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Yes, it’s so much the energy and the chemistry. I had an online friend recommend a masseur to me, my friend told me “never any extras”.
 
First time I met the masseur, he dropped his shorts halfway through, lots of body contact, HE by hand. Future visits evolved into him performing oral (hungrily), long showers together, and ultimately bottoming for me.
 
My online friend would always email me “isn’t it frustrating he won’t do more......” I always kept it to myself.

@Jeff1970 Just curious, have you been experiencing some personal challenges lately? You seem to be on the warpath with any and all for seemingly no reason.

File this one under what the fuck.

If that one was posted, I would have said the same. I don't go scouring for weird ads, though.

File this one under what the fuck.

So you’re stupid and like to throw money away is how you are?

You don’t have to tip self employed owners, which massuers and escorts are. They are already making $150 or more an hour, which they don’t have to share with a spa or salon. Tipping them is just stupid and you might as well throw your money in the trash.

Phones during the session is a no-no. I may overlook it if it is a rare event (a family emergency). In general I consider it unprofessional. You wont find me on the phone during a session. Call of nature? No problem. But 3 times during a session???
 
If you tip more than 20% I would say you are probably taking the tipping thing too far.
 
On a different topic, if he upcharges, I may accept the upcharge (I am not a fan, but it does happen, usually when I travel and the guy is unknown), but I wont tip either way.

If the entire time during the massage you must be clenching your ass tight and be on guard because rape is a possibility, well why the fuck get a massage at all? That sounds awful. To be on edge from the get-go is the total opposite of what a massage should be.
 
Here's an important fact about sociopaths and assholes who take advantage of people - they are master manipulators and appear to be "nice" and "sane" but will turn on you on a dime. If someone has been lulled into a relaxed mood and not on guard, someone physically stronger can force penetration. Sure you can push them off, but it ALREADY HAPPENED. Worst yet, if the masseur was already close to climax, and they pushed in AT THAT MOMENT, they could cum inside you. You can push them off, but it already happened.
 
It is not unreasonable to expect a safe experience.

If the entire time during the massage you must be clenching your ass tight and be on guard because rape is a possibility, well why the fuck get a massage at all? That sounds awful. To be on edge from the get-go is the total opposite of what a massage should be.
 
Here's an important fact about sociopaths and assholes who take advantage of people - they are master manipulators and appear to be "nice" and "sane" but will turn on you on a dime. If someone has been lulled into a relaxed mood and not on guard, someone physically stronger can force penetration. Sure you can push them off, but it ALREADY HAPPENED. Worst yet, if the masseur was already close to climax, and they pushed in AT THAT MOMENT, they could cum inside you. You can push them off, but it already happened.
 
It is not unreasonable to expect a safe experience.

If the entire time during the massage you must be clenching your ass tight and be on guard because rape is a possibility, well why the fuck get a massage at all? That sounds awful. To be on edge from the get-go is the total opposite of what a massage should be.
 
Here's an important fact about sociopaths and assholes who take advantage of people - they are master manipulators and appear to be "nice" and "sane" but will turn on you on a dime. If someone has been lulled into a relaxed mood and not on guard, someone physically stronger can force penetration. Sure you can push them off, but it ALREADY HAPPENED. Worst yet, if the masseur was already close to climax, and they pushed in AT THAT MOMENT, they could cum inside you. You can push them off, but it already happened.
 
It is not unreasonable to expect a safe experience.

If the entire time during the massage you must be clenching your ass tight and be on guard because rape is a possibility, well why the fuck get a massage at all? That sounds awful. To be on edge from the get-go is the total opposite of what a massage should be.
 
Here's an important fact about sociopaths and assholes who take advantage of people - they are master manipulators and appear to be "nice" and "sane" but will turn on you on a dime. If someone has been lulled into a relaxed mood and not on guard, someone physically stronger can force penetration. Sure you can push them off, but it ALREADY HAPPENED. Worst yet, if the masseur was already close to climax, and they pushed in AT THAT MOMENT, they could cum inside you. You can push them off, but it already happened.
 
It is not unreasonable to expect a safe experience.

If the entire time during the massage you must be clenching your ass tight and be on guard because rape is a possibility, well why the fuck get a massage at all? That sounds awful. To be on edge from the get-go is the total opposite of what a massage should be.
 
Here's an important fact about sociopaths and assholes who take advantage of people - they are master manipulators and appear to be "nice" and "sane" but will turn on you on a dime. If someone has been lulled into a relaxed mood and not on guard, someone physically stronger can force penetration. Sure you can push them off, but it ALREADY HAPPENED. Worst yet, if the masseur was already close to climax, and they pushed in AT THAT MOMENT, they could cum inside you. You can push them off, but it already happened.
 
It is not unreasonable to expect a safe experience.

Wow. No one is clutching any pearls, pal It’s just that you sound like the sort of person who says that a woman should’ve expected to be assaulted because she was wearing a short skirt. And if it’s not “rape,” then what would you call it? The natural progression of two men getting naked?

I'm not sure why @BostonTom is so hostile toward the victim of sexual assault / rape. What motivates that hostility? The belittling name-calling is an attempt to distract/divert attention from the fundamental issues of the thread.
 
Human behavior is complex but the science is pretty clear on a couple points: a good massages relaxes a person physically & mentally. That's the whole point and would slow response times. Further, human beings generally "freeze" or "respond slowly" to unexpected/surprising situations/stimuli. Why do you think the military spends so much effort training people to respond in highly specific ways to unexpected/dangerous situations? They have to overcome basic human responses.
 
The OP's explanation clearly describes an interaction with a man who pushed boundaries from the start. Could the OP have been more forceful or careful? Yes, but the criminal activity was initiated and perpetrated by the male "expert" who ran the scene. Has the OP hopefully learned important lessons about personal safety? Hopefully, yes! But, again, that in no way excuses or transfers guilt or blame. The man committed multiple acts of sexual assault and also likely rape.
 
A human being's body is their own. Kissing without permission is sexual harassment. Penetration without permission is sexual assault. Sexual activity without consent is rape. Not using condoms without consent is an additional violation.
 
We as a society will never overcome toxic masculinity and the rampant sexual harassment and assault that occurs every day around the world until we recognize the fundamental truth that a human being's body is their own and does not belong to anyone else.
 
Wrong again, @BostonTom, what the OP described is at a minimum sexual assault and very likely also rape.
 
https://definitions.uslegal.com/r/rape/
 
https://criminal.findlaw.com/criminal-charges/rape.html

THIS

This whole incident is so wrong on so many levels. The masseur clearly has no idea about professional boundaries or just common human decency. You do not assume anything about what the other person wants, just because it's an "erotic massage". That can mean so many things to different people, and the most decent thing to do is ask before you shove your cock in someone. On top of that, he did it bareback. That indicates to me a sociopathic mentality where that person has little regard for the other person, only their own pleasure. It's truly sick. And not everyone is equipped to deal with a situation like that. Many people have issues of self-esteem where they lack the ability to speak up for themselves. Something that is natural to you and me, like yelling "get the fuck off me" is not so obvious to someone who has chronic low self-esteem.
 
Does that mean they deserve to get taken advantage of? Absolutely not.
 
The time it takes for someone to shove their dick inside you can be a split second, and if they were grinding on you and already close to cumming, the moment they pop inside, they can instantly cum. That is too little time for anyone to react. The client could be cool with the masseur grinding on them, but doesn't mean you can then put your bare cock in. I recall some nutty politician saying that rape cannot happen if a woman doesn't want it to, because her "body would reject it."

This whole incident is so wrong on so many levels. The masseur clearly has no idea about professional boundaries or just common human decency. You do not assume anything about what the other person wants, just because it's an "erotic massage". That can mean so many things to different people, and the most decent thing to do is ask before you shove your cock in someone. On top of that, he did it bareback. That indicates to me a sociopathic mentality where that person has little regard for the other person, only their own pleasure. It's truly sick. And not everyone is equipped to deal with a situation like that. Many people have issues of self-esteem where they lack the ability to speak up for themselves. Something that is natural to you and me, like yelling "get the fuck off me" is not so obvious to someone who has chronic low self-esteem.
 
Does that mean they deserve to get taken advantage of? Absolutely not.
 
The time it takes for someone to shove their dick inside you can be a split second, and if they were grinding on you and already close to cumming, the moment they pop inside, they can instantly cum. That is too little time for anyone to react. The client could be cool with the masseur grinding on them, but doesn't mean you can then put your bare cock in. I recall some nutty politician saying that rape cannot happen if a woman doesn't want it to, because her "body would reject it."

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36090/
 
Any info on this guy Ken? He seems new.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36090/
 
Any info on this guy Ken? He seems new.

I wonder if that isn’t a result of him working in a spa now. Things are very different when you go to a masseurs apartment, there is more freedom to go down that road.
 

 
Been to him twice, poor massage skills, goes right to erotic. I actually like having a good massage with sprinkles and hints of erotic before the HE.

Be advised, He has some "racial" issues. So not everyone need apply.
 
Ziggy is alot of fun and super nice. That would be my recommendation.

Well, it was made clear in the opening post that this an open gallery to post what each of us finds attractive. The thread opened this evening with just a few people posting. Rather than make us feel bad about what we find sexy, just post pics that you find sexy. I myself do not have blue eyes but find this recessive trait very alluring.

When the masseur sees you naked on the table he then decides how erotic it will be. You just have to either pay more or find a masseur who likes what you look like or likes what you do sexually.

Real numbers can be reversed searched and easily connected to your identity. I don't use my real number on anything anymore. Google voice is awesome.