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Time Destroys Everything 

Great to read all the reminiscing about muscle men from the past.
 
Still hoping to find out some information regarding what happened to Chris. Would like to know if there is a wake planned and or funeral services. I understand that the circumstances may drive  his family to keep this more private and low-key. He was a good friend of mine and I would like to pay my respects.

There was a Facebook post this morning that Chris had passed away recently. We were good friends when he lived in Tampa.  Does anyone have any additional information?

Met Chris Duffy the first time I went to Tampa.  In all the decades since, I never meant anyone quite like him. And that's meant as a compliment, with gratitude.

There was a Facebook post this morning that Chris had passed away recently. We were good friends when he lived in Tampa.  Does anyone have any additional information?

There was a Facebook post this morning that Chris had passed away recently. We were good friends when he lived in Tampa.  Does anyone have any additional information?

Gee do all of you belong to the same mean girls club at your "all girls " Catholic School?   
My understanding was that the posts where moderated and I wanted to avoid any issues with terms of service violations hence the term "orally submissive".   
Thank you to those who messaged me directly and provided leads including personal  experiences

There's a couple of providers I have regular repeats with, sometimes they rate 10 sometimes they rate a 5.  And I would say all of that is not on the provider I own about 50% of that myself. I've learned that my expectations cannot be centered around any previous hot experience and I have to focus on the here and now in that current experience. These guys know my preferences, I know their limits.   Not getting erect happens, not being able to shoot happens.  That's not going to prompt me to ask for a discount.  I always make sure they know I respect them as a person despite the transactional nature of our encounter.  
Luckily I've not had the situation where the persons appearance /age/ vitals did not match IRL. I agree with some other posters on here that I would express my disappointment respectfully in that situation and offer to pay a portion of the fee and cut them loose. 
Some of us have unreasonable expectations and are just plain jerks to these providers.  No need for that. People want to do business with someone respectful. 

Gee do all of you belong to the same mean girls club at your "all girls " Catholic School?   
My understanding was that the posts where moderated and I wanted to avoid any issues with terms of service violations hence the term "orally submissive".   
Thank you to those who messaged me directly and provided leads including personal  experiences

He looks like a retired tailor from Pikesville 

Gee do all of you belong to the same mean girls club at your "all girls " Catholic School?   
My understanding was that the posts where moderated and I wanted to avoid any issues with terms of service violations hence the term "orally submissive".   
Thank you to those who messaged me directly and provided leads including personal  experiences

Any suggestions for Mid-Atlantic area or Northeast?

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

I didn't  have my glasses on when reading the ad at first ,  I read "solvent "as "soylent "  and was initially amused  with the connection to the 1972 movie starring Charleton Heston .   
 
 
"Solvent VIPS  are people !!!!"     

Hearing that there are a lot of big dicks in DC isn't exactly a surprise.

Where are you located?

I thought about that,  not seeing any one local that would be on par physically and appearance wise for what I am looking for in a bear/Chub type.  My role will be more voyeur in the 3 way.   TBH I am looking for a "3" or "4"  to interact with my provider friend who is a solid "9". The appearance disparity is a huge turn on for me 
 

Any escorts out there are experienced and good at prostate massage. Not into bottoming here but prostate play done right really blows my load

I like having a small circle of regulars (3 to 4), and I rarely have regulars that I actively drop. Various reasons why it ends:
1.  Provider quits the business altogether.
2. Provider moves to another city.
3. Sadly, death one time.
4. Providers changes the parameters of meeting. (For instance, one guy I like a lot wants a week's notice. I'm just not in a position to offer that. Another's price doubled. I just couldn't afford that steep an increase). 

5. Sometimes there's just a drifting away with no real reason.
Now I have deliberately quit reaching out to a few who radically changed what's on offer or stood me up several times in a row or got mad because I met with other providers. But usually if I'm a regular with someone and then I'm not, it's usually a change on the provider's end, not mine.

A married friend of mine who has a LEO background contacted me about an escort I had recommended.  Unbeknownst to me apparently this escort was convicted of drug related felony and went to prison.  Seems he was released within in the last 3 years. My friend provided proof.  Frankly I was shocked he in no way seemed to be that type of person.  I have other friends that I have recommended to him.  No big issues other than the typical not always being responsive etc.  Am I obligated to inform my friends I gave the recommendation to for this escort