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JEC

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  1. I went to Rounds once in my 20's (mid 80s?), it was my first time to NYC as a young single man (and I was terrified LOL). I met a hot guy who was a dancer, complete with dancer legs and a dancer's ass. He took me back to his apartment, where I drilled his perky butt.....and stayed the night. I was way too naive then to know that Rounds was a hustler bar 🙄
  2. Funny, I came (pun intended) across this old post....IsaacX did appear in Boston and I hired him.....what a sexy, sexual and versatile (tho all bottom for me!) man! Highly recommend IsaacX if you are able to connect! Our meet w\as post-COVID, May 2022.
  3. The way you describe your siblings, they seem to have some level of mental illness (addictions, etc.). Does not change your course of action, but this is more complex than someone just making bad choices and acting like a teenager. I lost my brother 2 years ago to a lifelong battle with alcoholism, and I had similar struggles over the years with him (not about money, there was none....just about his behavior and how that impacted his life and the family). Still, with addiction there is literally nothing you can do until the person is willing and able to help themselves. My father too had some sort of difficulty with money. He had a successful career and a generous retirement, but he never had any money - ran up credit cards, payday loans, and asked me for money a few times. I think he had a gambling addiction, the closest I ever got to an admission was that he played the lottery. The last time he asked me for money I said no but offered to help in other ways (like set up a budget, hire a financial advisor, etc). I did this after drawing up a "contract with myself" of what my baseline principles were for helping, and what I was and was not willing to do. For example, I would not allow my parents to be homeless or hungry. I also would not put my own money/retirement at risk. I would not enable my father's destructive behavior. I did buy my dad a used car (10k) and put it in my name so he could not borrow against it to ensure he had transportation. I also helped twice with refinancing of their mortgage to provide some relief with monthly expenses (just helped with the paperwork, dad was in his 80's by then). I hope the mental illness angle allows you to come at the situation with some compassion, while not sacrificing your principles. Consider writing up that "contract with yourself" - it will provide you clarity as you face decisions over time. If you have some flexibility with how the trust is administered, you may be able to set up structures which pay for basic needs and nothing more - ensuring he will never be homeless or hungry, while protecting your assets. Good luck, this is a difficult situation and I hope you find a pathway to peace.
  4. If you were paying 300 10 years ago, cost of living adjustments alone would get you to $400 over 10 years, that doesn't include the wage and cost inflation and we have experienced due to COVID (I used an average COLI of 2.5%):
  5. Given uncertainty of weather, I wonder if it makes sense to wait until @ 1 week before and then make your travel plans? I also live in the NE - and weather forecasts here are not that reliable at t+7 days, but in other areas of the country should be. Looks like it will travel directly over Niagara Falls.....
  6. A couple of buds on this board I know go to Brazil once or twice per year for an all-out, weeklong pigfest. The cost of providers is 10% of US, and so many hot Latin boys to choose from! They will usually hire one or 2 for the entire week, and supplement with others. Now that's what I call a Value Proposition!
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    Lisbon

    I've had too many sub-par to terrible experiences in Guy Guesthouses, so I generally avoid them now. We went to Lisbon last Fall and the prices were incredible, we stayed at a boutique hotel right in the city center for about $250/night. Splurge! The Lumiares Hotel & Spa - Small Luxury Hotels Of The World, Lisbon, Portugal WWW.BOOKING.COM Located in Bairro Alto, the bohemian and cultural heart of Lisbon.
  8. That's what I call having a "side hustle" LOL
  9. I am having the same issue, using Bing browser....I have not tried other browsers yet have you?
  10. Bump, planning a trip to LA in a few weeks and very interested in this provider 😎
  11. Thanks for this validation.....I have been reading up on Intermittent Fasting, and am planning to start....though plan a "skip breakfast" regimen (timing just works best for me). Skip breakfast, high protein/low carb lunch and regular (reasonable) dinner. Glad it's working out for you.....Jack
  12. 67 during the day, and 62 at night. We have a Pellet stove in our kitchen/dining area which we will sometimes turn on for ambiance and to take the chill off. I prefer sleeping in a cold room with blankets. Live in MA here.
  13. Hey gents, I have a business trip to LA coming up and I really want to try a Korean Spa. Looking for recs please.....primarily looking for the best spa experience, any sex would be optional (and not necessary). Thanks for your input!
  14. I think the statistics still prove that your earning potential is much higher with college (or trade school) education. It is true that things have gotten much more competitive at the Ivy level, however, there are still great affordable choices in the state schools. I am a VP at a large organization, started my career and community college, went to work, earned my bachelor's at night (having my employer pay for half of it), and just a few years ago completed my MBA and a top state school program, which cost $39,000 and I paid cash. Point is, there are lots of pathways to education…. We tend to think of higher education as a binary thing… Go directly from high school, go to top school, have mom and dad pay. There are many alternative, affordable, and accessible choices out there.
  15. I love his porn work, uninhibited pig and true verse. I love a power top who will also power bottom (100% top here). Would love to connect with him, I doubt Boston is on his to do list 😎
  16. Heading to LA in late feb for a convention and looking for recs. Dom top here who loves submissive bottoms. My tastes span twinks twunks and otters, prefer masc guys and chemistry is more important than model good looks. 🐷🐷🐷. TIA !
  17. Given all that Epstein knew, and the risk he posed to countless uber-powerful people, there is no way that his death was an accident. I generally eschew conspiracy theories....but this one is too obvious.
  18. I'd like to help him with his groin recovery, maybe some massage? Stretching?
  19. Anyone stepping up to take on the Mare role should be prepared to take it, by prepared I mean both mentally and physically (douched, lubed, and stretched). A buttplug or some dildo play would be good prep.
  20. AND, film the entire thing?
  21. Hey, was kidding about buying the tickets - but it sure sounds like fun!
  22. I'm booking my tickets now 😲
  23. I like the breeding mares concept, I love bottoms for whom dick is their oxygen. Like they come alive once you plug in. Eyes-rolled-back-goose-bumps-on-their-ass. Throw in an anal orgasm or cumming hands-free and I will be a client for life.
  24. JEC

    411 on JAELLPZ

    Very cute guy, looks very fuckable 🐷
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