Monarchy79

Wop: an insulting and contemptuous term for a person of Italian birth or descent. So… you’re calling Italians “wops”, and hiring black “ghetto” escorts as novelties to poke fun at a holiday that celebrates freedom from slavery from the last holding state…. I don’t even have to comment on your character at this point. It speaks for itself.

Your thinking isn’t decades old. It’s centuries old. Dating all the way back to June 19, 1865.

He simply forgot he was in mixed company. 😎

We all know you’ll be there, around your kind, sharing those “ideologies”

And he’s arrogant and smug about it too. He’s literally standing ten toes down on this degenerate B.S.

I give zero f*cks. Further, I’m not “self-righteous”. I’m just RIGHT.

Fetishizing people for sexual gratification has absolutely nothing to do with thinking someone is “hot”. Slavemasters and overseers in America who were raping female and male slaves, sexually torturing them by castrating them, didn’t think they were “hot”. These slaves were just sources of sexual perversions. No different than the “Hottentot Venus”, who was toured around like a circus freak around France because of her big voluptuous figure. The French thought that she was so much of an “African Freak of Nature”, that after she died of multiple diseases (from sexual abuse and exploitation), France kept her body for “scientific experimentation”. Now we are in 2024, and people think it’s cool or “funny”, to hire a “ghetto” black guy, on a holiday that’s specific to slavery, and believe that this is harmless. Well it’s not. 1.) Would these same black guys be taken out on a proper dinner date? NO. 2.) Would these same black guys be introduced to your intimate group of friends? NO. 3.) Would these same black guys be considered for a relationship or even marriage? Would they be introduced to your family as your partner? NO. So NO, these guys do NOT think black guys are hot, they’re nothing more than big black cocks and phatt butts and orifices of sick Mandingo and “thug” fantasies. There’s absolutely nothing flattering about this type of “acknowledgement” or “recognition”.

The fact that this escort didn’t know that he was hired as a “joke” to poke fun at a holiday that the OP was just glad to have the day off for. I’m quite certain that @DrownedBoy didn’t message the guy, saying: ”Hey, from your profile, I see that your black, and was looking to hire some “BBC”, to amuse myself for this “silly little black holiday” that gave me the day off. Oh, can you confirm that you live in the Ghetto please? And if possible, let’s have some rap music playing in the background too. I’ll bring the cash, some weed for ya’, a 40 oz., and a bucket of fried chicken….” 😒

I sincerely hope that escorts of color see this entire conversation. Understand what many of these clients really think of you. Just amusement for their sick biases, and who you are as a person (your customs, holidays, recognitions), are nothing more than a joke to these bigoted, elitist jerks. listen to what they are saying here: 1.) “Hire a black guy for Juneteenth… (ha ha) next, it will be: 1.) “Hire a Mexican for Cinco De Mayo 2.) “Hire an Asian for the anniversary of the bombing of Hiroshima” A wise person said a long time ago that gay white men are white men first…. The disgusting comments on this thread proved that through and through.

Not funny at all. You found a way to disrespectfully snub a holiday you care nothing about.

It makes you a bigoted, elitist, sexually exploitative A.H., who has casually made a mockery of another ethnic group’s holiday. Your posting isn’t witty, ironic, or funny. It shows your lack of character. It makes you a shamelessly disgusting person.

Bullshit. The term “ghetto” is specifically used to describe, urban, poor black people and connect it to their living location, style of dress, way of speaking and even the food they eat. “Ghetto”, “thug”, and similar terms are all used in this manner. Let’s be real here.

I’m curious… what’s your ethnicity?

Oh NOW you’ve changed your tune…. earlier, you equated asking to “sexual harassment.”

Good Riddance… 🥾💨💨💨

Now you’ve reduced yourself to name calling… Classy.

Ummm… you’re reaching once again. even in the OPs comment, getting a potential conquest inebriated was never mentioned or suggested. You literally went off the deep end because the OP wanted to ask a “straight” provider if he’d consider entertaining a male client. you called that rape and sexual harassment, and now you’re inferring another poster’s description of flirtation to indicate getting someone drunk or inebriated to have sex with them…. I don’t know what goes IN your butt, but I definitely know what you’re pulling OUT of it… exaggerations, misinterpretation, and misinformation. How more insufferable can one get?

And this is why much of their generation is sexually repressed and miserable. They don’t understand the art of flirtation. They incorrectly overanalyze everything.

Well actually my point is proven. There are McDonald’s that actually serve lobster….

I’m feeling “triggered”. You addressing the weather is a metaphorically sexual, “micro aggression”, I’m reporting your posting for sexual intimidation and harassment!!! 😂🤓😂🤓😂

As soon as anyone at a party potentially flirts with him, he’d call the police on them for “sexual assault”.

Ummm no. Sex, is “what’s on the menu” The provider’s sexual orientation and preferences are the items that can be discussed and negotiated.

People make adaptations to what’s presented on “menus” all the time. -it’s common for a restaurant to have a salad served with lettuce, and the diner may want to replace it with arugula. -the steak may come with a bernaise sauce, but I may want mine served “Oscar” style instead. -a burger may come with Cheddar cheese, but a customer may want to use blue cheese instead. Regarding escorting, a provider’s profile may list his sexual proclivities, yet potential clients may inquire on position, oral, anal, kissing, fetishes and kinks. Many of the posts in the Deli forums discuss these matters. None of these circumstances indicate any wrongdoing, especially not sexual harassment. But again, I want to hear from the actual providers. Professionals: Do you consider inquiries or negotiations on your prescribed practices to be considered “sexual harassment”?

A potential client asking a professional sex worker about sex isn’t a “sexual advance”. It’s a legitimate question that professional sex workers expect. When potential clients reach out to escorts, what exactly do you think they are inquiring? The weather?

Well since there are escorts in this forum let’s ask them now: 1.) if a potential client asks you to negotiate your sexual preferences/practices, do you consider that to be sexual harassment? Or simply an inquiry from a potential client?