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+ cougar reacted to + nycman in "Nobody loves you when you're old and gay"
First, I want to thank @Charlie for bringing up a difficult topic that most of us would just rather avoid. Unfortunately, I’ve seen the results of ignoring this topic. Spoiler alert: it doesn’t end pretty. Planning and open honest discussions are everything.
For context, I have an older brother…useless. Two nephews….both very kind, both very useless.
The best advice I can give is to work closely with an estate planner to ensure you have the resources available to provide care for yourself. As always talking with your accountant and lawyer about these things is a good idea. They’ve seen hundreds of scenarios (the good, the bad, and the ugly) play out over their careers. Listen to them, even if what they’re telling you sounds harsh and/or unpleasant. They know what works, and what doesn’t work.
Also, make sure everyone around you knows your exit plan. It’s different for all of us. So far, knowing I have an escape hatch, has brought me great calm and helped me survive life’s inevitable rough spots. As they say in disaster planning: during a disaster, nothing will go the way you planned, but at least you had a plan
Finally, go out of your way to engage with people younger than you. Yes, this can be incredibly difficult. You will have to endure listening to them talk about things that you find banal and/or that to which you can’t even remotely relate. You will worry about your relationship being a "burden" on them. They will have to endure listening to you bitch about how much you hate getting older (hint: don’t do it. No one cares and they will start avoiding you if you do.). Be exceedingly kind, generous, and patient with them. In other words, be the friend you want to have. Nothing more, nothing less. At first it may feel strained or artificial. Do it anyways. Bonds develop over time. Most of us sell ourselves short on what we bring to the table for a younger generation. The friends I have watched "grow old gracefully" were the ones who mastered this step most of all.
On a funny note, the other day I was musing out loud about this topic with my trainer. He unexpectedly piped in with “don’t worry about it bro, that’s what you have me for". I shot back with "I’m talking about the hard part, like having someone to wipe my ass, not someone to count to ten at my bedside". His response?…"the only hard part is going to be keeping you from grabbing my ass while I’m wiping yours." We both had a good laugh and got back to the work out. He’s not my Plan A, but it’s nice to know he wants to be there.
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+ cougar reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in The most beautiful Christmas Tree in the world
Yet another reason to celebrate the 12 Days of Christmas, beginning on December 25. There's time to buy items on sale for the remaining 11 nights of Christmas.
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+ cougar reacted to pubic_assistance in 411 William_Mann NYC
"Hello..my name is William...I'm a model"
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Yeah...where ? Only Fans ? In your head ?
Seems.like everyone who takes one artistic pose and one black and white shot thinks he's a model today.
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+ cougar reacted to Lazarus in 411 (Taylor_talls)
Based on those pictures In the ad one would hope he looks nothing like them.
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+ cougar reacted to Moke in 411 on nicely-muscled Somethigood - New ad for this escort
I wouldn’t label him TGTBT based on those photos. They look hot but real. Let us know how it goes!
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+ cougar got a reaction from marylander1940 in Info on Dys_passive in Miami
Damn nice looking boy, I wish I were a top!
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+ cougar reacted to Justhere in any 411 on EvertonXXL in London
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+ cougar got a reaction from + ButchAtl in Info on Dys_passive in Miami
Damn nice looking boy, I wish I were a top!
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+ cougar reacted to edinbrooklyn in Level of Competition
LA is so spread out. Travel time for outcalls could really impact business.
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+ cougar got a reaction from peter831 in 411 BrettNY
He has been around for years, he ain't 26, I would think he is closer to 35. But damn he still does look nice.
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+ cougar reacted to mds1 in 411 King_Slanger in FTL
I saw this guy recently and must say it was a very good experience. He’s extremely sexy and his equipment is the real deal. If he’s your type and you’re near him, give him consideration. Very nice guy to boot! Feel free to PM me with any questions.
King_Slanger
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+ cougar reacted to blck37 in 411 on MiguelZeus
Any info please, thanks.
https://rent.men/MiguelZeus
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+ cougar reacted to Harryinny in LEONLATINXL in Detroit
Too bad his tat, ruined a nicely chiseled chest.
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+ cougar reacted to sydneyboy in 411 on YourHardDreamBoy
Wow! A stunner. No tattoos, blessed relief.
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+ cougar reacted to MikeBiDude in 411 Twinkblonde New York City
$9.75/month teaser rate. Then $15/month. I'll not subscribe...all OF subscriptions pissing me off lately. Seems like they are all just a come on to buy stuff from them constantly.
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+ cougar reacted to top_guy_atl in 411 on Zid
I don't understand RM ads like this... the description is for non-sexual massage. There's no "I'm into" section. Too many "Ask me" responses. I'm not going to try to contact him, because I have no idea of what we'd do. Is this ambiguity intentional?
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+ cougar reacted to TopSweatyJock in Sub_boyNYC
Has anyone met this jock in NYC?
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+ cougar reacted to dutchal in NYC Newbie: Prettyboylex
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