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I enjoy flirty text exchanges with providers but I take my cue from the provider himself. My initial texts are very business like, just like the exchanges I’ve had with other service providers like lawn maintenance and repair guys. Even when discussing the “into” part, I try my best to be very respectful and sensitive. But if the provider so chooses to reply with flirty remarks like, “I’m looking forward to being inside of you”, I reciprocate. I draw the line when he starts saying, “I can’t wait for you to be my bitch and ram my rod into your hole”

Some escorts have told me that RentMen shows them as Available Now without them setting it up.

I’m with you on this

Direct, yes! Some masseurs have stood by it. But from experience, I’ve come to see that response as a smokescreen, maybe to ward off potential stings. With the right and respectful approach, they drop their guards and their pants or whatever it is they have on.

I heard his partner is well-hung

I wish all providers were like you, willing to discuss extra services and upgrades.

I hate how he responded to you but why did you need to call him out on having two ads with different stage names? A lot of providers do that.

“I’m not an escort” I’ve gotten this reply from many advertisers on RentMasseur and MF. But with some respectful persistence, I’ve gotten lucky and they agreed to go beyond the massage to something two consenting adults would do. Sometimes it happens during the text exchange. At other times they don’t discuss it until the actual meeting. Bring extra cash.

New ad link https://rent.men/DamianVIP Any new info on this guy?

Have you been his victim too?

A little over half a century is not that old. Plus, how could I have fallen asleep with everything that was going on around me. When they wouldn’t let me join in the fun, I played the part of the voyeur to the max. It was awkward at first but it was the best I could do under the circumstances.

I concur

When I see an escort I like in an ad for my city, knowing how RM works, my first text is, “Hi buddy, are you in [name of city]? I’m interested in meeting when you come for a visit.” That usually gets the text exchange going.

Age, body, race The first thing I did when I got back home was hire an escort and emphatically ask him to make me feel desirable ?

Unfortunately, that is not the case. I just treat home location on RM as the escort’s current location.

A lot was going on when I was there. How I wish they’d let me in on the action.

Bohemian! Now I know how to describe the places of most 20-something escorts I’ve met for incalls at their apartments. Cue the intro for “La Vie Bohème”

If only “truth in advertising” laws applied to escort ads. One of the reasons providers are bombarded with so many questions is because most ads are ambiguous. I hate seeing ads where all the boxes are checked on the “Into” section. If you’ve been following the ads for some time, you’ll know that they change their “Home” cities to their present location. How accurate and effective are the “Near Travel” sections? They never worked for me. As a client, I try not to ask for information that is already on the ad. But from experience, half the information there is untrue and incomplete and the only way to know for certain is to ask. But when I ask too many questions, I’m called a time waster. I’m not dissing on escorts here. I’m just expressing my wish for better and clearer communication between clients and providers.

Are there still clubs in NYC that have what goes on at Attack?

Quite aggressive, I agree. It was my very first time at a sex club. I was expecting sex of course but I did not expect fisting. How I wish I had also met a guy for hire to take back to my hotel. Would have been a good recovery from the humiliating snub I shared in an earlier post.

I know it’s been 4 months but I just wanted to ask about your visit to Attack. How did it go?

Do “arguments” mean the same thing as “roses”? He says in his ad he can bottom if you have the right arguments.

My question is more about what category or label such preference falls under. I don’t know exactly how to express my question. If a gay man identifies himself as the “woman” in the relationship. Like in this case fantasizing about carrying the man’s baby, being the bottom and seeing his anus as a vagina. Is that being transgender? Growing up, this is the kind of gay behavior I’ve seen around me. Gay males dressing up as females, acting like females, and waiting for some sort of Prince Charming to take them as the girlfriend or wife.

Isn’t he the RM of the Day today - August 2? https://rent.men/VerseTwink/#rmotd

I’m speaking of the traditional female/wife roles.