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  1. I always felt the best part of waking up was Folgers in your cup.

     

    Clearly, we have a diverse morning crowd here.

     

    The best part of waking up is a soldier in your butt (You triggered that. I thought of it last week while on a military base....having coffee of course). Nice jingle.

  2. and this architect is oh so cute, with that killer Aussie accent

     

    I think this is my favorite home in this thread. It has the best use of space and materials. The single most useful feature is the use of a stationary bed with storage underneath. The kitchen design is brilliant, and the connected floor materials was a smart design. The sliding kitchen divider allows you to close off the bedroom space and create two separate living areas. Ideal for situations where your mate(s) stayover. Smart and convenient.

  3. Kiwi = New Zealand

     

    Amazing house!

     

    Whimsical design, but I was was underwhelmed by the finish quality inside the home. The exterior is extraordinary. I think the interior would have been better imagined by a budding interior design student. Great project for a design student. Tighter finishes and better ergonomics. The kitchen with the microwave was shotty looking. You could easily fit a full sized kitchen and a folding counter return for guests to sit or use as a dining space. There is plenty of room for this. And why have a hot water tank underneath the staircase? For greater utility and long term cost savings, an instant hot water tank is easier to conceal. I used a Navien water heater in a custom application.

  4. Let's switch the "why do you keep labeling" to "why do we".

    I just do not see the point of targeting a whole class of people, implying there is something in their nature that should make us be cautious. My point is that it is irrelevant what your role is, we should always we cautious everywhere with everyone. And we should be able to find many people to trust also, everywhere, whoever they are.

    I apologize if you felt I was addressing this against you.

     

    Thank you, for sharing in greater detail. I understand. I felt a bit under attack for a moment. It was confusing, because, like your statement implies: I was trying [not] to label anyone. I was practicing something I rarely do, be open and transparent in a space where I could feel vulnerable. The forum has been a great place for me to practice and hone in on that place I find to be quite daunting.

     

    You are correct, we should not label or target a whole class of people for the actions of a few. In this particular space, I have learned to be cautious of those in the forum with little to no experience by checking their profile and paying attention to moniker given by the site. I am less likely to share certain information with a newbie, compared to what I would share with someone with a much higher status. There is a learning process here and you do not have to be a member long to figure it out. It is more about the quantity/quality time spent in the forum giving and accepting feedback. I appreciate your feedback.

     

    In my active daily life, I am much more cautious, mostly because of the less anonymous (known) nature of the interaction. However, in both situations it is difficult to judge another person's intent. I do not believe that all people have ill intentions. The bell curves.

     

    I will keep this front of mind: Labeling, why do we do it? should we do it? when and where is it appropriate?

     

    We all have a degree of prejudice when it comes to labeling. After a while, some things become a pattern, which causes a stereotype, not based in scientific data, but the court of public opinion.

  5. Be careful what you share with a client. Be careful hat you share with an escort.

     

    I guess I am confused by that statement, since what I shared was positive. I was making a positive recommendation, with no details. I was commenting on how odd it was for something positive to go south. So odd. I try to share positives as much as possible.

  6. Club Xstatic

    240 Chestnut Street,

    800-710-2618 or 413-736-2618

    (90 miles west of Boston)

     

    Hours and Cover charge:

     

    Wednesday - Saturday 9pm - 2am,

    Sunday 6pm - 2am

     

    Mon Closed

    Tue Closed

    Wed Karaoke Night No Cover for 21+, $5 Cover for 18 + Gold

    (Sorry, no under-21 non-members allowed)

    Thurs No infomation available.

    Fri nude male Go-Go Boys,

    $3.00 cover (per person) for Xcaliber members & up to 3 (21+) guests.

    $6.00 for other 21+ guests.

    18 Plus Gold Members get in for only $7.00,

    under-21 non-members are $10.00

    Sat Xtremi-Tease Nude Male Dancer Show and new dancer auditions, starting at 10:00pm

    $5.00 cover (per person) for Xcaliber members & up to 3 (21+) guests.

    $8.00 for other 21+ guests.

    18 Plus Gold Members get in for only $12.00,

    under-21 non-members are $15.00

    Sun 6pm to 10pm, XtremiTease Nude Male Dancer Reception

    $3.00 cover (per person) for Xcaliber members & up to 3 (21+) guests.

    $6.00 for other 21+ guests.

    (Sorry, this is strictly a 21+ event)

     

    Xcaliber and 18 Plus Gold are memberships for 21+ and 18-20, respectively. They are free at this time -- bascially requires a name and email address for club marketing announcements.

     

    ID needed for entry: only if suspect

    Drinks: reasonable, $3-$5 for most

     

    Format: Single floor consisting of stage, dance floor, small tables w/stools, decent size bar where often the boys dance nude . Coat check available at entrance. Combination dance club and strip bar. No dancing while dancers perform.

     

    Lap Dances: $10 per song to the dancer. No back room. Dance is given on the floor in the open. Seems to be a visual spectacle only.

     

    Dancers: an ethnic mix with various body types -- mostly twinks, some swimmer and muscle. Ok to cute to hot and sexy. Availability for privates off premises unknown. You can always ask.

     

    The Stage: 10 or so dancers on weekends See above for show start times. Each dancer comes on stage for one song in some state of dress and strips down, most to full nudity, a few with erections. Dancers repeat as the line up advances. Some dancers rotate from floor to dance nude on the bar -- up to three or four at a time. There is a nude hoola hoop contest for the dancers on Saturdays. Some dancers gay, some straight -- pretty easy to tell. You can always bet on the twinks.

     

    Crowd: Mixed ages, more to the younger side, Mixed gender crowd.

     

     

    Update: Open seven days a week

     

    Hours:

    Wednesday 3PM–2AM

    Thursday 3PM–2AM

    Friday 3PM–2AM

    Saturday 3PM–2AM

    Sunday 1PM–2AM

    Monday 3PM–2AM

    Tuesday 3PM–2AM

     

    http://www.clubxroom.com/monthsched.html

  7. This is great advice. Another topic should be "be careful what you share with escorts." I have an escort friend I shared with recently. I informed him of a referral I gave and he confirmed that the person on the forum contacted him but they were angling for a discount, etc. So, I left it alone. Then I guess he continued to contact them and it became awkward for me. In the future, I will not recommend him. I am unaware of his business practices.

  8. I hired him some time ago. If memory serves me, it was some type of heart device; he told me but I forget.

     

    Pictures are accurate along with dick size for size queens. Interaction was just an OK thing and nothing I repeated. Nice guy but just no “sizzle.” :(

     

    Well, there you have it folks! What we thought was true. But, at least we learned about a medical device. There is always an educational experience in each thread.

  9. Regarding this product and Zero, is there a difference between those (Pure/Zero) and products like Metamucil and Benefiber? I am envisioning that Pure and Zero are only for short times near or acting to actually clear out while Metamucil/Benefiber are used every day whether you are going to be fucked or not. However vision might and could easily be mistaken.

     

    They are similar. Pure and Zero contain a few additional ingredients for "the cause." They are designed for anal intercourse with men. Whereas, Metamucil is simply a dietary supplement. Hopefully, that makes sense.

  10. I have a wonderful connection with a lovely, very sexy guy in NYC. We're friends on many levels, and I top him as often as possible. To be clear, I'm not into scat, but we've made the douching process part of our extended foreplay -- I think that the very intimate and personal of the process has made it into an incredibly bonding and sensual experience for us both. We are both rock hard throughout, and move seamlessly from shower to bed. I don't think it would work with just any guy who I didn't know, and I know it's not for all tastes, but wow what a trip.

     

    I always wondered how you make it work in the shower without fecal matter splattering everywhere. Even with a shower douching system, I get out and use the toilet to release when douching. The drain would not be able to handle so much in my opinion.

  11. Nope, not for me. I use saline made with sterilized water to douche. I have done this for years without problems. It gets me completely clean. Pure for Men may help you evacuate solids but it does nothing towards getting you clean and removing bacteria. My high fiber diet and douching is preferable for me.

    Agreed. I still think you need to rinse the remaining to eliminate any malodor and such.

  12. https://www.amazon.com/Zero-Him-Premium-Dietary-Supplement/dp/B074DPM52J/ref=sr_1_5_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1514874939&sr=1-5&keywords=Pure+for+men

    Works for me. It reviews very well on Amazon too. But using is believing.

     

     

    Thank you. There is another product, Zero for him listed at 33% less than Pure with the same rating. It is all organic and natural from both companies, so one of them is worth a whirl.ref=sr_1_5_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1514874939&sr=1-5&keywords=Pure+for+men

  13. Not really. Some worship bodybuilders some athletes some ex cons. Ex con builds are some of the very best. Many in ny are very open to the scene. Alot of more adventerous worshippers have sought that fantasy or would if they came across them and had a safe environment to approach them.

     

    I think you missed my point. Your post is perfectly relevant, but you posted it in the incorrect forum. The Deli is for research and conversation about specific people. Not fantasy. That belongs in the forum for Fetish. You will receive more responses as well.

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