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I’m going to go out on a limb and say that if my regular guy ever suggested such a thing (and he has occasionally hinted at it), I’d continue to pay him. We enjoy each other’s company, and I consider him a friend—but I consider my trainer a friend, too, and I’d feel funny accepting his professional services without compensation.

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FWIW, according to the latest version of his ad, he seems to have expanded his repertoire considerably.

He’s amazing in person, too. He was the last provider I saw in early March before shit hit the fan, and the vivid memory of that meet-up has fueled my whack-off sessions for the past 14+ weeks. I submitted a glowing review with Daddy at the time.

I follow him on IG and Twitter ... sort of. The cocky attitude is kinda hot, but not hot enough to support that particular business model.

Not necessarily, and not in MY (fairly extensive) experience!

Queer Eye!

Same here—I’m 6’0” and 180 lbs, and I’m into muscle, so I prefer an escort my height or taller—I don’t need him to actually dominate me, but for maximum erotic effect, I just need to feel that he COULD. My regular guy is 6’3”, and I love feeling like an underdeveloped 14-year-old in his presence ...

I started seeing a bodybuilder for massage/muscle worship a couple months ago. I have my own agenda in these sessions, and I don’t expect or require a lot of interaction from “straight” muscle guys, at least at first. But as he gets more comfortable with me it’s been fun to see how far I can push his boundaries. He now lets me blow him—which he seems to enjoy!—but so far hasn’t cum; but after this last session he said he owed me a “protein shake”! So persistence pays off.

If by “sensitive“ you mean “hard-wired to his dick,” then Russ is your man: https://rentmen.eu/Russ_NYC

EBay‘s review system required feedback from buyers and sellers equally for a long time, but they finally had to abandon that model, because of the tendency for any dispute to devolve into a he said/she said shit-show of recrimination.

A few months back I was excited to discover that Joey Jordan was coming to NYC ... until I googled recent pictures and discovered that since his porn days he’s apparently been busy ”enhancing” his dick. Look, to each his own, OK? and I realize that it’s a turn-on for some guys. But definitely a turnoff for me.

Your local paper may do things diffrently, but the definitions I cite are the ones used by the NY Times (for instance), and I believe are standard. I run a membership organization, and have to contribute to or compose several of these a year.

A death notice is a short paid announcement covering just the basics of name, age, family, etc., grouped in a column with other such. An obituary is a longer and more formal “news item,” including fuller biographical details, such as education, accomplishments, and career, generally for somebody of local or national prominence. They are, or should be, quite distinct and specific terms.

This. For better or worse, the element of risk is a big part of the appeal for me.

I second that recommendation 100%. He’s hot AF and absolutely adorable at the same time, a rare combo in my experience.

I’ve been in weekly text contact with my regular guy, and after a fair amount of discussion we met up last weekend. I was more than ready to see him after nine weeks of abstinence, and as for him—well, I’ll just say that, between his pent-up horniness and mine, it was epic. Here’s what I texted him afterwards: “I really appreciated your doing that session today. It might have felt weird or freaky given all the COVID shit, but instead it felt like two friends catching up over a beer--aside from the mind-blowing orgasms, of course, and the fact that there was no beer ... Anyway, you sort of re-set my brain from disaster mode back to normal, at least for a little while; and I love you for that, man, and for much else!“

Same here. It’s a sort of “wish-list” of bodybuilder types that I can sort by location depending on where I’m traveling for work. At least, that’s how it worked until about March 15 ...

Every video he did was hot, but this is my favorite: https://xhamster.com/videos/gay-classic-gordon-grant-the-lifeguard-424771

Note that “... the new study relies on testing that only detects traces of genetic material from the coronavirus. "It doesn't tell you that it's whole, viable, infectious virus," ... "If I ground up the virus and performed this test, it would be positive even though that virus has no infectious potential."

I’m waiting until a) there is a reliable antibody test, b) I test positive for COVID antibodies, and c) a provider I know well and whose word I trust also tests positive. On that occasion I plan to book said trustworthy provider for a weekend and fuck his (and my) brains out.

Yowza!

What purplekow said. I saw Steve back in early March, and aside from sizzling hot AF, I found him unusually easy to talk to, compared to some guys I’ve hired, and unusually forthcoming about his background, how he got into the biz, etc. We’ve kept in touch occasionally by text since then, and I haven’t noticed any weirdness. But EVERYBODY is stressed right now, whether they realize it or not, and I’ve had some mighty strange conversations with other escort pen-pals. I’m lucky—I’m working from home in a structured way for a supportive organization. Guys who are self-supporting and whose side hustles have all evaporated are probably NOT in a good place right now, and I can’t blame them for going off the rails a bit.

The guys I’m in touch with, my “regulars,” are still killing it gym-wise with whatever they have at home, or could buy at short notice when quarantine started. My sense is that they’re all resigned to losing some mass, but intend to come out of this leaner, if not bigger, and Ripped. As. Fuck. I for one can’t wait to sample the new physiques.

So MANY potential buzz-kills ...