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I’ve been in weekly text contact with my regular guy, and after a fair amount of discussion we met up last weekend. I was more than ready to see him after nine weeks of abstinence, and as for him—well, I’ll just say that, between his pent-up horniness and mine, it was epic. Here’s what I texted him afterwards: “I really appreciated your doing that session today. It might have felt weird or freaky given all the COVID shit, but instead it felt like two friends catching up over a beer--aside from the mind-blowing orgasms, of course, and the fact that there was no beer ... Anyway, you sort of re-set my brain from disaster mode back to normal, at least for a little while; and I love you for that, man, and for much else!“

Same here. It’s a sort of “wish-list” of bodybuilder types that I can sort by location depending on where I’m traveling for work. At least, that’s how it worked until about March 15 ...

Every video he did was hot, but this is my favorite: https://xhamster.com/videos/gay-classic-gordon-grant-the-lifeguard-424771

Note that “... the new study relies on testing that only detects traces of genetic material from the coronavirus. "It doesn't tell you that it's whole, viable, infectious virus," ... "If I ground up the virus and performed this test, it would be positive even though that virus has no infectious potential."

I’m waiting until a) there is a reliable antibody test, b) I test positive for COVID antibodies, and c) a provider I know well and whose word I trust also tests positive. On that occasion I plan to book said trustworthy provider for a weekend and fuck his (and my) brains out.

Yowza!

What purplekow said. I saw Steve back in early March, and aside from sizzling hot AF, I found him unusually easy to talk to, compared to some guys I’ve hired, and unusually forthcoming about his background, how he got into the biz, etc. We’ve kept in touch occasionally by text since then, and I haven’t noticed any weirdness. But EVERYBODY is stressed right now, whether they realize it or not, and I’ve had some mighty strange conversations with other escort pen-pals. I’m lucky—I’m working from home in a structured way for a supportive organization. Guys who are self-supporting and whose side hustles have all evaporated are probably NOT in a good place right now, and I can’t blame them for going off the rails a bit.

The guys I’m in touch with, my “regulars,” are still killing it gym-wise with whatever they have at home, or could buy at short notice when quarantine started. My sense is that they’re all resigned to losing some mass, but intend to come out of this leaner, if not bigger, and Ripped. As. Fuck. I for one can’t wait to sample the new physiques.

So MANY potential buzz-kills ...

Even if I had the space and the resources, for me it would be a bad idea. For one thing, I’m pretty sure my husband of 25 years would object, LOL. For another, I’m too attached to the “one-night stand” aspects of this hobby—the novelty of meeting new guys, the element of erotic risk, etc. No matter how hot he is, I don’t see how the “boyfriend experience” survives the inevitable discovery, over a month of enforced togetherness, that he chews with his mouth open, or thrashes in his sleep, or votes Republican, or hates your cat.

I’ve tried to hook up with him on three separate occasions, December to early March. I can only misbehave on a certain schedule, so timing is everything for me. One time he cancelled because of train delays due to a snowstorm—fair enough, no harm, no foul. But the other two were just flakiness as far as I could tell — just a text informing me (within an hour or so of the appointment) that he wasn’t going to be able to meet me where and when we’d confirmed. I haven’t seen any point in losing my cool about it: he’s hot, and I’ve wanted to do a session with him for a long time; but enough’s enough!

See my review of our encounter at Daddy’s: https://www.daddysreviews.com/cruise/2020-03-27

Honestly, it’s hard to imagine a complete “return to normalcy” until there is a widely-available vaccine. When COVID-19 can be treated like an annual strain of flu, we can relax, but probably not before.

Would love a repeat encounter with https://rentmen.eu/maturedmuscle!

Um ... how much I needed to get off, vs. how much he needed the money, vs. what the risk was of dying horribly if we met?

I had a great exchange with a provider about a possible meeting this past Sunday. He’s a top-notch guy, and we know each other well enough to dispense with bullshit. I’m a dedicated horn-dog, and he is, too. But we had a couple of good discussions about risk factors and good citizenship in a crisis situation, and in the end we both agreed, mutually and reluctantly, that meeting up was not a good idea. So although the decision left me frustrated and horny, I believe it was the right one, and I really appreciate my guy’s honest and intelligent input.

Finally got to see him this past Sunday. I’ve got a review pending with Daddy, so will only say here that it was one of the hottest and most rewarding sessions I’ve had with a provider so far.

Nope!

Nope—not anymore!

One of my current favorite bodybuilders no longer advertises regularly, and he’ll text me when he’s planning to visit NYC. My regular guy is local, and hasn’t advertised in over a decade.

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/big-c-in-dc.140030/page-3#post-1833213

Ha! I didn’t even contact him and he blocked me.

Definitely on my muscle worship bucket list. He seems like a serious bodybuilder, which means he might be very bulky at one point in time, and quite shredded at another. Personally I like ‘em offseason fluffy, and contest prep lean; but I’d love to hear about recent experiences as well.

I LUUUUV when that happens!

No, Matt and Mike are two different people. From his photos Matt looks like a big guy, and has roughly similar coloring to Mike, but that’s about as far as the resemblance goes. On a related topic—Matt is plenty hot in his own right, anybody know if he’s open to Broga one-on-one, i.e., can one pay to play with Miller the Pillar’s pillar ... ? ?