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On 3/14/2022 at 9:36 PM, KrisParr said:

Thanks for the clarification.

The masseur is not Alejo Ospina, but the bottom is Daniel. They are a couple have have numerous videos together, but this is not one of them. I do not know who the top is unfortunately. 

3 hours ago, JCald said:

https://xhamster.com/videos/massage-7212370?_gl=1*1m52pi8*_ga*eW9mQURid1ViLTg0dWJTbzBMRnJZYmFMSTZhTUdLNlFndF94cGlyLU1tZWZPUFR3ZEVlanNKbDdja2NLc1JjZA..&xhms_pro=1
 

Anyone know who the hottie getting the massage is? Would love to see a full version of this!

Martin Gajda, though I'm pretty sure that is the full version. 

Has anyone had a session with Eddie recently? I just saw that his price has gone up to $200 for an in-call. That seems like escort rates to me, so I wonder if his services have changed. 

https://rentmasseur.com/eddiemanhattan

13 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Well I’m trying to focus on one specific thing here. Asking why scheduling is difficult, just leaves to many variables at play. You can’t get down to the bottom of something if you don’t first address the fundamental causes.

And for me, the main fundamental cause is that (at least in certain markets) is that guys aren’t putting in enough conscious effort to schedule things. I don’t want to hear about someone “not knowing their work schedule” or “how long a dinner may go on”. That has nothing to do with me. The easiest solution would be: “hey, I’m interested in meeting. My work schedule is kinda funky, but can you be open to see me on either of these days at either of these times?” (Giving options, but if a person doesn’t respect a providers time, they probably won’t think that far ahead).

As far as other details on scheduling difficulties, each individual is going to have different ways of booking. My booking process is very simply. I send the following:

1. Client info form (name, age, website seen on, host or travel.

2. My rates 

3. There’s or my Location and Deposit form (if applicable) 

it’s that’s simple. However, some people mess up the process when they try to give me an unreasonable deadline to meet by. I can’t possibly be ready to meet “now” without having any of that info beforehand. People forget it’s not a 1 way street: sure you may see all of MY details posted, but I know nothing. 

I think there are two separate issues: your general displeasure with last minute bookings and clients not adhering to the preferences stated in your advertisement. The former I have no problem with, but the latter I do. 

If a client expects you to be available at the drop of a hat or is rude when you explain that you are not available, you have every right to be frustrated. (I'm putting aside your explicit instruction to book with you in advance for the moment.) That person is just rude. However, your comment that a client's work schedule or other plans "has nothing to do with [you]" is just as dismissive of their time as you claim they are of yours. Of course clients can be flaky, not serious, cancel at the last minute, etc., but as others in this thread have said, sometimes it really is the case that you don't know when you'll be finished with work such that you can't plan ahead. Sometimes you finish work, a work out, or get to the end of the day and realize you could really use a massage. There is nothing wrong with reaching out to a provider and politely inquiring whether they are available, assuming their profiles do not indicate otherwise. I think you should also keep in mind that many providers do make last minute appointments and some encourage them. You are not operating in a vacuum. 

I think it's also worth remembering that providers can be just as unreliable. I have had my fair share of providers who cancel an appointment booked in advance at the last moment or do not respond when I try to confirm on the day of the appointment. In the same way you screen new clients, I generally do not book new providers in advance for this very reason. I have providers I see regularly and I will book up to a week in advance with them, but for someone I have not met previously, I'll most likely reach out in the morning for an appointment later in the day or if their profile list them as "Available Now," I'll try to book something within a few hours. I am always polite and write "Sorry for the last minute request..." or "I see that your profile says that you are available now. . ."  

The above being said, if your profile specifically requests bookings in advance, then the client is put on notice. There really is no excuse in that case and if they failed to fully read your profile, that is still on them. I'm sure that would be annoying for you and I don't blame you. 

The OP's sense is mine as well. 

I am in NYC and 150-160 is what I normally see for sensual/erotic massages. There is one provider I see who charges 140, but I don't see anything below that anymore. When I do, I'm a little suspicious.

I absolutely will not pay more than 160 for an hour. I used to make an exception for Apsawn who charged 170, but he provided the highest quality experience I have had to date. (warm towels, various scented oils, a heated table during winter, great technique, etc.) I am not able to receive massages as frequently  anymore, so I really do hold true to this limit now - no matter how alluring the masseur may be. 😄

https://sexgayjapan.com/2021/06/hunk-channel-oav822-vol3-20/

The guy getting the massage has a gorgeous body and a great pair of nips. 😍 I could have done without the feet play, but still hot overall. 

https://thegay.com/videos/680000/alexander-gustavo-and-andrew-fitch/

Wow! I barely made it to the halfway mark the first time watching. I'm about to go for round two now!

I LOVE that Andrew is hard almost the entire video. I am somehow who gets hard very easily. And while my logical brain reminds me that these porn actors are doing long shoots with crews and lots of stopping and starting, my sex brain thinks "I'd be hard the whole time if I was that intimate with a sexy guy." He may have had chemical assistance, but I don't care. Seeing a dick standing at attention like that gets me going every time!

Pile of cum rags visible next to the entrance.

 

YIKES!

I've never, ever seen his place be anything than immaculate. That is just gross and doesn't sound like him at all. Granted, I've never had a session with him while he was traveling, but that still sounds unlikely.

Had another great session with SS. Turns out my text messages aren't going through to his phone, which is very weird. We were communicating fine a week ago. I sent him an e-mail to see what was up and I'm glad I did. He's such a gem!

Funny that I saw this thread. I've had many sessions with SS over the years and they've all always been good. There was maybe 1 time he shorted me on time, but he made up for it the next session.

I am supposed to see him in a few hours, but he never responded to my confirmation text, which is unlike him. I saw that he was recently online too. I could try to chase him down, but I barely slept last night, so I'll probably just take a nap instead. Turned out to be a weird issue with texting.

I hired Luka twice, first as an escort and then as a masseur. That was probably 8 and 6 years ago roughly. I naively thought I would give him another chance as a masseur, thinking that maybe he had a bad day the first time we met or he had changed in those years. Worst experience I've ever had with a masseur and that includes guys who looked nothing like their photos, upsellers, and having massage time short changed. The fact that his body is as gorgeous as it is (his pics really were accurate) AND he is a pretty skilled masseur should give you some indication of just how awful his personality is. I left feeling worse about myself and it was a while before I got back on the horse so to speak. He looked like he was bothered to be touching me. Unless being humiliated or made to feel like garbage is your kink or a muscled body is all you're after, I would stay away.

Thank you so much for this very thoughtful response. It has been very helpful in helping me assess and adress the situation. I really, really appreciate it!! It helped me a lot!

I'm glad I could help and it sounds like things worked out well in the end!

@Wolfer First off - I hope that in addition to our other feelings, you are flattered that he has called you. Regardless of the reason, you made a good enough impression for him to call you. And if the sex is as good for you as you indicate, and it has been every time you've been together, then he must be enjoying more than the financial benefit of your encounters.

@Wolfer After reading the OP my initial thought was not to comment because it sounded like you have the situation properly analyzed. You just don't want to pull the trigger and make the decision to change (or cancel) the arrangement for fear of losing something. Others in this thread have responded with the "if it ain't broke" reply, but it really doesn't sound like you are comfortable with the situation to continue as is, whereas others might. For what it's worth, I'm not willing to say the masseur is using you, but you certainly present as the perfect client, i.e. someone he's attracted to and with whom he gets to have fun and get paid.

What made me want to respond though was the above quoted comment. I don't know if flattered is a word I would use in this situation because it makes it sound like the masseur is doing you some courtesy by seeking out your business and you should be grateful for it. That kind of thinking is partly why you seem upset about the situation.

A while ago I had a somewhat similar situation. I had a regular masseur and after our first couple of sessions we had full on sex. From that point on we had sex every time we met. He was very nice and complimented me and I knew he enjoyed himself. I even saw him out socially once and we hung out a bit. We would email and share funny memes, etc. He never reached out to me about setting up a time, but in my mind I always approached a session with him as a paying client. We weren't FWB. However, there were a couple of times when he was particularly horny that he pretty much skipped the massage and went to town on me immediately. (And yes, the sex was good! haha) When that happened, he would leave without asking for payment. In those instances it was about him getting pleasure (and also pleasuring me) and not him providing a service. If your guy is not willing to do that, then you have your answer. You either need to cut him or decide if you can continue with things as they are, putting aside any feelings of being afraid he might say no at some point.

Hot! With faces and better quality than most!

The "masseur" is Aoi Musashi, but I'm blanking on the "client's" name. They are both pretty popular porn actors, so that is likely the reason for no blurring of the faces.

I decided to submit an inquiry yesterday while logged into my SC account. I asked if there was a glitch or server issue or intentional decision to reduce the number of videos and models appearing on the site and to also ensure there was awareness. I've logged in several times today and don't see any response to my inquiry/feedback.

 

Thanks @big-n-tall for sharing this info in the PornHub deletion thread:

I purchased a SC membership over a year ago because I wanted to watch some of their older videos. They were not there. I had to haggle to get a refund on my membership. Their ads were promoting videos that were not available on their site. I'd be curious to see if this "maintenance" brings back all of their videos.

Anyone know who the guy on the table is, e.g. is he in other videos?

That is Noah Springs. I always thought he was a cutie.

women don’t belong in:

1.) gay porn

2.) gay clubs

3.) gay bars

4.) gay gyms (yes, most gyms are gay) ?

 

they got their rights and the advantages of feminism. They wanted their own spaces, and instead of using them, they wanna take over ours...

There's too much to unpack here, but I will point out that it's not the women you should be upset with re: women in gay porn. It is your fellow gay men who cling to the idea/want to sell the idea of the allure of "straight" men. For reasons I can't understand, the fantasy of sleeping with a straight man is apparently very thrilling to some gay men. The women are there only to be cheated on and further cement the fantasy. It's not because the women "want to take our spaces."

women don’t belong in:

1.) gay porn

2.) gay clubs

3.) gay bars

4.) gay gyms (yes, most gyms are gay) ?

 

they got their rights and the advantages of feminism. They wanted their own spaces, and instead of using them, they wanna take over ours...

There's too much to unpack here, but I will point out that it's not the women you should be upset with re: women in gay porn. It is your fellow gay men who cling to the idea/want to sell the idea of the allure of "straight" men. For reasons I can't understand, the fantasy of sleeping with a straight man is apparently very thrilling to some gay men. The women are there only to be cheated on and further cement the fantasy. It's not because the women "want to take our spaces."

If this is the same Giovanny I saw him several years ago, the advertised pics were not of the masseur and were not anywhere close to accurate. I of course can't speak to his current appearance.

Another Tyler hot one:

https://thegay.com/videos/461656/i-love-massage/

 

I find the massage recipient in this video to be very hot. Tyler gives him some excellent oral, and the boy's hole is very inviting. Seems like a great erotic massage experience to me.

 

What strikes me most about Tyler's massage videos, he seems to really know what he's doing when it actually comes to massage. The perfect blend of muscle therapy and sensual eroticism.

My goodness that was a hot one. Who is the bottom? I love Tyler's massage videos. The fact that he is hard during the entire massage makes them even hotter.

I would like to hear as well!

Bump. I'd like to know as well.

Hello gentlemen!

Does anyone have any experience with Daniel? My searching through the forums led me to many different Daniels.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32418/

Thank you!

I saw Fernando probably 6 or 7 years ago. Assuming this is the same Fernando, he was very nice and polite. If I remember correctly the massage was relaxing, though the ending was a bit mechanical.

As for whether this is the same Fernando or not, I can't say. I have seen some of the photos in his ad on Grindr, so it probably is him. He looks a tad older than I remember (as he should), so they are likely accurate. As I said, I haven't personally seen him in a long time though.