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When I see an escort I like in an ad for my city, knowing how RM works, my first text is, “Hi buddy, are you in [name of city]? I’m interested in meeting when you come for a visit.” That usually gets the text exchange going.

Age, body, race The first thing I did when I got back home was hire an escort and emphatically ask him to make me feel desirable ?

Unfortunately, that is not the case. I just treat home location on RM as the escort’s current location.

A lot was going on when I was there. How I wish they’d let me in on the action.

Bohemian! Now I know how to describe the places of most 20-something escorts I’ve met for incalls at their apartments. Cue the intro for “La Vie Bohème”

If only “truth in advertising” laws applied to escort ads. One of the reasons providers are bombarded with so many questions is because most ads are ambiguous. I hate seeing ads where all the boxes are checked on the “Into” section. If you’ve been following the ads for some time, you’ll know that they change their “Home” cities to their present location. How accurate and effective are the “Near Travel” sections? They never worked for me. As a client, I try not to ask for information that is already on the ad. But from experience, half the information there is untrue and incomplete and the only way to know for certain is to ask. But when I ask too many questions, I’m called a time waster. I’m not dissing on escorts here. I’m just expressing my wish for better and clearer communication between clients and providers.

Are there still clubs in NYC that have what goes on at Attack?

Quite aggressive, I agree. It was my very first time at a sex club. I was expecting sex of course but I did not expect fisting. How I wish I had also met a guy for hire to take back to my hotel. Would have been a good recovery from the humiliating snub I shared in an earlier post.

I know it’s been 4 months but I just wanted to ask about your visit to Attack. How did it go?

Do “arguments” mean the same thing as “roses”? He says in his ad he can bottom if you have the right arguments.

My question is more about what category or label such preference falls under. I don’t know exactly how to express my question. If a gay man identifies himself as the “woman” in the relationship. Like in this case fantasizing about carrying the man’s baby, being the bottom and seeing his anus as a vagina. Is that being transgender? Growing up, this is the kind of gay behavior I’ve seen around me. Gay males dressing up as females, acting like females, and waiting for some sort of Prince Charming to take them as the girlfriend or wife.

Isn’t he the RM of the Day today - August 2? https://rent.men/VerseTwink/#rmotd

I’m speaking of the traditional female/wife roles.

Serious question here. What sector of the gay male community see themselves taking the female role in a relationship and in relation to this thread fantasize about “having his children.” I’m a lone wolf and not well-versed with labels.

I know

How can an escort even implement this? Do you have the client’s payment info where you can charge him? How do you pursue him? Chances are he is using a pseudonym and a burner phone or a VOIP app.

This solution involving a waiting list has many moving parts but I believe it can still work. From the client’s side, he should be willing to be on a waiting list and he FULLY understands how waiting lists work. I’m one of those clients From the escort’s side, he should be organized enough to work on the waiting list and keep the lines of communication open with clients on it.

Time to call Client Number 3

It’s a stretch, I know. But if a client really wants to meet a provider, waiting up to an even an hour is doable. As for the provider, if Client Number 1 starts to show signs of flaking before the booked time, he can consider it canceled. He can contact the first client on the waiting list when this happens. I’m making it clear that this is only for first time bookings. Once the client has established his trustworthiness, he will have bookings set it stone. As a client, I do this all the time. I tell fully booked providers that they can call me last minute if their bookings fall through. As a bottom, it sucks that I have to clean up for this then not get the booking but it’s just the price of having this hobby.

I’ve been thinking of a possible solution this problem of flakey clients. What if the provider made some kind of a waiting list, especially for first time clients. Say he books Client Number 1 for 7pm. Then if Client Number 2 also wants to book that time, he will be told that he is on a waiting list and he will be notified if his booking goes through. Several clients can be on the waiting list so the provider can have a safety net against flakes.

I GIVE UP!!! Self-awareness is very elusive these days

Couldn’t providers just put their travel dates on the text of the ad?

Mocha, Mocha, Mocha, it is not the COLOR OF YOUR SKIN that is causing the negative reactions you are getting from this forum. It is your attitude and your tone, your sense of entitlement, your contempt for clients, your refusal to see other people’s perspective, and now the race card that you are playing that is turning you into a pariah in this community. You may hate me for this but I just have to say it. Your earlier reviews online say you are a very nice guy. Unfortunately, that is not the impression you are leaving here.

If the provider is hosting at a hotel, I ask for the hotel name and location, not the room number. That can wait until I get to the parking lot. If hosting at his place, I ask for the general location. My usual question is, “May I ask what side of town you’re at?” As I have mentioned in another thread, there are areas in my city I would not go to no matter how hot the provider is.

Respect begets respect. Most members here want to be of help to both clients and providers. After all, we are in a “symbiotic” relationship. It is not the complaints about flaky clients and providers that inflame the discussions here. We are well aware of that problem. It is the negativity and the toxicity that is thrown around that messes up amicable discussions. Even now this respectful thread is being hijacked with the race card. ?‍♂️ Hopefully we can steer away from that.