NYMassageAddict

Do you want private masseurs or a spa? I have seen some tandems private guys that know this ritual and can be quite enjoyable but in a spa, my experience has been that the masseurs are very uncomfortable executing a massage with another in the room. They like the experience one on one for the most part and you’ll be able to create a much better experience if you do that.

I’ll give another case where I imagined I was the unexpected twist for the masseur at a spa here in NYC. I had been to a spa in K town where the massage was adequate but nothing sensual. I had been worked up and no relief in sight. So I called another spa and requested 30 minutes as I only really needed a release. So I go in the room and instead of the standard, undress and start face down, I got naked, still hard and laid on my back. When the masseur walked in, he had quite the surprise but he took the cue properly and instantly went to work on what needed most attention. It was 30 minutes of pure bliss.

I never knew any regulars at Green House but always felt the rooms were nice and the towel heater in the room meant the masseurs didn’t have to leave midway through massage. I will give this place a try sometime soon.

I’ll contribute some more to this thread. I’ve had a number of surprising things happen to me during a massage, which I guess is what I crave at this time. I appreciate how many on here get a regular and stick with them, but I love the unknown, even if that results in some clunker experiences along the way. I used to go to a provider on 2nd avenue just north of 42nd. I can’t recall how I found it but it was basically a chiropractor practice and this one asian guy had his own massage room. What was unexpected about this is you’d sit in the waiting room with other standard chiropractor customers and he would call you in his room. He would put on medical gloves (which it turns out kinda turned me on) and provided a medical grade massage complete with being draped throughout until the very end where he would remove the sheet and relieve me. For some reason each time, I thought - oh that was a one off, he won’t do that again, but each time he would. And he was excellent. I think he’s been gone from that spot for a number of years but I wonder if others ever visited there.

I understand the tackiness of praising one’s own skills on a separate post. I’m fairness he’s not a marketing professional. That said, I am curious to know about this statement of being concerned about personal privacy and not being monitored. Was the spa monitoring him? What exactly does that mean?

Anyone have any interesting stories of what’s happened to them during a massage that maybe was unexpected or caught you off guard? Maybe a masseur blindfolding them? Using a technique or toy that they weren’t prepared for? I have had my share but the one that comes to mind was at the end, I was obviously aroused and instead of the standard finish, he placed MY OWN hand on my hard on instead of his own. At first I was pissed, but considering the circumstances, I decided to take care of myself. It turned out to be a hot experience to please myself in front of him while he watched and it took me no time at all to explode. What experiences have you had that were unexpected or memorable?

Yes seems pretty obvious but I appreciate that he’s out here hustling and trying his best. A) he knows where this conversation takes place so he can know what people like and don’t like B) He knows that this world is very competitive and customers share stories. Yes, it’s a little tacky to pretend to be a reviewing customer but I’ll give him a pass. Correction: not pretty obvious, blatantly obvious, but oh well

I thought Grandee was famous for tip begging mid-massage. That’s a horrible reputation in the spa world.

They appear to be run by the Green House people. I contacted them. $60 per hour as usual. Don’t know about the space or anything else. Seems worth a shot.

So I walked by Green House Spa on 14/6 earlier today and texted to see if they were open. I was informed that they moved to 122 W. 29th St. I don’t know if they operate under the same name or a new one but it might be worth checking out. I always thought of Green House as an undervalued spot in the city. Not the best but certainly ahead of many others that get a lot more attention. Anyone try out the new spot yet?

I want to be helpful but in candor, you’ve created a good list and at this time you just need to pull the trigger and give it a shot. There is no silver bullet. You may have an extraordinary experience with someone not on the list or a bad one with someone from this list. Chemistry is important and as a receiver, you also play a role in how your experience goes.

I think you should try it for your own judgment but I would tell you that in my experience, four hand massage isn’t worth it. I’ve had probably a handful of them and it seems that the masseurs prefer one on one time and can even be a bit embarrassed by what they’re doing with another masseur present, even if it’s a known. If they are apt to get more into it, they won’t in front of a colleague because they want to uphold an image. I have had a four hand session that was advertised as a choreographed experience and that was much better - but in a spa setting, I’d probably prefer one on one now.

I would never speak to anyone in a demeaning way for my own benefit only. I would have to know that they are into it - and to be honest, I think my joy is more for their benefit than mine. But I do find the dynamic hot. To answer another, it has been East Asian only thus far.

Korean guy hard under towel Theres something I love about being draped as long as possible during a massage. Then the big reveal.

I was younger leaving the bars late night in Chicago before Uber existed. Taxi driver picked me up and struck up conversation about how the bars were etc. somehow at one point he said “hey why don’t you sit up front here with me” so I did. I was drunk. He starts talking about homosexuality and how his religion is opposed to it and yet he points to his bulge in his pants. I reached over and touched it and he was erect. I said maybe you’re gay. He said “maybe” but I can’t do anything about it. I unzipped him and he didn’t object. Next thing I know we are at my destination. He parks. I continue to jerk him off until he cums all over himself and my hand. Needless to say, I declined to pay as he got a free release. Seemed fair to me.

First off, I agree entirely, but I’ll play devils advocate. Let’s pretend someone lives next to one of these spas and they think having “this type of business” reduces their value. They call the police several times. As tax paying citizens, the police owe them a follow up. Or let’s say someone is fearful of sex trade and thinks (incorrectly) that they are doing the workers a favor. Or let’s just say someone is an asshole but they are on a mission and call the cops repeatedly. The reality is that these shops are illegal, not only for the sex trade concerns but because I can’t imagine more than 10% actually have licenses to perform massage. Enjoy that this option (and so many of them) exist. NY is the ONLY city in the US where this remotely exists.

I’m seeking a massage this evening at Utopia. I am looking for young, thin twinky asian. If you know of someone there please let me know. Thanks

Can you tell me more about Jack physically? Thin? Young?

I visited Energy Men Spa on 23rd St in Chelsea. I like guys who are more on the younger/twink side so they told me they had a new young guy, JJ. Relatively cute, certainly sweet and tried but not experienced. He knows his job, but doesn’t know how to really make it amazing. Functionally, all checked out. But I definitely wouldn’t return to him.

I don’t think the point here was to say what you are into or not. I am not into fisting, but I don’t judge those who are. Some guys love to be called those things IN THE BEDROOM, but would fight tooth and nails if someone on the streets called them those names. It is a fetish.

So apparently this event is happening in NYC this weekend. You buy tickets in advance as a stallion or mare. The mares pay to be filled by several bare cocks and bred all day long.

This is definitely a “thing” for some guys. I had a guy who wanted me to watch sports while he sucked me off. I was especially into the game too so I couldn’t really focus on his sucking but it also made me last longer which he enjoyed.

LA scene is very different from NY scene in this department. The spas you refer to in LA are nearly bath houses that have attendants. Though there are folks here who are more experienced with those than I am, that is not where a bulk of spa life is for gay New Yorkers. In NYC, the spas most talk about are massage shops only. There aren’t locker rooms. You go to a front desk, they escort you to a room where a massage table is present. They MAY have a table shower, but otherwise you get a massage and you leave. Your definition of hot is clearly subjective. Some think young twink Asians are hot. Others think masculine Latinos are hot.

This is why I posed the question. I am open to the fact that this “fetish” is an issue and may say something about me. But I also have interacted with asian guys who seek it out and the role play aspect is mutually fun. Regardless, don’t crucify me for bringing it up. I am open to feedback. From more than one perspective. thanks for yours

I don’t know what is crossing a line on here, especially in today’s climate, but while I’m a liberal and push for diversity and equity, I have a strong fetish for Asian guys who love to be talked to in a demeaning way sexually. anyone else?