Montyd

Consider hiring a financial planner. It might feel contradictory to spend money on someone when you don't have a lot of money, but any good financial planner should earn you many times more than they cost. We hired one last year for the first time. Had we had done that 30 years ago...I might be retired now

Do NOT run up credit cards. If you can't pay cash, you can't afford it.

Using racial slurs would skeeve me out.  I can 'grok' the kink and why some guys might want it, but I couldn't engage in it myself.  That's a hard pass for me.
That said, I would find a guy talking dirty to me in a foreign language while we're together very hot.  If a guy starts speaking portugues or italian or japanese, I'm turned on like Gomez when Morticia speaks french.   I guess that's a kind of 'race play', too, but hopefully benign.

Whenever I frequent a sex venue and look up at the porn playing, I sometimes think to myself: “Wow, I’ve had sex with him. It’s was exciting, exhilarating and due to the quality of the provider, a special time. What a lucky person I am”. 
Thanks for providing that extra dimension to my life. 

Whenever I frequent a sex venue and look up at the porn playing, I sometimes think to myself: “Wow, I’ve had sex with him. It’s was exciting, exhilarating and due to the quality of the provider, a special time. What a lucky person I am”. 
Thanks for providing that extra dimension to my life. 

That is a great share 

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I don't know if he has been mentioned but Dallas Steele would be a must

My post looked like that, and that was not what I intended, so I edited it. I was just surprised. I'm a bottom, and two bottoms can have a lot of fun without penetration. If an escort is a bottom I wouldn't rule out hiring them but I would be disinclined to suggest that they change what they do to suit me.

Is it one certain position that makes you cum when your using the dildo? Maybe stop (as has been suggested) and switch positions? I know if I'm on top riding dick I often cum quickly so I try to avoid that position till the end.
 
Hugs,
Greg

That goes without saying! Lol

Much of my first exposure to porn was through dirty novels and those "letters" magazines etc (anyone remember "First Hand?") - so for me, the "story" of the sex became very alluring - to this day, I love doing roleplay - coming up with the scenario and having fun playing it out. The real-life problem with that, of course, is that most people just want to go at it, without all the setup. (And I'm not saying I don't, of course - just that I also find roleplay to be very erotic if someone's into it.) But yeah, the same fallacies (or phallus-ies?) about sex happen in those books too - that sex is easy to get all the time and that it can happen pretty easily, that guys are always hard and ready from moment one, that every orgasm is huge and spectacular, that every cock is huge and spectacular, etc.
 
Something from films, of course, is the curiosity of the "money shot." Obviously you need to have them for the visual effect, but - even with safe sex in mind - I tend to think that most guys in real life would rather be shooting off while still inside someone, whether it be ass, mouth, or pussy. So that whole conceit of pulling out to then shoot it on the guys' back, etc, just seems unrealistic. But it's pretty rare, at least in my experience, to see a porn scene without seeing the cumshot.

2 illusions: porn tops never have soft dicks, and porn bottoms all have easy-entry butts that are magically pre-lubricated and never get messy.

The bottom is face down on bed, ass up, and the top is climbed up on the bed pounding his hole while the top's foot is swung around smashing the bottoms face into it bed.
 
I've tried it when topping a twink and it's definitely possible but not very comfortable and not a good fuck. But it looks impressive

Yes, a few while cruising - so no names. Unfortunately I never met George Michael!

You seem shy to be asking a sexual question. Nothing to be embarrassed/shy about when it comes to sex! Ask away! Rimming and eating pussy are similar in 2 respects 1) The tongue is being used 2) You usually (but not always) are priming an area to get it hot and ready to be fucked. I have been with lots of bisexual guys, and have to admit, from eating all that pussy, their tongues were strong and nimble and they were excellent at rimming me! I was with one guy who had never been with a man before and had only eaten pussy, never rimmed a guy. I was his first. He rimmed me that first night, and he was so turned on rimming me he ejaculated as he was rimming me.....shot all over the bed! He explained later that he was so turned on since I was so tight.....all the pussy he had eaten the woman were always loose......so the tight hole was a major turn on for him, and he shot his load before he was able to fuck me. That was the beginning of a VERY hot 3 year relationship with LOTS of rimming, then fucking.

Yes, I have changed my eating habits drastically since being diagnosed as diabetic. After cutting out sugar, processed foods and high sugar content fruits my blood sugars are within normal range and of course I’ve lost a huge amount of weight.

I am turned on when the person I am with is turned on. If they really want my body, which is an extension of myself, I feel wanted and I am very turned on by it. I like feeling "hot" for others.

Yes, a few while cruising - so no names. Unfortunately I never met George Michael!

Yes, I have changed my eating habits drastically since being diagnosed as diabetic. After cutting out sugar, processed foods and high sugar content fruits my blood sugars are within normal range and of course I’ve lost a huge amount of weight.

nice fictional story, congrats

nice fictional story, congrats

Aaaaaah, started for me in college when I discovered glory holes:) used to be easy to find sex on the road - most every rest area/pull over offerred release. Up into my late 50s, I came 5-7x a DAY — so I have fed thousands & thousands of men.

Bright sunny day gives hope of spring and snowbanks disappearing. They also make me hornier than usual!!!
 
So off to an area cruising spot, just in case there was action.
 
I was a WINNER:) Ran into a guy who enjoyed every minute of the 45 minutes he was sucking me. Keeping me rock hard and on the edge as he employed a marvelous selection of oral moves to keep it interesting and me moaning, groaning and exclaiming -- warning him when to lighten up for a moment.
 
Finally told him to go ahead and take his reward . I was drained - He savored it and the guy watching enjoyed the show. When I stood up, my knees were weak - had I been standing when I came, I would have had to hang on to something to keep from collapsing. 3 hours later I still felt delightfully drained and relaxed.
 
Hopefully I will run into him again -- He has no regular schedule so it will be luck/hit or miss.

When I was growing up we used raisins not green grapes! Apples, raisins, celery & walnuts.