myophile

Oh, har-har-har! ?

It’s holiday time, and I’ve got cards and cash ready for the cleaning lady, the apartment super, my trainer, and the lady who shaves my head—and this year, for the first time, my regular fuck-buddy-for-hire. Anybody else give an annual tip to a regular? Suggestions about amounts?

My regular guy, who I see every couple of weeks, started saying “I love you” recently. I talked with him about what that meant to me (and didn’t mean), and I now feel comfortable saying “I love you” back. Even if this were not a business transaction, I don’t want to marry him; we have a raucus, hot AF good time whenever we meet, I know a fair amount about his personal life, and he about mine; and I do care about him; but our lives and interests don’t intersect enough for a full-on romantic relationship, even if we were both inclined—which we honestly are not. In this case, “I love you” on both sides—mine, anyway—is not so much romance, as bromance. Sex with him is awesome, and I LOVE him for what he does for me, and to me; but I also admire him, and I respect what he does and the thorough professionalism and generosity he brings to escorting and his other side hustles. I hope he feels the same way about me—he certainly treats me as if he does!

As a customer, it’s always a hotter and more intense sensual/sexual session if I feel I’m giving pleasure as well as getting it, so definitely the “casual experience, totally mutual enjoyment” scenario for me.

Oh gosh, how awful! Such a sweet guy, I always looked forward to seeing him.

I haven’t been in touch with him for a while, but his RM profile is still up, tho expired: https://rent.men/BigC/. He may just be taking a break. The last time he posted on his IG account was September 28.

He lists kissing and oral, which is plenty of intercourse for me ...

I’d like more info on https://rentmen.eu/Auronbody, too!

Which one?

FWIW I’ve never had an escort ask for my picture. And as a completely separate issue, I’m comfortable with my face and body, and confident in my ability to give pleasure, as well as receive it. And if we were talking about Grindr hookups that would be that. But again: hiring an escort is not quite the same. If money is changing hands, then it is not an equivalent exchange. Send the provider your pictures by all means, but if the session happens, is it because he finds you hot? Or because you (the client) agreed to his rate? And at the end of your session, try refusing payment. The provider liked your pictures, right? The sex was great, right? So what more could he want? Let me know how that goes ...

Those two things are not equivalent. The fact that the client has seen pictures of the provider does not obligate the client to reciprocate. This is a transaction, a quid-pro-quo, not a date. The provider offers his face and physique—the “quid”—and the client offers money—the “quo.” If the provider has to vet his clients for attractiveness then he’s in the wrong business.

“Did not age well”? Seriously? Well, there’s no accounting for taste. I think he’s hot af. I’m heading to LA in February, and will DEFINITELY look him up. FWIW I’m also interested in how he performs as an escort.

Finally saw him today. Great time—hot af, as engaged and interactive as I could possibly want, and a TOTAL sweetheart.

He wrote back and said he’d had to cancel his NYC visit, so I’ll hope to meet up next time we’re both in the same city. As for his photos: 28 or 50, there are VERY few guys who can (or should) go shirtless at a circuit party, and he’s definitely one of them. And good for him! “Standards of class and refinement”? Seriously? The “standards” appropriate to a circuit party are physical beauty and male sensuality. Through sheer hard work he has built —and kept — a body to rival that of any 25-year-old, and I don’t see why he should cover it up. No offense, but it sounds like you want him to act YOUR age, not his.

Trying to set up a session when he’s in NYC over the next few days, but he’s not responding. For those who have seen him, how did you make contact? I’ve messaged his phone number and emailed him through RM.

Yes! Seriously: both. I have a regular guy, and love the familiar rhythm of sex with him. But I still sample hot new guys when they pop up—just can’t pass up the novelty!

According to his latest IG posts he was 250+ on stage a few weeks ago and expects to complete at 300 eventually. But although obviously a big boy, he’s not at mass-monster level yet.

He certainly is, but although he does visit NYC occasionally, he isn’t based here—unfortunately!

Mr. Apollo Phoenix — all day long.

I expect that, all things considered, generally you DON’T want to be a topic of conversation among your providers.

Mmmm, I’ll have to take him for a spin—love me a provider with daddy issues!

Wow—lucky Indianapolis!

You’re my hero!

Very hot, but I have to say I prefer the REAL Apollo Phoenix.