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I am not willing to host or pick up the hotel tab for a meeting. What I’m saying is that if the provider is booked at a hotel I’m not comfortable with, then I don’t hire him. So as a client, I think I am entitled to know which hotel he is booked at so I can make my decision. There are so many providers out there who book at good hotels and they’re getting my business.

Yes, I often do that. I let them know my reasons for asking for the hotel info. I actually end up giving them suggestions for where to stay, heads up for parking difficulties and key card access to elevators. So Mr Provider, when I ask for your hotel info, I’m doing so as an ally and not an adversary.

The provider’s location and hotel choice are one of my main considerations in confirming a booking. Why location? Because I don’t like being late for appointments and I often only have small pockets of time to meet providers. So I need to know which side of town they’ll be at for me to be sure I can make it to them on time. Why hotel choice? I’ve had so many unpleasant experiences at so-called roach motels. A few hours after I left a cheapo hotel, after meeting a provider, a murder was committed there. Some hotels in my city are known for drug dealing activity. So yes, I need to know where a provider is staying. When I ask a provider where he will he hosting at and his reply is, “You’ll get hotel info when you book”, I end the conversation. I often tell providers we will have to pencil in a booking until the hotel info is known. I have canceled appointments once or twice because I did not like the hotel the provider was booked in. And no, I did not pay cancellation fees. The providers knew I was picky with their hotel choice.

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I know what “Bump” means but on this thread, it’s giving me a very different idea. ?

I can’t recall where I’ve seen a post about him having a very weird vibe.

I’d recommend. Everything in his RM ad, including the reviews, is accurate.

I met him today. He also has an RM ad. https://rent.men/AlejandroVzlaCol

I’ve met Alejandro. Everything in his RM ad including the reviews is accurate. He’s Latino, not Asian. My mistake

Care to share why you think he’s unreliable? I’ve met him twice now and both meetings were very pleasant and enjoyable.

I just wanna put it out here that @tristanbaldwin is really one awesome guy. I haven’t met him yet but judging from the exchange I’ve been having with him today about a possible booking, I can really sense that he’s a very nice guy.

I’ve been with some providers who tell me they’re “just teasing my hole” with their bare dick. But I can sense they’re getting in there. Often I can feel half the head already in. Some have actually gone in before I could stop them. If I might add, they’re usually the ones who say they don’t have condoms when you ask them before the meet. How do you deal with this? I admit I find it hot and stopping it takes a lot of willpower, but I don’t want to do bareback.

Is that the rate for an hour a day for 10 days?

I think this should be in the Spa Forum. Darko gives a good therapeutic massage. My crush on him made me overlook his higher rate for the massage. We when start talking about the extras, which he asked me not to talk about, that is when his rate skyrockets. Again my crush on him made me bite the bullet. Or was that something else I was biting?

I spoke with this guy on the phone just now. He makes it a point in his ad to emphasize that his posted age was his real age - 21. He did sound 21 but his pictures look like he’s in his mid to late 20’s. He also did not sound like a Latino, more like Asian.

Any info on this guy? https://rent.men/AlejandroVzlaCol

I agree. Super nice guy

Thanks bud

How do you approach a provider who advertises as a masseur on MF and as an escort on RM?

Isn’t there a thread going on for “other payment options”? ?

I had an email exchange with him about his overlapping travel dates. His answer was something like he was testing the market in those cities to see where he would get good hits.

Any info on this guy? https://rent.men/IntimateHedonism

Yes, sorry I cannot comment. I’m honoring my promise to him not to say anything.

I’m shamelessly bumping this to get info on this guy. His ad has been up for some years now but he’s not generating any buzz in this forum.

Bump