Monarchy79

I do not believe that you owe him a refund. You provided the agreed upon service sufficiently . As Judge Judy would say "He ate the Steak".
 
As far as the allergic reaction goes, you as the professional could have asked him if he had any allergies,...but ultimately it's up to him to let his sensitivities be known.
 
If you want to show good will, you could offer him a discount on his next session...using a different lotion of course. However, he may not choose to return.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

The following quote from the poster wasn’t “logic”, it was sarcasm:
“You will notice there are no ads for tampons in magazines that target gay men, but lots of ads for tampons in magazines that target women.”
 
Now of course tampons wouldn’t be advertised in magazines catering to the gay male audience (or any male audience for that matter), as men do not anatomically/biologically have a need for tampons.
However, Truvada can be used by both genders, and women are now using it as well, and have stated their disappointment in this drug only being advertised to gay men, as they have a need for it as well.
The other misconception is that gay men were the original targeted group formthe drug. It wasn’t. The drug was originally targeted for sex workers.
 
The tampon statement was a sarcastic approach to diminish my point about the advertising of the drug. It wasn’t necessary.
From being on this site, I’ve learned a lot from these forums and I enjoy the sharing of knowledge.
 
We can do this without being catty, sarcastic, passive-aggressive, and menacing with our comments. Our community has enough of this. Let these forums be a place where we can share information, respectfully disagree and learn without the bull shit.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

Bloomberg tried to help evolve our NYC taxis during his mayorship. They scuttled his efforts - and laughed in his face.
 
And he then told them what would happen after he stopped being mayor...
 
A bed of their own making.

It’s important that we understand that PrEP was intended to be used in CONJUNCTION with other methods of protection.
The gays are now doing what the straights did with “the pill”.... having bareback sex, thinking of only ONE issue rather than the others.
 
Everyone is now having this big barebacking party, thinking they are superhuman now they they claim to be free from any risk of HIV infection. However, no one is thinking about:
1.) the other numerous STD’s that PrEP doesn’t protect your from.
 
2.) how other medications one is taking will react to PrEP, and could possibly affect its overall efficacy.
 
3.) the possible side effects of long term use, and
 
4.) PrEP’s ability to work within ones system, that may already have other existing STI’s (for example, if a PrEP user currently had syphillis and gonhorrea, how is the medications reacting to the users compromised immune system to properly do its job to prevent HIV infection?
 
Also, as a side note, I find it alarming that so many people trust the government enough to regularly take a medication which they have sanctioned to prevent a disease that they claim they can’t cure.
 
This could be one huge unorthodoxed “clinical trial/experiment”....

You made some very valid points. Unfortunately they were overshadowed with the smear of sarcasm....
 
Being a smart ass always kills the ability to bring forth understanding on any topic. I don’t know why people think it holds any value.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

Why do people assume that those who order escorts, do so because they can’t get laid for free?
 
I have a good friend who has a great body, good looks, has a successful career and CHOOSES to have a regular escort.
 
His reason? He can guarantee good sex, he will get exactly what’s expected, and he doesn’t have to deal with the bulllshit of dating, bars, apps, and all of those other things that brings out the worst in guys.

It important to remember 35 million people have died from AIDS and that 70 million have been infected.
 
Except abstinence, it is impossible to be 100% safe. In 2018 it was estimated that 380,000 people around the world were regularPrEP users, 59% of that group are in the US. Of the 380,000 only 7 have been infected with HIV.
 
7/380,000 not perfect...but still amazing!

It would depend on the masseur. For a trained, experienced massage therapist, 90 minutes is fantastic.
 
For a limited skilled masseur whose focus isn’t exactly on massage therapy in it’s true form, 90 minutes could be like watching paint dry.

It’s important that we understand that PrEP was intended to be used in CONJUNCTION with other methods of protection.
The gays are now doing what the straights did with “the pill”.... having bareback sex, thinking of only ONE issue rather than the others.
 
Everyone is now having this big barebacking party, thinking they are superhuman now they they claim to be free from any risk of HIV infection. However, no one is thinking about:
1.) the other numerous STD’s that PrEP doesn’t protect your from.
 
2.) how other medications one is taking will react to PrEP, and could possibly affect its overall efficacy.
 
3.) the possible side effects of long term use, and
 
4.) PrEP’s ability to work within ones system, that may already have other existing STI’s (for example, if a PrEP user currently had syphillis and gonhorrea, how is the medications reacting to the users compromised immune system to properly do its job to prevent HIV infection?
 
Also, as a side note, I find it alarming that so many people trust the government enough to regularly take a medication which they have sanctioned to prevent a disease that they claim they can’t cure.
 
This could be one huge unorthodoxed “clinical trial/experiment”....

It would depend on the masseur. For a trained, experienced massage therapist, 90 minutes is fantastic.
 
For a limited skilled masseur whose focus isn’t exactly on massage therapy in it’s true form, 90 minutes could be like watching paint dry.

Unfortunately, the “war on drugs”, is a money-making institution. The government makes billions of dollars off of the services that are procured by the federal bureau of prisons.
The “contractors” (i.e. prisoners), work at low wages for these services. Prison populations are needed in order to produce and do the work. And the arrests and incarceration’s are great for the economy. The bail bond system capitalized off of the smeared judicial system as well. Ending the war on drugs would cause the US to lose a lot of money.

It would depend on the masseur. For a trained, experienced massage therapist, 90 minutes is fantastic.
 
For a limited skilled masseur whose focus isn’t exactly on massage therapy in it’s true form, 90 minutes could be like watching paint dry.

Unfortunately, the “war on drugs”, is a money-making institution. The government makes billions of dollars off of the services that are procured by the federal bureau of prisons.
The “contractors” (i.e. prisoners), work at low wages for these services. Prison populations are needed in order to produce and do the work. And the arrests and incarceration’s are great for the economy. The bail bond system capitalized off of the smeared judicial system as well. Ending the war on drugs would cause the US to lose a lot of money.

Good point. It’s called the jail industrial complex, especially now with private prisons.

Unfortunately, the “war on drugs”, is a money-making institution. The government makes billions of dollars off of the services that are procured by the federal bureau of prisons.
The “contractors” (i.e. prisoners), work at low wages for these services. Prison populations are needed in order to produce and do the work. And the arrests and incarceration’s are great for the economy. The bail bond system capitalized off of the smeared judicial system as well. Ending the war on drugs would cause the US to lose a lot of money.

Git it gurl!

Never trust a mirror,
For the mirror always lies,
It makes you think that all your worth,
Can be seen from the outside.
Never trust a mirror,
It only shows you skin deep,
You can't see how your eyelids flutter,
When you're drifting off to sleep,
It doesn't show you what he sees,
When you're only being you,
Or how your eyes just light up,
When you're loving what you do,
It doesn't capture when your smiling,
Where no one else can see,
And your reflection cannot tell you,
Everything you mean to me,
Never trust a mirror,
For it only shows your skin,
And if you think that it dictates your worth,
It's time you looked within.
-e.h

Never trust a mirror,
For the mirror always lies,
It makes you think that all your worth,
Can be seen from the outside.
Never trust a mirror,
It only shows you skin deep,
You can't see how your eyelids flutter,
When you're drifting off to sleep,
It doesn't show you what he sees,
When you're only being you,
Or how your eyes just light up,
When you're loving what you do,
It doesn't capture when your smiling,
Where no one else can see,
And your reflection cannot tell you,
Everything you mean to me,
Never trust a mirror,
For it only shows your skin,
And if you think that it dictates your worth,
It's time you looked within.
-e.h

Please make sure to record your interactions with the police. It has proven successful in many lawsuits and defending oneself from false charges.