lookingforfunny

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/how-is-this-even-possible-on-rentmen.139923/

 

~Boomer~

They should change the title. I searched and did not find it in my initial search. I found it by happenstance. Was it purely based on the review dates in his profile or 411 on the escort? I did not see any 411 related information, which makes it confusing.

Does anyone have the 411 on Stlsean from St. Louis? He was a gem to chat with, but he seems new on the scene and his rates are reflective of what you would expect in Manhattan.

He is very intelligent and seems to be very open.

https://rent.men/Stlsean/

Any information on MuckBootMatt? He is a hot country fella. https://rentmen.eu/MuckBootMatt/

Did we hear back from @lookingforfunny ?

My experiences in LA were tricky. I would recommend JCAL https://rentmen.eu/JayCAL . He will give you exactly what you need.

He was a no show. He will not stop texting.

Hi guys, does anyone have intel on MeatBallz? I believe he either hails from Los Angeles or Memphis. https://rent.men/MeatBallz

It's $20 entrance fee to get into the VIP area/lounge on Saturdays. It may still be $10 on other nights. The VIP private room 2-for-1 only applies to the room rental fee. It is $85 for 15 minutes so you will get 30 minutes. The dancer fee is not 2-for-1 and is the normal fee. Normally the dancer fee is $100 for 15 minutes. However you would pay the normal fee of $200 for the 30 minutes. The dancer fee is paid to the door keeper up front when paying the room rental so I'm not sure if it can be negotiated with the dancer. That may be a minimum amount and could negotiate more with the dancer if you wanted something specific?

For that price point, I would hire a professional to dance for me on an hourly basis, in the comfort of a luxury hotel room with warm towels and running water. And you would not worry about the liquor laws, since you will have your own bar. Create your own 2for1 special.

If the dancers are mediocre, that is a poor value proposition. Unless......it comes with a really good kiss on the neck.

I can vouch for Jay Cal (https://rentmen.eu/JayCAL). He's a great guy, very handsome, lots of fun.

 

I know he is good with 3-somes, so maybe you should book both Krisitian and Jay. That is one of my fantasies and I haven't been able to make it work.

I am working on booking a business trip to LA, this fall. It is on my priority list to book time with JayCal. He was easy to talk to and was a fairly swell guy. The perfect man's man. He wouldn't fit my "take home to mom fantasy," because she would try to get him. I want a challenge and he snickered at the idea, which got me going. Either he will take me down or I will take him down. I want Jay to make me a believer.

On it.

And....moving along..

Perhaps everyone is still groggy from last night. Surely, we have several tops in LA who want to be with a sexy Asian man. East Asian for geo-preference.

Thanks @Drained Empty, for the post.

Perhaps, if you are interested in booking a provider outside your race, you may consider the option of presenting it up front and asking the provider how they feel and if they have had successful connections with people from the same group. If they cannot answer that question or you are the first, I would be wary of a meeting and if they do not answer at all you will clearly understand why. We can make this a therapy session, but the reality is that you are in control of your dollars. It is much better to know up front than to have someone in your space or you in theirs and they completely take advantage of you and make it something else altogether. That is the worst kind of deception and rejection. So, I would consider it a gift as good or bad as they can offer it. You would be wasting the gift of your hard earned money and your spirit. This is America, no need to be surprised. Apparently, it was greater before, so we are striving to reach the levels of the past. Hmmm.

My latest fantasy: serving Jay and Lamir simultaneously!! If only!

Give them a call. You know where to find them.

expenses plus muti-day fee

I would have canceled after day one. I wouldn't tolerate that from a fuckbuddy, boyfriend, date, and certainly not when I am paying for TIME. That special TIME thingy TIME TIME TIME. It means, you spent several thousands of dollars to be cute on instagram. Put his ass out and cancel the flight back.

I had a regular date from a guy who chased me for years attend a friends wedding in Cabo. Well, the night before the wedding when we all went out he was wasted sitting and snuggling up with a local in front of my friends. I didn't blink. When he returned to the room he was checked out and the ticket I paid for was canceled by my assistant. You can pay your own way since you are traveling alone. I need my room free for the hot local ass I'll be fucking tonight. So, call your boy and head over to the barrio. "He doesn't have a place." Well you two have a lot in common. I am sure he never did that again. Part of this experience needs to be a lesson.

This is worse than newbies trying to spend the entire session "Getting to know you." Let them now your therapy is covered by insurance. If we don't know each other in 10 minutes, you should leave. Ciao.

It sounds like you have more of a "friendly" relationship where when he needs something you are his good friend. But when you need something, business less than usual.

Kick him out. I get annoyed by such trash. You worked hard to wine and dime him for no cuddle and no selfie. A third of the guys there are less and they would love to join you. You will look like a well respected gentleman in the end.

Hmmm....

Awhile back he really was acting like a frantic presence on BackPage Miami / FLL.....posting ads like 3 or 4 times each & every day....perhaps there's a coherent reason for that kind of "behavior".....my own impression when I see that - desperate.....that all being said, his pics & stats were still appealing.

I do not think this is a fair assessment. I believe people who used those sites would repost to move their ad to the top of the page for that day. Unlike subscription services a la Rentmenfriend.com, where they move your ad automatically, based on subscription level. That is why you see the most popular supermodels and porn stars featured on the premium sites and you have to do a little research on the others.

He is gorgeous and seems to be a nice guy. So, to be clear, I reached out to Scott once or twice with no response. Now, I understand that he simply filters bookings down to day of only. That little fact shows that he is not desperate. He is busy smashing pumpkins. I too, felt a little slighted, but I never take it to heart. I like to confirm details before booking and get a gauge ahead of time for long distance bookings. However, upon arrival in a different location, I prefer same day bookings, which give me flexibility for my business meetings and dinners. Just like escorts, you and I would not kick our income stream aside for someone who is future tripping about whether they like their left or right butt cheek slapped.

Dear Scott, when I arrive in south Florida, I will start pinging you at sunrise to get on the docket. Is there some sort of lottery system? Perhaps it is like a black Friday sale. You can push people over and trample them to the ticket machine? That could be fun. Now, I am focused on wanting some big white cock. arrggghh!

Is Jay a good kisser, as in deep, passionate kissing?

I would say they perform at the same level. Different styles. Jay prefers to be an assertive verbal dom military gay for pay type. If you get off on the jock straight guy using a gay bottom in a porn flick, he will give you quite the show and he is so into it, which makes it worthwhile. He kisses full tongue and make you look into his eyes because he wants to see you enjoy it.

Lamir is very sensual and verbal and will read your energy and take it where you desire. You will receive wet kisses in a multitude of places and you will find your kisses flowing over his body like a roomba sweeper. Check them out. I always boast about them, because they deserve it and no one I have recommended them to has complained to me about their experience. If they did have a complaint, I invite them to correct me.

Does Lamir kiss and do oral?

Kisses, oral, may rim you, verbal, gorgeous rock hard body with tattoos. He used to have long dreds, but he has a preppy military cut these days. His cock is out of this world and he is such a smart young jock. Highly recommended. I could submit a half a dozen reviews for Lamir and half that for Jay. Both attend local universities and the guys enjoy making men go crazy for them.

The remark about Jay over texting has been addressed. I think you may just need to say no and not be on the fence. This is that grey area where providers feel slighted by clients not booking or following through, so it may be in response to that global issue. I have experienced it with him and thought it was odd, but when I followed up he replied, "thanks, I just needed a reply." After he follows up with you, you cannot flake out and message him randomly, etc. Which may explain some of the "he did not respond to me" remarks. He has a regimented schedule, where he works out, attends class, and does other work. He communicates before the gym and before dinnertime. So you won't hear from him overnight. He is sleeping and hits it again the following day. I think that should clear things up. So, if you are in his feed, he will follow up until you tell him you are not interested. So, my advice is the following: The golden rule. Do not contact a provider repeatedly an ignore them when they follow up and then say they ignored you or that they blew up your inbox with messages aggressively if you said it was okay to follow up. The key is yes or no, when and where, or nowhere. I totally agree. Little things are resolved with communication.

As with any repeat experiences, I have experienced only a few minor things, but they are corrected quickly, earnestly, and respectfully. You won't say you had that particular issue again. I operate in the same manner. I do not run to the forum to post without resolving an issue, directly. We all make mistakes and we all deserve to get what we pay for. I had more challenges with providers in Boston than any other market. I am not sure why, but it happens. I think there is a core group you consistently read praise about in the forum and a sprinkling of hard knock life men who are misdirected. The forum does a good job guiding us. So, I will end with this....I think most of us would prefer to have an aggressive booker or texting provider than the ones who screen, ask for deposits up front, no show, leave early, you name it. I hope that helps.

Really?

 

And if you don't mind me asking, how much score do you pay?

 

And is your place score controlled, or just score stabilized?

They have to go before the ScoreBoard.

I am surpised no one mentioned.

https://rent.men/JayMarzzini

Jay is a masterpiece. Exudes masculinity and dominance and he is a young muscular adonis. Hung long and an ass you want to place in a curiosity cabinet.

Lamir is another amazing top guy. https://rent.men/Lamir

Had a chance to meet Scott last night and thought it appropriate to start a new thread given that I started one about him previously. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-mike-sinz-and-scott-b.116988/#post-1255976

 

I have to say meeting Scott was a great experience and he is really one of the good guys in the business. I had a great time with him and will be submitting a review.

 

Btw, his pictures do not do him justice - he is very handsome and his dick is so much bigger and thicker than what is visible. It is freaking HUGE! Most of all he was very patient with me as it took a long time to accommodate him, and even then, I still couldn't take him.

 

There were some negative comments about him in the thread I mention above and they are in no way representative of the guy I met last night. All of his reviews on rentmen are 5-star and after my experience I can honestly say he more than lived up to those reviews.

 

Any size queen bottom should RUN to meet up with Scott!

Thanks, Steve. Sometimes, I like to meet BWC guys. I am totally intrigued about your experience and the possibility of meeting Scott. Good news!

LOL. I don't know if that came out the way you intended.

Agreed. That delivery was very telling. ["Like duh, I am white why should I know that?"] You would think that providers of all types are well informed or would like to be.

So with the Internet on the fritz, I've decided to take to business cards. Recently printed my first set from an online retailer. Though I have a sexy pic on the front, I am keeping it very ambiguous and makes no references to money, appointments or sex.

 

Even if the Internet isn't on the fritz, it's crazy how many times I've found myself in engaging conversations with older guys just out and about. Just had one today where the guy started chatting with me, shook my hand twice, but more eager the second time around. Appeared in every way a client. It all makes me feel it's even more important to have something to hand over about myself, to put something into play when it's not so spur of the moment.

 

My only reservations are handing them over to the wrong person. My headline reads "underwear model/relaxation". Wanted to keep it as ambiguous as possible. Even "masseur" could raise legal concerns. However, I don't intend to freely hand it out like fliers. I would only hand it out to people who seem like they "could" be interested in something after they approach me (similar to responding to an ad).

 

However, I wonder if passing around biz cards could equate to the real world version of craigslist..where even if they are game, would it turn into issues with price. Also whether or not they are married, straight, or closeted (all which is not an issue since many of my clients fit those parameters).

 

Regardless, I will try it out. I don't expect to hand out many, but definitely want to keep on hand. Want to expand beyond versus doing everything on the Internet. At the same time, many areas where these "encounters" happen tend to be in suburban or rural areas not near gay districts. So, I have to be careful not handing information over to an extreme conservative.

I would think a card with the title "Personal Trainer/Fitness Expert/Physical Therapist" would be more apropos to keeping it tidy.

You could even be a Hot Yoga Instructor specializing in singles or couples training for those who are too embarrassed to jump into specialized group classes.

Finish it with: we also curate personal fitness plans tailored to improving your overall well being. No pain no gain.

*ask about our in-home colonic cleansing therapies with bonus aromatherapy calming treatment to reset your neurons.

Or simply go with the flow and get yourself a premium ad on Rentmen and put your hot tools on display. The biggest ad spends for retailers are on Google and Facebook. Businesses are not asking about analog technology. But to your point, a business card is a great tool for the client to think about things. It should led them someplace to investigate further. Perhaps they text you to receive a weblink to a personal portal with a special pin or password personalized and reflective of your boutique and personal service. This will keep the wife or partner from misusing your data out of rage. I personally would not take a business card with a provocative image of a man on it. It is 2018, people are pretty hip. Most of the people we know have hired, so they are not fooled.

If I was a hot escort, I would generate a card with the title: life coach. I would invest in a gorgeous leather sofa of the highest quality. Drape it with a comfortable throw and pillow. You can even take a photo home of you riding the ride, like the amusement parks do. Just pick one out on the ipad by the door and it will be sent to you via email or text or printed on site. The cotton candy is complimentary on your way out.

So, you have an arsenal of free ideas here. You can keep doing this and keep data mining for ideas or get your ass out there and make some hot videos and take the information you have learned here and be the best provider.

For the month of May you will receive a twerk back bonus for your next booking if you had a top notch experience and wrote a review to daddy. Once you get the notification of the posting and verification, setup their bounce back reward.

As the economic tide unfolds people have to be smart and savvy. All I read in the forums is about the consistent quality guys and the novice "scamateurs." It seems like the formula is really easy:

Have a good hustle:

Be nice as fuck

Be a good fuck

Be a good listener

Flattery will get you everywhere

OMG I must have won the jackpot with you daddy. You are just my type.....say that to your clients

Be a slot machine. Make your client want to pull the lever over and over again. Make the lights light up and lucky sevens happen more than not. Kiss passionately.

Best of all.......every client wants to be the best client. A little humility works. Tell them about your struggle and let them know how hard you are going to work to exceed their expectations and earn their trust in hopes of a great review or referral.

"one man's junk is another man's treasure" How does your junk stack up to the rest of the field?

We are tired of tired providers. The ones who WORK get all the work. The best no longer have to advertise and they work less for more. What is your long-term plan?

I had a provider tip me once and said, "man, for a moment I forgot who called who." He knows what he is doing and he gets it right back anyway. Most of the legacy gentlemen here will tell you they prefer to have a regular, consistent trustworthy connection. When you clean your room every week mommy or daddy gives you allowance. You make their lives easier.

Good luck brother.

Menus? Somewhat disagree. But, yes...to a point. After all, we're dealing with human beings. But even in business (outside of this one), your experience, your resume, your education, etc. are "boxes" that are checked or not depending on what you have as a professional to offer or will consider or even what you're good at. It's all about creating a "picture" in addition to photos and profile descriptions. These sorts of items can save us all a lot of time. If you're a hire who is not in to offering "role play" but that's a big part of what I'm looking for, then it saves both of us because I won't be emailing or texting you only to find out that you're not into "role play" on the job. But, yes...important to remember we're all human and treating each other with dignity and respect is vital.

Bingo!

I've been following him for some time, he can't host (and neither can I). I might need to grab a hotel for this boy....

So, @JEC , Did you take the plunge and book Jay? He is pretty amazing. This thread encouraged me to book him a couple times afterwards. Did you check it out? Or a different choice?

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In each case that I was asked to pay upfront, the experience was horrible. The escort suddenly didn’t do the recreational activities we’d discussed, or—in one case—actually started to look at his phone in the middle of things.

That is lame. If someone starts looking at their phone during playtime, either they are getting ejected or I am leaving. Money up front is not an option. In a few rare cases, I have said, let's split the risk. Half now and half when our session ends. If that is not good enough, they can hustle elsewhere. Up front payment ALWAYS ends poorly. ALWAYS!