I decided not to go through with it. There was something off about my phone conversation with him. When asked about topping, his reply was that he had mostly topped women and that he would need some porn to top men. Why would I hire someone to top me if I knew he would have a hard time doing it?
I mentioned this to him as the reason I decided not to meet him. He said I misunderstood what he said. Whether I did misunderstand him or not, it didn’t matter to me at that point. I had already come to the conclusion that it would not work between him and me.