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He does look better in AI. lol. 

You and I have very similar tastes @dutchal so that comment says a lot to the authenticity of your endorsement.
Yes. It's very very sad when someone who seems so blessed becomes self destructive.
I had a friend many years ago who was an absolutely beautiful blond haired male model. Unfortunately after moving to NYC around the same time as I did he got caught up in the nightclub/drug scene and ended up nearly brain dead. Just an awful end to a beautiful and sweet young man.

So deep.... I appreciate poetry, and yours is something I haven't ran into. Had to ask technology to breakdown its eloquentness:
"This quote seems to suggest that when the metaphorical "rain" or difficulties in life pass, the protection or support offered by something, like an umbrella, may no longer be needed and could even feel burdensome. It could be about letting go of unnecessary safeguards or dependencies once the situation improves."
Bravo. 🌨️☂️🌞

He refers to the class of escort known, at one time, as "Bugatti Boys".

I remember years ago, maybe about fifteen, there was an escort here in NYC who had a jaw-droppingly beautiful physique.  To this day, one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen or been with.  When I finally managed to arrange an appointment at his place, I was flabbergasted.  It was a disheveled mess, with all sorts of drug paraphernalia scattered around.  The bed seemed clean enough, so I went ahead with the encounter, and his over-the-top beauty made for a hot time.  But for the drugs, I would have been tempted to make him a regular, but of course never went back.  To my surprise, he was around for years after that, and consistently earned reviews that said he matched his pics but also mentioned the drugs.  Lord knows what genes and workout routine he had that enabled him to indulge in the drugs and keep his physical beauty.  He eventually disappeared.

I am assuming you're over 60 ? The gays haven't been drinking and smoking cigarettes since the 90s.
"Party" and "PNP" ( party n' play ) is all about drugs. Typically crystal ( meth ) or GHB
I haven't been in a gay bar for many years....but I recall the last time I was in a gay dance club the bartenders were selling nothing but water because you can't drink alcohol on GHB.

A true BFE means you are lovers or acting like lovers, and the experience should be close to what you’d imagine with a true BF or lover. For this to happen requires either chemistry between the provider and yourself, or a great provider who can make it happen. 
 
Some providers are simply not good at it, and it feels like they are going thru the motions.
 
You will not know the outcome unless you try it out with someone. When you find that perfect BFE, then that’s your LT arrangement. Enjoy while it lasts. 

I’ve always wondered what “into party” means. Is that what it means? Genuine question. I’ve seen it described multiple other, direct ways (eg PNP).
 
But the phrase “party” in my Gen X mind is very broad and could cover lots of things? Like for us a party meant drinks, cigarettes and hanging out with friends and maybe a little dancing. 🤷🏽‍♂️.

Wow! Beautiful!

Gotta have it. I have had my biblical four score and ten; hence any time left to me to savor the joy of living is on the cuff courtesy of the Maker. I am "free, white, twenty-one" without issue and, as by the old adage, you can't take it with you...

Sizzlin' hot...

He'll join you for Christmas dinner with the family, but in return you'll have to deal with his family as well.  And when the paid session is over, he'll also want custody of the dog. 🐶

In a big blue city (say NYC) the last thing the cops have time for is the hobby. They have a lot of other things to deal with.  So as long as things stay private, calm and friendly there is almost no risk. A small city where folks have nothing better to do? Probably risk goes up a little bit, but not much. 

The concern is reproduction and genetics.  Shouldn’t be a concern here. 😉

I’m sure of it. 

Rent due on the 1st of the month with a very small "window" grace period before the landlord comes knocking at the door wanting his money. Think substantial markdown on rack rate hopeful of a taker or, perhaps, residency on the curb.

A simple note as suggested. If he complains (he won’t) then you could cite the bad review. 

"Unfortunately my plans have changed and I won’t be able to make our appointment".
Period. Full stop.
Never complain, never explain. 

In a big blue city (say NYC) the last thing the cops have time for is the hobby. They have a lot of other things to deal with.  So as long as things stay private, calm and friendly there is almost no risk. A small city where folks have nothing better to do? Probably risk goes up a little bit, but not much. 

In a big blue city (say NYC) the last thing the cops have time for is the hobby. They have a lot of other things to deal with.  So as long as things stay private, calm and friendly there is almost no risk. A small city where folks have nothing better to do? Probably risk goes up a little bit, but not much. 

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I see my main guy twice a month, and sometimes hire other guys when I travel or wanna try something new but I always have 1 guy that i usually see twice a month maybe 3 times depends on my work and schedule.

A regular is someone who knows me personally, who I know personally, knows exactly what I'm into, and someone with whom I have mutual respect.
It's someone that I can text, ask if they're available at x o'clock, and schedule with no fuss.
I'd say I hire a regular at least 4 times a year, while others I hire 10+ times a year. When you have several regulars, you can't see them every month, especially when they travel.

Exactly! If I can text you requesting an appointment for Sat afternoon, and really the only details we need to iron out are the specific time, I consider:
1) you a quality provider that remembers me and my needs; and
2) myself a "regular" who has seen you enough, that you remember me.

A regular is a client who has come more than 3 times, especially if that’s in a single session.