GTMike

I understand what you're feeling like you were potentially somewhat taken advantage of or others got benefits that you paid and provided for. But think of it this way. You got to meet someone who may not of visited your city for a long time and you commented that you did have a nice overnight. So potentially in the future if and when he's in Dallas again you got a "known quantity" and reliable friend that established trust and rapport with. But also it's also quite possible that the Wednesday to Sunday round fare may have been cheaper for you than a shorter Saturday to Sunday trip. Yes it might feel more special if the entire trip was just focused on you but i've done the same but encouraged the gentleman to feel free to take advantage of the "free" trip, sight see if he wants, book other clients at a hotel etc.. as long as I'm comfortable he'll be reliable and respectful during my time with him. I atually think it can help establish boundaries and balance when meeting for the initial time if your the type that likes to hire for long lasting regulars.

Yes in fact there used to be specific language on this site saying specifically not to post reviews here in response to recent online trafficking laws in the aboundance of caution to protect the Forum

The age hasn't been updated on the profile and he's more in the 29 - 31 age range but still has a baby-ish type face and looks as profiled. He's incredibly cool and although straight is very good at what he does and appropriately adaptable to the multiple markets he serves.

Thanks for info. He's listing himself as 35. Wondering if anyone else may have met him as well recently?

Curious if anyone has experience with this gentlemen? (https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/33048/)

Hmmm? Well yeah historically, currently, and culturally in this country if a guy takes something "up their ass" then it's linked to homosexual behavior. I know and am a part of the "straight" dominant culture as you are and would bet am friends with just as many if not more "straigh masculine alpha dudes" as well. I can assure you that none of those "straight" friends would ever willingly allow a guy to put his penis into his butt. Obviously that is considered homophobic by association but i can assure they are not homophobic in the sense that they discriminate or do not like "gay people or culture". They support marriage equality, do not like negative destructive stereotyping of gay,lesbian, bi etc, could care less about what others do in their sexual personal lives, have the utmost respect for others who aren't "straight" and would shower all the love and affection on their children who happened to be gay, transgendered and would want them to be express who they are etc... I agree though this can get very complicated as one friend of mine who needed money desperately who is unbelievably hot, (trust me on that) was offered $50,000 by one of his long-term friend's who is closeted gay and (absolutely has that kind of throw away money) to top him just once. He very respectfully and politely declined and inisisted they go out party and have fun like normal. He wasn't offended or angry at all and it did not effect their friendship. Just was a personal boundary. However i know that he and others inclusive of ultra elite Navy Seal/Delta Force/Marine Special Forces bad ass male types don't mind from time to time when their girlfriends or wives stick their fingers up their butt and play with that prostrate and increase their organisms. And before i get attacked i 100% admit the hypocrisy of the picture I'm painting. For example, if the girlfriend/wife used a rubber club (shaped like a small police billy club) or a toy to help out instead of fingers that might be ok but if it looked like a penis, then yeah most bets are off. At first i was gonna comment that your "death comment" was a little extreme but in context given the choice i suppose some women could choose death rather than being penetrated and raped against their will potentially, so for men i could see that parallel.

Thx greatly appreciated.

Yes agreed above, though selfishly i wish the masseurfinder site would also include age, height, weight in the standard public profile descriptions as well. Helps paint a fuller picture a bit, haha

Just was seeing if any 411 on https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38123/. Seems to go back and forth from NY and LA or perhaps recently moved to LA

I guess that'd be a resounding no. . Haha. I'll try to contact soon.

Haha thanks. All good. I almost was going to start a new thread about it myself. Thanks greatly appreciated.

Thanks informative. But what i also mean is if there is a profile of a gentleman on PJB, despite going through an intermediary was there any history or evidence that the photo's used on PJB were fake and a different person could show up. I guess I'm asking if there's any way to know if the rep's running PJB are vouching or not for the veracity of the listings on their site.

Consistent with my experience. Everything started nice and he quickly went to video clips but he went ballistic when i told him (politely and respectively) i didn't like doing video's. I don't even do video calls with close friends and family, but expressed i would happily text (as we were doing fine) but also happily speak on the phone. (And I had already sent him pictures). It was months ago and I'm still not sure, if he sent 8 separate belligerent video messages or if it was just one or two very long diatribes and my old phone's tech couldn't keep up and i just received it piecemail. Lol

Back up under different name, (https://rentmasseur.com/Fredrickvibe), it looks like.

The person in the Pic's has been around for quite a while some times as a strictly a Masseur but has also in the past been on RM as an escort on occasion. Met him a couple years ago and in my experience was a legit provider.

He was also on Seeking as well earlier this year i believe transitioning from San Diego to LA. We corresponded briefly and he was nice (whoever i was corresponding with) but schedules didn't align (my side being the issue not his).

Never mind my question. Was silly. Apologies

Apologies in advance if silly quesiton but how do you know he is "new in LA"? Just asking as i didn't see it in the profile?

"You can find a masculine gay escort like come on it gets ridiculous sometimes". I hear ya but unfortunately too often it seems that when the "masculine vs effeminate" description is used to express a personal preference and trying to seek out one or the other, the conversation can go into many directions and finding actual quality leads can get lost in the dust up, hahaha

Congrats!, Hopefully you guys will have a great time!

Any idea what Cade quotes for his rates?

I'm curious if anyone has met him recently and what rates he might quote?

Any idea what Cade quotes for his rates?

And likewise. I use the web version. At least on mine if you go to the general home search function, there are standard icons on the bottom of the site. Starting from left going right on the bottom of the screen there is a "Home icon", then the "Mail icon", then "notifications", then "My Buddies", then a few more going on the bottom of the screen. When you are perusing profiles you can "buddylist" people that you are interested in and then when you go to the "My Buddies" section there are tabs towards the top. Again going from left to right, there are 4 "tabs" titled, 1) "My Buddy's" which lists all the profiles you've added, then 2) "Online Buddy's" so you can real time see which of them are currently online in their profile, then 3) Blocked Users, which lists profiles you may have blocked and then 4) "Buddylist Activities". When you go into that tab it will list historically when a profile makes any changes like adding new pictures or that profile gets a review or changes their city and lists their travel. Hopefully this is making sense hahaha. It's possible maybe these are features for the "premium" account and that could be why it's not showing up for you? But i don't think so. Check it out and lemme know what you see and if you have any other questions we can take this to PM so not to bug others. Hahaha