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Dont believe what you see on social media.  Most escorts barely get by - there is a reason why 90% of them have roommates.  They may get 20 inquiries but will be lucky to get 1 booking a day. They frequently go through dry spells.  They dont make the money you seem to think they do.  Onlyfans only pay off if you are in the top 1% which is hard to do in a saturated market. 

Oh please drop this stupid term.

What you are doing is not working.  You are a good candidate for Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace program.  You have to get serious about getting on top of your spending, paying off your debt and then you can invest in basic index funds. 

What you are doing is not working.  You are a good candidate for Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace program.  You have to get serious about getting on top of your spending, paying off your debt and then you can invest in basic index funds. 

Dude - you've bumped 5 threads in the past 24 hours. If you are that much in need, it is time to paint or get off the ladder!! 🤣

I agree. @jmichaeliii Take him by his word. He knows you are aware of boundaries since you asked the question. He will tell you to stop if he is uncomfortable. That is my take. 

I've been traveling extensively the past month in Central and Southern Africa. Options have been very limited. My NYC regulars keep texting me...I guess they miss me. 😋

Be careful in dispensing financial advice - everyone's situation is different. It may be one of the best options for you, but saying it is the best (absolute statement) is overreaching.  In general, I bonds are not suitable as a primary emergency fund - you just can't get your hands on the money in a moment's notice...can take up to 3 days even if your accounts are electronically connected. 

Bad idea. Being stuck in the same condo together causes all sorts of problems: increased sexual harassment risk (the employer would be liable since the condo is now a worksite); medical conditions, religious practices, or simply psychological comfort that require privacy; the need for peace and quiet for adequate rest (being on the clock 24/7 is arguably a labor law violation). I would send the boss an email outlining these concerns to get him to reconsider.

What the heck? Are all pornstars/escorts in NYC old and muscled? No young slim twinks? 

You get to decide what you need to do to stay healthy.  My health comes first. The enjoyment of my partner comes second - because if I am not confortable then he will doubtlessly pick up on it. Sometimes “No.” is a full sentence. 

Best Gay Movies:  https://www.imdb.com/list/ls063526611/
 

My first choices would be anything by director Rob Williams (Role/Play, Three Day Weekend, The Men Next Door, Make The Yuletide Gay) followed by “Boys In The Band”, both the original and the recent remake. That is probably a controversial choice but I’m an old man and it allows me to reflect on how far we’ve come. Add to that “Longtime Companion”, “Jeffrey”, and the entirety of “Tales Of The City”. And, of course, good vintage porn. 
 
Sorry! Two more. Terrance McNally’s “Andre’s Mother” and “Love! Valour! Compassion!” 

Good suggestion. Heated Rivalry is another obvious choice. But since there is only one season. Add Crocodile Dundee. 😆😆
https://youtu.be/Is-rk3SIm0M

Will & Grace! 🥰

I would say Serg - also (still) one of the nicest guys around. 
https://rentmen.eu/Sergshepard

I would say Serg - also (still) one of the nicest guys around. 
https://rentmen.eu/Sergshepard

There is already a thread on him.  Which you know since you commented on him in that tthread.  Why create another?? 🤔
[Fixed, the two threads are now combined. CoM Mods.]
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/160102-bazbttm-in-to/

The Met gala is a charity for the costume institute. If you are not dressed outrageously, you don’t understand the assignment.  
And if you don’t like it, I offer the same advice that I give to those that complain about “gay” public displays of affection: look away and get over it. 

 

I can see how you might think it’s funny, but you should know that some people, including me, see it as cruel.

How dare you, sir!  How can you suggest that we should make an informed decision based on all information available to us?  Who do you think we are? Mr Spock?  🖖

Opinions. How surprising. 

I do often wonder if a pic with a car means they are open to car fun. Testing not just the seats but the shock absorbers too! 😉

I do often wonder if a pic with a car means they are open to car fun. Testing not just the seats but the shock absorbers too! 😉

I do often wonder if a pic with a car means they are open to car fun. Testing not just the seats but the shock absorbers too! 😉