FTM Zachary Prince

I think it depends on how talented you are at self-producing your content. An area with many studios might have more well-established resources and population of active adult actors for you to tap into. But if you find that you can instigate regular content production on your own, then it’s really not necessary to be located nearby to those networks. People don’t mind an amateur feel for pornography. It feels voyeuristic and intimate to a lot of fans. You can really just shoot your personal hookups on your iPhone or a $200 Canon Vixia on a tripod, or solo/duo verbal domination videos in the aforementioned genre, from literally anywhere in the world. What’s most important is that you become comfortable in front of the camera, get on a regular production/release schedule, and be able to instigate content trade or get hookups to agree to allow you to shoot them and use the content. I mean you could also do only solo content but the networking involved in content trade seems to benefit all parties involved. I can see how that would be easier in areas with a lot of studio action. Whether you can find success with it in other areas or not probably depends on your personality and your ability to self-motivate for production.

I’ve been hired by couples many times, but never by two friends. I do not charge extra for couples. I personally find group action more exciting, and feel that I charge for my time, which is unaffected. I do sometimes require a two hour minimum for group sessions tho. Only because an hour is never really enough time to explore the real potential of the situation and I hate being the one to call TIME when things clearly are not over...

I’ve been hired by couples many times, but never by two friends. I do not charge extra for couples. I personally find group action more exciting, and feel that I charge for my time, which is unaffected. I do sometimes require a two hour minimum for group sessions tho. Only because an hour is never really enough time to explore the real potential of the situation and I hate being the one to call TIME when things clearly are not over...

I think it depends on how talented you are at self-producing your content. An area with many studios might have more well-established resources and population of active adult actors for you to tap into. But if you find that you can instigate regular content production on your own, then it’s really not necessary to be located nearby to those networks. People don’t mind an amateur feel for pornography. It feels voyeuristic and intimate to a lot of fans. You can really just shoot your personal hookups on your iPhone or a $200 Canon Vixia on a tripod, or solo/duo verbal domination videos in the aforementioned genre, from literally anywhere in the world. What’s most important is that you become comfortable in front of the camera, get on a regular production/release schedule, and be able to instigate content trade or get hookups to agree to allow you to shoot them and use the content. I mean you could also do only solo content but the networking involved in content trade seems to benefit all parties involved. I can see how that would be easier in areas with a lot of studio action. Whether you can find success with it in other areas or not probably depends on your personality and your ability to self-motivate for production.

I’ve been wrestling with a lot of these same considerations over the last 2 years, @Mocha. Ultimately considering that FTM porn is the fastest-exploding type of porn and underserved as a genre, coupled with the fact that most escort ad venues have structural flaws that render them inadequate for FTM advertisers, and also that I’m personally struggling with a lack of traffic flow from people who are in fact attracted to people of my gender and physicality, I’ve reached the conclusion that my career needs to expand into porn! I definitely think self-producing and owning your content is the way to go, but as people mentioned, this hustle requires consistency to yield good financial results from the content itself. I’m curious about approaching porn primarily as a form of advertising, since many escorts report that it brings them lots of work and that’s why they do it. If I consider it that way, it seems that posting my porn scenes publicly on tube sites would benefit me a hell of a lot more than being paid $400-500 by a porn company that is going to place the scene behind a paywall. I figure since my escort hustle is solid but traffic is my problem, having the public exposure will earn me a lot more. So I’m now collecting scenes until I have 8-12 put together for a big grand opening on my new pornhub channel. Let me know if you will ever be in the same place and time as me and wanna shoot some content trade. I’ve got a studio in SF now.

I’ve been wrestling with a lot of these same considerations over the last 2 years, @Mocha. Ultimately considering that FTM porn is the fastest-exploding type of porn and underserved as a genre, coupled with the fact that most escort ad venues have structural flaws that render them inadequate for FTM advertisers, and also that I’m personally struggling with a lack of traffic flow from people who are in fact attracted to people of my gender and physicality, I’ve reached the conclusion that my career needs to expand into porn! I definitely think self-producing and owning your content is the way to go, but as people mentioned, this hustle requires consistency to yield good financial results from the content itself. I’m curious about approaching porn primarily as a form of advertising, since many escorts report that it brings them lots of work and that’s why they do it. If I consider it that way, it seems that posting my porn scenes publicly on tube sites would benefit me a hell of a lot more than being paid $400-500 by a porn company that is going to place the scene behind a paywall. I figure since my escort hustle is solid but traffic is my problem, having the public exposure will earn me a lot more. So I’m now collecting scenes until I have 8-12 put together for a big grand opening on my new pornhub channel. Let me know if you will ever be in the same place and time as me and wanna shoot some content trade. I’ve got a studio in SF now.

I’ve been wrestling with a lot of these same considerations over the last 2 years, @Mocha. Ultimately considering that FTM porn is the fastest-exploding type of porn and underserved as a genre, coupled with the fact that most escort ad venues have structural flaws that render them inadequate for FTM advertisers, and also that I’m personally struggling with a lack of traffic flow from people who are in fact attracted to people of my gender and physicality, I’ve reached the conclusion that my career needs to expand into porn! I definitely think self-producing and owning your content is the way to go, but as people mentioned, this hustle requires consistency to yield good financial results from the content itself. I’m curious about approaching porn primarily as a form of advertising, since many escorts report that it brings them lots of work and that’s why they do it. If I consider it that way, it seems that posting my porn scenes publicly on tube sites would benefit me a hell of a lot more than being paid $400-500 by a porn company that is going to place the scene behind a paywall. I figure since my escort hustle is solid but traffic is my problem, having the public exposure will earn me a lot more. So I’m now collecting scenes until I have 8-12 put together for a big grand opening on my new pornhub channel. Let me know if you will ever be in the same place and time as me and wanna shoot some content trade. I’ve got a studio in SF now.

I was contacted 4 years ago by a female pro-dom (dominatrix) who has a client she’s known for 20 years that’s into transvestism and likes to suck cock and get fucked. I told her it would be a new experience for me but I was open to it. I see them about every 2 months (the pro-Dom is just there to oversee and work “her” nips when necessary). When I’ve reached out to other Daddy-type escorts to possibly join us, most have stated it’s not their “scene” and they aren’t comfortable with it. Allen Silver has been the rare exception.

I don’t know bruther, guess it varies. I still say clients on a4a are no lesser in quality than Rentmen. Rentmen doesn’t just have flakes, they have lots of scammers, spammers, and all sorts. That’s not Rentmen’s fault, but remember: atleast with adam4adam I can see the clients photo and age and stats. I usually never meet an adam4adam client who doesn’t show a pic.
 
But Rentmen: I’ve had to start asking clients to introduce themselves. Just because I’m an escort, it’s not 1995 where I want to meet someone off the internet blindly with no clue of them.
 
Yes, the replies on a4a can be stomach churning, and yes there’s some bad apples on a4a, and yes some are even to be avoided. But there’s no compromising quality when meeting someone from a4a. My client yesterday: was from a4a. I pulled up right behind his Bimmer. The city I’m staying in is ultra-conservative. Rentmen is barely known, and I don’t get much biz from it in these type of areas. That’s when a4a helps.
 
 
To me, the rapid decline of a4a has made it slightly better: most of the weirdos and nuisances have moved on to the apps, so now it’s a more refined site, with less fluff/spam/bored wankers that you get with Grindr and company.

Happy belated/upcoming Holidays/New Year/Valentines/Grammies/Oscars to all. I’ve been away. Now that’s out the way:
 
This is mostly a hypothetical question, but I’m getting the impression that due to rates not really being posted in many places, it’s probably hard for providers and clients to tell what the market is right now.
 
I know for me, every since I turned 30...my rates have been consistently 250-300 in most all markets. I’m open to do 150 for very introductory type of visits. But overnights and longer evening sessions seem to be down at the moment.
 
However, part of me still feels people are contacting with an unrealistic expection of price. There’s still in some markets (Denver, for example despite housing averaging $400,000) , has the annoying “I can spend $100” going around. I try to explain to people, $100 is not sustainable. (though admittedly, this comes from a4a versus the main sites).
 
I’ve been able to create a rate structure that works with majority of the people who contact me, but I wish other sites had a better understanding of why the charge for higher rates. I could hypothetically charge $100/hr and see 10 clients a day and make $1,000. But the issue is, out of those 10, only 1 or 2 may show up. Some people ask for discounts and still don’t show up. When traveling, that’s only $200. And that’s assuming each one doesn’t ask for me to climax, which would ultimately leave me with less to “give” the next client.
 
That’s why I prefer to not see more than 1 to 2 clients a day (though I generally don’t have inclination to see people “per day”, but rather “per week” or “per trip”), maybe 3 if the first is in the morning and the last is in the later evening. That way I don’t have to worry about half-stepping with anyone.

I’ve come to feel that part of my job is teaching people how to free themselves from this anxiety. Particularly since I specialise in prostate stimulation, which tends to make even men with constant raging erections go soft during the prostate stroking itself. This means I’m constantly dealing with guys who are dumbfounded that their dick is soft in the middle of a sexual encounter when they haven’t come yet, and before I learned how to help guys let go of their anxiety about their lack of hard-on, a good 20-30% of them were actually letting it ruin their sexual experience because they just couldn’t deal with their own feelings about their soft dick. At the end of the prostate experience lies the most powerful orgasm that most of my clients have ever had in their life! But so many guys couldn’t get there because they were so anxious about why they didn’t have a hard-on. Now I tell first-timers to expect to go soft before we even begin, but in a very nerdy way where I discuss how the blood flow actually re-routes into the prostate, which is the “control center” for orgasms. My eyes light up as I explain, and I add with a naughty wink that just because your dick is soft doesn’t mean it won’t feel good to have it in my mouth while I’m stroking their prostate... then I keep an eye out for anxiety once I notice their dick has gone soft and reassure them again that it’s totally normal and they can still have a CRAZY orgasm. Or if they were never hard to begin with, but have also never experienced a prostate orgasm before, I reaffirm that they’re about to experience the most awesome way to orgasm where an erection doesn’t even matter. I suspect that a lot of highly-experienced escorts have strategies to help clients address this type of anxiety. I personally want every single client who meets me to have a unique, intensely-pleasurable experience that they will NEVER forget. And I strive for a high percentage of my clients to feel that it was the hottest encounter or the craziest orgasm they’ve ever had. Even if there is never an erection involved! I personally don’t have a hard dick to work with either! And I’m a top! I’ve found a LOT of ways to share mutual pleasure without a hard dick. I hope no one is ever afraid to book me because they’re worried they won’t get an erection and won’t enjoy themselves as a result. Sexuality and sexual experiences are so varied. There are tons of ways we can enjoy ourselves, with or without a hard cock in the room.

Yup I’m honestly surprised if this is an uncommon occurrence in male escort bookings. Women and many trans escorts usually get MORE of these attention-seeking, time-wasting, fake inquiries than we receive real ones. Sorting thru them is part of the fun of running an escort business. I cut people off after the 2nd or 3rd inquiry that doesn’t go anywhere and mark their email address to auto-label as DO NOT SEE in my Gmail inbox.

I can’t think of anything off the top of my head exactly, but I will say that many clients have been a part of my journey to develop expertise in prostate stimulation. I have been sticking my fingers up guys butts while blowing them since I was younger than I’m probably allowed to mention here. But I never really got the hang of prostate stimulation and giving prostate orgasms until I started using the term “prostate massage” as a euphemism in the straight escort world for the fact that I was into putting things up guys’ butts. Well it didn’t take too long for me to realise that if I was advertising prostate massage then I definitely needed to learn how to actually do it. I did read books, watch instructional videos, and even attended a class by a published author on the subject. But it’s really my experiences with clients that taught me most of what I learned! I attracted clients who already knew what they liked and could explain as well as enthusiastic newbies who had no idea, but told me how everything felt in real time and shared their experiences with me as I practiced what I was learning. Now, many years later I’m something of a prostate whisperer, and I definitely could NOT have done it without all the clients who let me learn on them along the way!!

Yup I’m honestly surprised if this is an uncommon occurrence in male escort bookings. Women and many trans escorts usually get MORE of these attention-seeking, time-wasting, fake inquiries than we receive real ones. Sorting thru them is part of the fun of running an escort business. I cut people off after the 2nd or 3rd inquiry that doesn’t go anywhere and mark their email address to auto-label as DO NOT SEE in my Gmail inbox.

I love rimming. Its definitely one of my greatest talents. My reviews rave about my rimming, and my clients come to me for it again and again. I can rim for a loooong time. Maybe since my own little cock isn’t big enough to fuck someone with, my tongue fills in the gap instead. You know, unless someone is experienced enough to take my fist.
 
Rimming is clearly part of what I offer, so I’ve had to navigate the cleanliness issue plenty over the years. I always offer clients a shower at the beginning of the session. If they decline or say they already showered, I ask again “Are you sure you are squeaky clean in ALL your little nooks and crannies? Because I’ll have you know that I want to stick my tongue EVERYWHERE...” If they agree to shower I implore them to do a thorough cleaning job for the same reason. That usually does the trick! And if not, then I have no issue dragging them back into the shower in the middle of the session to finish the job. I want my tongue up their ass. Period!
 
Total tops who don’t want my tongue up your ass: you’re boring for me. Please book someone else! ;)

I prefer advance bookings. I travel internationally and it helps me plan my schedule. More than six months in advance is probably too far most of the time, since I usually don’t have a good idea of my travel schedule more than six months in advance.

Way to turn us into complete and total objects with that last sentence. Well done.
 
A lot of escorts are able to fly in the front cabin for various reasons, many of which you never bothered to cover. You seem to think we demand that clients fly us first/business and that couldn't be further from the truth.
 
'Top guys' can fly in whatever cabin they want because they know how to work the frequent flier system. Sure, we might have those clients who immediately buy premium seating, but that's the exception and not the rule.
 
OP: It is usually assumed that if you want an escort to visit you, you incur the airline costs to get him there.

Why are you asking us and not him?
 
Kevin Slater

Why are you asking us and not him?
 
Kevin Slater

Try being an escort while living in central TN and getting requests to meet clients in Nashville (CT), Memphis (CT), Knoxville (ET) & Atlanta (ET)! I did for years and yup at least once I had to ask a client to push a meeting back by thirty minutes due to the fact that I completely forgot about the time change... ayiyiy!!

Try being an escort while living in central TN and getting requests to meet clients in Nashville (CT), Memphis (CT), Knoxville (ET) & Atlanta (ET)! I did for years and yup at least once I had to ask a client to push a meeting back by thirty minutes due to the fact that I completely forgot about the time change... ayiyiy!!

I'd recommend asking this in the spa, which focuses on massage. For me, I like rentmasseur, then masseurfinder, then A4A, though each has its plusses and minuses. The benefit of rentmasseur is you can be really clear about what you offer.

If you avoid logging into social media on phone apps, its a little easier to prevent your social media from accessing details of your communication history and using it to suggest friendships/connections online.
 
I always log into social media from browsers rather than from apps. I also use a separate phone number for work & work account registrations than I do for personal accounts. I find keeping two completely separate phones is ideal, but not always practical.
 
Social media is kind of scary when it comes to privacy, especially for sex workers, that's for sure...

You can learn from the older ways of meeting your customers and integrate them into a modern setting.
An online ad will never substitute for a feeling of connection you get with a person from meeting them face to face.
You can be more physically visible in places and meet more people, like a salesperson, a public speaker, or anyone in the hospitality industry.
 
Add these techniques to your tool kit and you will adapt better in a world looking for authentic connection

With more and more censorship apparent on the web, do you think escorts will spend more time using old-fashioned methods of meeting. Bars, etc. Here's one punter who hopes so.