Pepper Young

Assuming you're in the US, protect yourself using all legal means (wink, wink).

No one makes lemon chicken anymore? I made it just the other day. Chicken Cacciatore is a staple in my kitchen. Coq au vin. Mmm, coq... Chicken a la King. Gross. Chicken stroganoff? Yeah, no one makes it because it doesn't exist.

First, I never negotiate. It seems uncouth and desperate to ask for a discount. If I don't like the price, end of discussion. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Second, what's worth having is worth paying for, often at full price (this rule applies to a lot of things in life).

I contacted a provider in Phoenix (!) who quoted me $375/hr. No way. I stopped responding (which is a response) to his texts and deleted them. I noticed he no longer advertises but his OF is still updating. While I'm all for these guys making a living, I'm also aware that as a client I have control of the process and can step away if I don't like the rates or attitude of the provider.

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I achieved the American Dream by inheriting it from my parents.

$1200/hr? Someone thinks well of themselves. Pass.

No experience with him, but holy cow! My type of man!

I'm sorry. I just don't get the "pup" thing. Like the dog mask does nothing for me. I can understand other kinks but this one completely escapes me. Please advise.

I definitely look at reviews. I look at the average. Since you can't please all the people all the time, I look for an average of 4.7 or greater. Anything less than that is a red flag. I look at the date of the last review. Was it two years ago? Pass. Are there no reviews even though the provider has been advertising for a while? Red flag. It's all part of the vetting process.

This guy, right here! This guy gets it! 👏

If you're concerned about future employers finding out you escorted, then don't do it. While I personally think escorting and sex work are legitimate jobs (sex work = work), a lot of employers probably don't. But, to be honest, I'm not sure a background check will pick up on escorting, especially if you use a pseudonym and have no face pics in your profile. Let us know if you decide to post an ad!

Hard pass on this one.

I agree. I've seen responses and posts that are snarky and mean. Their usual defense is to say it was just a joke, or meant in fun. They're jerks. Ignore them. Move on.

Because the apps are trash. Bars are dead. Cruising the park has no appeal. Hiring gets me exactly what I want, when I want, and with who I want.

I wonder if any of us old people ever hired someone for carplay. In any case, while not necessarily my cup of tea (too young), I'm just going to jot this down as youthful enthusiasm and exuberance.

Personally, I'm reluctant to hire without a full face shot. But the rest of him seems nice.

Thanks everyone. This was an interesting read. I had a falling out with the main beneficiary of my will, which leaves me in a pickle. I'm an only child, have no children of my own and am not in any type of romantic relationship. I do have cousins that are alive and well, but have not seen, talked to or heard from in many, many years. So fuck them. I got a basic outline of who I want the new beneficiaries (charities) to be but who will execute this plan? I have one close friend, but alas, she is near 80 and I expect to outlive her. I'm reluctant to ask another friend but I guess I could. Of course my plan is to die broke but I'm not sure how to execute that either. So decisions, decisions. My lawyer and I have long intimate conversations where we look deep into each other's eyes as he racks up $150/hour.

Pro wrestling is fake and low brow.

I'll give you my perspective from a client's POV. While you may think it's about you, it isn't. You're there for the client so write an ad that's about what you can do for them. Recent good quality, clear photos. Face photos, some nudes. You don't have to be a 10. There's someone for everyone. Give out a phone number for texting. I find it frustrating when the only way to contact is through a message board. Learn to block numbers on your phone. Don't put up with pic collectors and endless back and forth. Truth in advertising: Be honest about your health status, age, size, etc., so there's no surprises when the client opens the door. Save your money. Eventually you'll either grow tried of the crap that comes along with this profession, or age out. Have a plan. Congratulations on what I hope is a fulling and lucrative career.

I've read a few escort memoirs and always find them fascinating. I can't wait to read yours.

Whenever I come across someone with an exceptionally high rate, I think: My, someone thinks well of themselves!

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Let's not overthink this. Hot twins. Jeez, what's not to like? I would hire these guys in a minute.

Red flags: Poorly written ads: bad grammar and spelling, too much slang, it's all about them and their desire for luxury goods and/or money. Photos: None or just a few. Poor quality. Obviously dated. No dick pics. Poor reviews: Reviews by other clients that average less than 4.7. Vibe: Desperation. Not sexy.