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How can an escort even implement this? Do you have the client’s payment info where you can charge him? How do you pursue him? Chances are he is using a pseudonym and a burner phone or a VOIP app.

This solution involving a waiting list has many moving parts but I believe it can still work. From the client’s side, he should be willing to be on a waiting list and he FULLY understands how waiting lists work. I’m one of those clients From the escort’s side, he should be organized enough to work on the waiting list and keep the lines of communication open with clients on it.

Time to call Client Number 3

It’s a stretch, I know. But if a client really wants to meet a provider, waiting up to an even an hour is doable. As for the provider, if Client Number 1 starts to show signs of flaking before the booked time, he can consider it canceled. He can contact the first client on the waiting list when this happens. I’m making it clear that this is only for first time bookings. Once the client has established his trustworthiness, he will have bookings set it stone. As a client, I do this all the time. I tell fully booked providers that they can call me last minute if their bookings fall through. As a bottom, it sucks that I have to clean up for this then not get the booking but it’s just the price of having this hobby.

I’ve been thinking of a possible solution this problem of flakey clients. What if the provider made some kind of a waiting list, especially for first time clients. Say he books Client Number 1 for 7pm. Then if Client Number 2 also wants to book that time, he will be told that he is on a waiting list and he will be notified if his booking goes through. Several clients can be on the waiting list so the provider can have a safety net against flakes.

I GIVE UP!!! Self-awareness is very elusive these days

Couldn’t providers just put their travel dates on the text of the ad?

Mocha, Mocha, Mocha, it is not the COLOR OF YOUR SKIN that is causing the negative reactions you are getting from this forum. It is your attitude and your tone, your sense of entitlement, your contempt for clients, your refusal to see other people’s perspective, and now the race card that you are playing that is turning you into a pariah in this community. You may hate me for this but I just have to say it. Your earlier reviews online say you are a very nice guy. Unfortunately, that is not the impression you are leaving here.

If the provider is hosting at a hotel, I ask for the hotel name and location, not the room number. That can wait until I get to the parking lot. If hosting at his place, I ask for the general location. My usual question is, “May I ask what side of town you’re at?” As I have mentioned in another thread, there are areas in my city I would not go to no matter how hot the provider is.

Respect begets respect. Most members here want to be of help to both clients and providers. After all, we are in a “symbiotic” relationship. It is not the complaints about flaky clients and providers that inflame the discussions here. We are well aware of that problem. It is the negativity and the toxicity that is thrown around that messes up amicable discussions. Even now this respectful thread is being hijacked with the race card. ?‍♂️ Hopefully we can steer away from that.

Some clients may know a lot of people in the vicinity. The concern is understandable especially for closeted ones.

I’ve gone way beyond a massage session with Darko. Those a la carte upcharges add up.

You’re not the “marylander” that gave him 5 stars on RM?

What shall we make of this forum then? Didn’t you say in your now-deleted post that you were out of here? What keeps you coming back?

This is a slap on the faces of the many fine members of this forum, mine included, who have been spared from bad experiences and even harm by using this forum as a decision factor in hiring.

Exhibits A and B

Dear Admins, I’m sensing contempt for the forum here. Can we start talking about impeachment?

OMG! Am I reading this right? This entire rant about clients flaking and playing games is about an average of 2-4 texts a day? 2-4 texts!!! How much of a nuisance can those be??? Others have posted about the heat in the kitchen, this doesn’t even begin to warm it up.

This is an honest question. How should we deal with drug users in the context of the escort business?

My fear is that the provider PnP’ing goes on a bad trip and hallucinates that I’m his enemy.

There is this thread on The Lounge right now created by another escort having the same problem with clients as Mocha. But note how pleasant the conversation is on this one. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/getting-complacent-with-escorting.150824/

If that were the only case, I don’t think Mocha will get the reaction the he is getting from some of us here. But NO! He uses this forum to diss on clients, issue threats of exposure if his cancellation fee is not paid, and push his business model of charging a client for simply contacting him. I feel that the negativity in his threads and posts has altered the dynamic of this forum. How many here will admit that as soon as a new thread of his shows up, we shake our heads and say, “Here we go again”?

I’ve had three encounters with this nice and hot guy. He gets my vote! Too bad he hasn’t visited my area in a while. Now his ad is expired.

Of course, where else will you get to rant for free?

When I met him years ago, he kissed with much hesitation.