Totally agree. But in fact, the OP isn’t insisting on a PT who can both train and fuck him, but just wants a trainer open to discussing the sexual and psychological issues that bring the OP into the gym. That may be as difficult a pairing to find, and to maintain, as the PT/hooker combo. But I absolutely sympathize with the OP’s goals—for me, losing weight and getting fit, past a certain point, became rather less about health, and rather more about creating (or recreating) a body better suited to giving and receiving sexual pleasure. To paraphrase the late, great Anthony Bourdain, in late middle age I have come to realize that my body is not a temple, it’s an amusement park; and for me, the fitter I am, the more I enjoy the ride ...