BluDay

I met Alain twice a few years ago when I was in Philadelphia on business. I had a great time. He was very well together, and I know he had a day job. Given the current pandemic situation, I think it's possible he would consider re-activating if he got furloughed or laid off to generate income.
 
Makes me wish I could head up that way....

I met Alain twice a few years ago when I was in Philadelphia on business. I had a great time. He was very well together, and I know he had a day job. Given the current pandemic situation, I think it's possible he would consider re-activating if he got furloughed or laid off to generate income.
 
Makes me wish I could head up that way....

So they can see what is happening without alerting the person they are watching.
 
Men pose as women often to 'hook in" a guy they are interested in.
 
I know it was very common at the start of the internet, not sure how often now.

I did however have a regular I saw every week for a year or so thru discussions during our meet ups talk about loosing his regular job and how tight money was. He was very selective on who he saw so didnt see many people at all. He NEVER asked me for any advances for money ever but knowing his situation I offered to see him twice a week to help him out. More than able to help him. It was my call... my decision. He eagerly said yes. My father taught me to work for my money, so I did the same with this escort. A win/win for both of us.

Not an escort, but I think an erection loss is a risk the client takes. Physically, men cannot be hard on demand and all the time. On the other side, an escort has to do his best to be ready, whatever that is for him. I think most do, it's been my experience at least.

That domain has not been taken yet, so that speaks to it not being valid. Further, Gmail will allow you to have an email address with the domain you have. It is valid from a practical matter to have Google handle your email in the background, but if you are starting a website business and the right side of the @ is not your domain, it looks sketchy.

I'm a client as well. I know I've been with providers (some on here) who I am sure would have rather been in bed with someone else, but their professionalism was so great I could not tell. That is a mark of a great escort. He may not like his nipples done, but he'll seem to get into it. Yes, I want the escort I'm with to have the best time he can. But his job (and so many do this so very well) can convience the client they are having as much fun as the client.

I'm a client as well. I know I've been with providers (some on here) who I am sure would have rather been in bed with someone else, but their professionalism was so great I could not tell. That is a mark of a great escort. He may not like his nipples done, but he'll seem to get into it. Yes, I want the escort I'm with to have the best time he can. But his job (and so many do this so very well) can convience the client they are having as much fun as the client.

If you think he's a good fit for your company, that is another reason to help him. You've hired him several times, so you like him at some level. Have a talk with him that his escorting and you have to remain away from that company. There is a very good chance he knows how to ignore a client in public.

If you think he's a good fit for your company, that is another reason to help him. You've hired him several times, so you like him at some level. Have a talk with him that his escorting and you have to remain away from that company. There is a very good chance he knows how to ignore a client in public.

Most of my clients are hot in one way or another. So no, that's already factored in.
 
Kevin Slater

I didn't find a thread on a quick search, but I can give a few pointers:
 
1. Use their preferred method of contact. If they prefer text, text them.
2. Tell them you saw their post on "RM" (I suggest initials - a lot have day jobs so it obscures a bit)
3. Say you would like to get together, and ask when plans could be made.
4. Know what you want, go for guys who like the same. If you want kissing, be sure kissing is in the profile.
5. When arranging, tell them anything special, such as "this would be my first time with an escort".
6. Be concise without being terse.
7. Follow the escorts lead if they go for longer conversation.
8. Agree to reasonable requests, say a phone call. Do not give money before. Skype if you are comfortable.
9. After making arrangements, confirm reasonably. The day before, the morning of, and an hour or so before is reasonable. I use "I look forward to visiting tomorrow/this evening/when I arrive in an hour".
10. If they confirm to you, reply as soon as you reasonably can.
11. Keep the appointment. This is important. Even if you don't go through with it, go meet him, and offer the full fee. He has invested time in this. He will understand if you get nervous.
12. Before the appointment, shower up, if you will bottom, douche. Leave off cologne.
13. If it's your first time, tell him you're nervous (if you are), ask him to take the lead.
14. Tell him what you're interested in.
15. Tell him if you like or don't like something.
16. Remember he's a person, be polite, and he's doing something very nice for you.
17. Honor his time. When it's over, it's over.
 
I always suggest going to a reviewed escort.
 
Other suggestions?

As an IT professional, I find it annoying that these systems do not work better for the users. There is little or no reason both cannot exist, and work well. Email and IM systems are fairly mature, meaning they can be used on sites like this without the difficulties being experienced, even "out of the box". I know, because I've done it - initial and subsequent notifications going out in a timely manner.
 
The concept of a the chat app seems misguided. Nice if both are on, but if escorts need to keep their second job on the downlow, having an app on their phone is not a good way to do it.

That is a situation that had not crossed my mind before, to be honest. But if he's high functioning, I'd be inclined to think he's made a rational decision
 
I've met with escorts who I think are primarily motivated by the money they receive. In the wider scheme of things, how is this any different? He's made a decision based on whatever factors he finds important, so it's not like he doesn't understand. You said he does know what he's doing. So you are not taking advantage of him. In fact, any appointment he has with you will be safer perhaps than someone else, since you will have his well being in mind.

I meet my regulars at my place, it's easier on all of us. That being said, I had good, comfortable relationships with those guys, so I did not worry.
 
Where I have invited 1 guy I didn't know, I doubt I'd do that again. He was fine, but I'm so much more comfortable knowing the guy I don't want to change.

"I can't believe how comfortable you made me, as nervous as I was. I am so much looking forward to seeing you a second time, and I know it will be even better. Are you available about ....."
 
Helping nervous guys is part of an escort's job, and the ones who do it well are treasures.

"I can't believe how comfortable you made me, as nervous as I was. I am so much looking forward to seeing you a second time, and I know it will be even better. Are you available about ....."
 
Helping nervous guys is part of an escort's job, and the ones who do it well are treasures.

"I can't believe how comfortable you made me, as nervous as I was. I am so much looking forward to seeing you a second time, and I know it will be even better. Are you available about ....."
 
Helping nervous guys is part of an escort's job, and the ones who do it well are treasures.

Even though I think I would get good reviews from my hires, I can see the dangers of a forum discussing clients.
 
There is a difference, in my mind, reviewing escorts. To me, it's like being a celebrity. Celebrities are afforded less legal protections than non-celebrity persons. Escorts by the nature of their business have to be known somehow. Reviews and comments are part of that. Clients by nature are to be anonymous. I do not say it is equitable, but it is how things are due to their different positions.

I saw this on Twitter today
 
"LMFAO imagine thinking THIS was a good idea. "Yes, hello, I'd like to install an unencrypted messenger app developed by a company that exploits male sex workers and then discuss all my crimes in there while the app collects location and metadata to be shared with LE."
 
 
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A good escort's time is a gift as well.

I saw this on Twitter today
 
"LMFAO imagine thinking THIS was a good idea. "Yes, hello, I'd like to install an unencrypted messenger app developed by a company that exploits male sex workers and then discuss all my crimes in there while the app collects location and metadata to be shared with LE."
 
 
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I saw this on Twitter today
 
"LMFAO imagine thinking THIS was a good idea. "Yes, hello, I'd like to install an unencrypted messenger app developed by a company that exploits male sex workers and then discuss all my crimes in there while the app collects location and metadata to be shared with LE."
 
 
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I saw this on Twitter today
 
"LMFAO imagine thinking THIS was a good idea. "Yes, hello, I'd like to install an unencrypted messenger app developed by a company that exploits male sex workers and then discuss all my crimes in there while the app collects location and metadata to be shared with LE."
 
 
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As an IT professional, I find it annoying that these systems do not work better for the users. There is little or no reason both cannot exist, and work well. Email and IM systems are fairly mature, meaning they can be used on sites like this without the difficulties being experienced, even "out of the box". I know, because I've done it - initial and subsequent notifications going out in a timely manner.
 
The concept of a the chat app seems misguided. Nice if both are on, but if escorts need to keep their second job on the downlow, having an app on their phone is not a good way to do it.