time with this person” rather than physical appearance and if I don’t have a good emotional vibe to begin with then it never gets to a point where I’m uncomfortable.
I did have one occasion a couple of years ago when I paid upfront and regretted it. All the warning signs were there and it was purely foolish, wishful thinking that prevented me from walking away when he opened the door.
Recently, I visited someone for the first time and heard “How about we get the money part taken care of so we can focus on each other” in the first few minutes. I hesitated for a split second but given that I was standing in his living room and had a good feeling I pulled the envelope out of my pocket and handed it to him and it quickly disappeared into his gym bag. Since then I’ve seen him almost weekly and even started including the tip with the time donation I drop on his desk as soon as I walk in
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mentalkink reacted to marylander1940 in 411 on SethSantoroXXX visiting NYC from DC
The whole town talks about it. Billy has a new boyfriend young enough to be his son. Domestic violence and escorting don't mix well...
Don't get filmed and blackmailed by Billy or maybe Seth...
http://leakedandloaded.com/
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mentalkink got a reaction from marylander1940 in 411 on SethSantoroXXX visiting NYC from DC
anyone on this board in metro DC can give you the low down on those 2, caveat emptor
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mentalkink reacted to rvwnsd in Has it ever happened to you....?
I had a guy tell me he was retiring because he found a BF and the BF did not want him to escort. He was very sweet in his message, mentioned how much he liked getting together and wished me well. He's the escort whom I saw on the street at the Farmer's Market. He stopped, turned around, and said "hi" introducing me to his BF. We lived a few blocks from one another and he told the BF he knew me from the neighborhood. About six months later he texted me to let me know he had broken up with the boyfriend, would be posting a Rentboy ad, and assured me that he would continue to honor his old (lower) rate. We hooked up several times until he retired for good.
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mentalkink got a reaction from marylander1940 in Retired Escorts , Where are they now ?
There seems to be several in Ft Lauderdale and Pam Springs area. I remember Chris Duffy and Wisconsin Tom being favorites 10+ years ago. I often wonder what became of them.
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mentalkink got a reaction from + bashful in Frequency of CLIENT Interactions and relationships
I have become very good friends with 2 escorts that are no longer in the business, It was more a matter that there was a mutual sexual attraction and the boundaries of relationship were very clear if not spoken. One I was able to convince to get treatment for depression which he said was a life saver for him.
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mentalkink got a reaction from + bashful in Escorts, what defines a "good" client?
Very curious on what your thoughts are , what makes you like doing business with a client ? Are there certain behaviors and courtesies ( non monetary) that you like to see extended ? I know all of you have stories about the clients from hell , but talk about the clients you gladly see again . ( keeping privacy and discretion in mind).
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mentalkink got a reaction from BlakeBenz in Retired Escorts , Where are they now ?
Someone told me Chris Duffy was transitioning to a woman, I find that hard to believe but then there was the whole Bruce Jenner and Caitlyn thing so anything is possible .