MaxMuscle9x6

I reached out to him and the second try he responded and said I needed to send him a 500.00 deposit. That wasn’t going to happen.

That is total bullshit how he treated you. He also asked me to pay upfront which I declined to do. I will say this, when an escort asks for payment upfront in advance of the meeting or when I first arrive, I decline to meet them or I walk out after they make the request. I am always respectful, but many times they are not. I am fortunate that I am a big guy and while I prefer not to resort to a physical altercation, I will if necessary and the escort will regret what happens.
 
Also on the RM side where they require you to make contact through their system. I will only reach out to escorts through the system first if they do not respond I just move on. There are many fish in the sea.

I have met him more than once and would advise passing.  The pic of his dick is definitely photoshopped and he is much more a bttm than a top.  

Of course.  I met with him more than once since our first meeting went fairly well and he was delivering on everything we discussed.  Each time we met subsequently he was unable to deliver.  So on our third meet up when he was again having trouble, he asked me if I topped, which I do.  He bottomed that night and confessed to being mostly a bttm on our 4th meeting where he bttm’d the entire time. 

Of course.  I met with him more than once since our first meeting went fairly well and he was delivering on everything we discussed.  Each time we met subsequently he was unable to deliver.  So on our third meet up when he was again having trouble, he asked me if I topped, which I do.  He bottomed that night and confessed to being mostly a bttm on our 4th meeting where he bttm’d the entire time. 

I am late to this thread, but have a POV on scenario’s like the one Steve experienced.  Escorts always want to know what you want.  Sounds like Steve provided the required detail.  Nothing sounds out of the ordinary…some kissing, sucking, fucking.  Based on what Steve said he would like to have happen, the Escort quotes him $400/hour for 2 hours and the meeting is at the escorts place.  $800 for an in call is steep, by any measure and is a lot of money to an escort and client.  If you don’t think it is a lot of money then mayb you have lost touch with how hard it is to earn that.  Especially since you have to earn on a pre-tax basis about $1,600. 
This escort, who claims to have not cum in days then decides to JO before he has a 2 hour, $800 appt with a client.  That is inconsiderate, disrespectful and entitled.  Entitled especially since he knew within minutes of Steve entering his appt what the situation was going to be and the session ends well  before the first hour has passed.  He does not offer an apology nor does he offer to return any of the money he did not earn.  I some circles that is stealing.  He felt entitled to the total fee, despite not being able to deliver on his agreed to services.  
Write the review, no need to soft peddle it.  

I am late to this thread, but have a POV on scenario’s like the one Steve experienced.  Escorts always want to know what you want.  Sounds like Steve provided the required detail.  Nothing sounds out of the ordinary…some kissing, sucking, fucking.  Based on what Steve said he would like to have happen, the Escort quotes him $400/hour for 2 hours and the meeting is at the escorts place.  $800 for an in call is steep, by any measure and is a lot of money to an escort and client.  If you don’t think it is a lot of money then mayb you have lost touch with how hard it is to earn that.  Especially since you have to earn on a pre-tax basis about $1,600. 
This escort, who claims to have not cum in days then decides to JO before he has a 2 hour, $800 appt with a client.  That is inconsiderate, disrespectful and entitled.  Entitled especially since he knew within minutes of Steve entering his appt what the situation was going to be and the session ends well  before the first hour has passed.  He does not offer an apology nor does he offer to return any of the money he did not earn.  I some circles that is stealing.  He felt entitled to the total fee, despite not being able to deliver on his agreed to services.  
Write the review, no need to soft peddle it.  

I saw him last night for a few hours and we had a great time.  Easy to talk to, great kisser, relaxed and he looks better in person than his pics suggest.   

Yes, I have had escorts that will not charge me for time spent together, but typically after several paid hours together. However, there is one escort I met about 10 years ago that changed my life. We met online one Saturday night and he invited me up to his place. We hit it off right away and had awesome sex. I saw him 3 more times and on the 4th date, an overnighter, he didn't take the envelope I left for him on the dining room table. I thought he had forgotten it, so i ran after him. When I caught up with him I discreetly hand the envelope to him. He said he didn't forget it, but he could no longer take my money when he was having more fun than I was (I assure you I was having just as much fun as he was). That was the beginning of our relationship and we are still together.

Yes, I have had escorts that will not charge me for time spent together, but typically after several paid hours together. However, there is one escort I met about 10 years ago that changed my life. We met online one Saturday night and he invited me up to his place. We hit it off right away and had awesome sex. I saw him 3 more times and on the 4th date, an overnighter, he didn't take the envelope I left for him on the dining room table. I thought he had forgotten it, so i ran after him. When I caught up with him I discreetly hand the envelope to him. He said he didn't forget it, but he could no longer take my money when he was having more fun than I was (I assure you I was having just as much fun as he was). That was the beginning of our relationship and we are still together.

Yes, I have had escorts that will not charge me for time spent together, but typically after several paid hours together. However, there is one escort I met about 10 years ago that changed my life. We met online one Saturday night and he invited me up to his place. We hit it off right away and had awesome sex. I saw him 3 more times and on the 4th date, an overnighter, he didn't take the envelope I left for him on the dining room table. I thought he had forgotten it, so i ran after him. When I caught up with him I discreetly hand the envelope to him. He said he didn't forget it, but he could no longer take my money when he was having more fun than I was (I assure you I was having just as much fun as he was). That was the beginning of our relationship and we are still together.

Yes, I have had escorts that will not charge me for time spent together, but typically after several paid hours together. However, there is one escort I met about 10 years ago that changed my life. We met online one Saturday night and he invited me up to his place. We hit it off right away and had awesome sex. I saw him 3 more times and on the 4th date, an overnighter, he didn't take the envelope I left for him on the dining room table. I thought he had forgotten it, so i ran after him. When I caught up with him I discreetly hand the envelope to him. He said he didn't forget it, but he could no longer take my money when he was having more fun than I was (I assure you I was having just as much fun as he was). That was the beginning of our relationship and we are still together.

..and that’s fine. I think clients oftentimes forget the pandemic is ongoing, and while the severity of the situation is a stark contrast from what it was, I take my health and the health and well-being of my clients very seriously. I was very transparent per “the why” (congregating around the holidays, wasn’t feeling my best), to which I got an “oh man,” not a “feel better.” I could have allowed you to hire me and underperformed had you preferred? 
 
If I had to choose, I much prefer one not attempt to hire me again because they were mildly inconvenienced and not because I underperformed while ill. Choices. In any event, I hope you found a suitable replacement. x

Yes, I have had escorts that will not charge me for time spent together, but typically after several paid hours together. However, there is one escort I met about 10 years ago that changed my life. We met online one Saturday night and he invited me up to his place. We hit it off right away and had awesome sex. I saw him 3 more times and on the 4th date, an overnighter, he didn't take the envelope I left for him on the dining room table. I thought he had forgotten it, so i ran after him. When I caught up with him I discreetly hand the envelope to him. He said he didn't forget it, but he could no longer take my money when he was having more fun than I was (I assure you I was having just as much fun as he was). That was the beginning of our relationship and we are still together.

I say it's the provider's job to keep track of time.  He's the professional in the room.  Your only job is to relax and have fun.
Kevin Slater

The real goal here is to have a suitable rate to satisfy not ever needing a tip.

I have met him more than once and would advise passing.  The pic of his dick is definitely photoshopped and he is much more a bttm than a top.  

I met with him when he was in NYC this past August.  His pics are 100% accurate, he is a fun and chill guy.  Very responsive and flexible when setting up my appt.    

I met with him when he was in NYC this past August.  His pics are 100% accurate, he is a fun and chill guy.  Very responsive and flexible when setting up my appt.    

I met with him when he was in NYC this past August.  His pics are 100% accurate, he is a fun and chill guy.  Very responsive and flexible when setting up my appt.    

I have met him.  The experience was pretty awful.  Not only did he not look like his pics, he couldn't perform.  the next thing I know he invited another guy into the apt who was suppose to perform when he couldn't.  I called BS on that and got ready to leave.  When i was walking toward the door they want me to pay both of them.  I refused and left.  

In this world of client and provider there are some basic rules of the road.  While I know the client is only paying for time spent with the provider, we also know that is not all what the dollars are for.  With that said, providers like to know in advance what the client would like.  Assuming that is expressed clearly, which is the clients responsibility, the provider can agree to some or all or decline entirely.  So assuming the provider agrees to all in this case, a meeting date and time is set up.   In this case the provider is topping, so he knows he has to be hard and the client is expecting that to happen.  When the provider can't/doesn't deliver for what ever reason and the client decides to end an appointment early, should the provider expect the total fee, if the meeting was scheduled for 2 hours but the meeting is ended in 45 minutes? 
IMHO I would not pay for the full 2 hours, but so many providers expect it and will demand it.  i am lucky to be bigger than most, so I stand my ground to not pay the full fee.  I will pay for the hour, even though the provider was unable to deliver and nothing more.   There have been a hand full of times when a provider couldn't perform, the meeting ended early and he would not accept any money, even for time spent. 
         

I am late to this thread, but have a POV on scenario’s like the one Steve experienced.  Escorts always want to know what you want.  Sounds like Steve provided the required detail.  Nothing sounds out of the ordinary…some kissing, sucking, fucking.  Based on what Steve said he would like to have happen, the Escort quotes him $400/hour for 2 hours and the meeting is at the escorts place.  $800 for an in call is steep, by any measure and is a lot of money to an escort and client.  If you don’t think it is a lot of money then mayb you have lost touch with how hard it is to earn that.  Especially since you have to earn on a pre-tax basis about $1,600. 
This escort, who claims to have not cum in days then decides to JO before he has a 2 hour, $800 appt with a client.  That is inconsiderate, disrespectful and entitled.  Entitled especially since he knew within minutes of Steve entering his appt what the situation was going to be and the session ends well  before the first hour has passed.  He does not offer an apology nor does he offer to return any of the money he did not earn.  I some circles that is stealing.  He felt entitled to the total fee, despite not being able to deliver on his agreed to services.  
Write the review, no need to soft peddle it.  

In this world of client and provider there are some basic rules of the road.  While I know the client is only paying for time spent with the provider, we also know that is not all what the dollars are for.  With that said, providers like to know in advance what the client would like.  Assuming that is expressed clearly, which is the clients responsibility, the provider can agree to some or all or decline entirely.  So assuming the provider agrees to all in this case, a meeting date and time is set up.   In this case the provider is topping, so he knows he has to be hard and the client is expecting that to happen.  When the provider can't/doesn't deliver for what ever reason and the client decides to end an appointment early, should the provider expect the total fee, if the meeting was scheduled for 2 hours but the meeting is ended in 45 minutes? 
IMHO I would not pay for the full 2 hours, but so many providers expect it and will demand it.  i am lucky to be bigger than most, so I stand my ground to not pay the full fee.  I will pay for the hour, even though the provider was unable to deliver and nothing more.   There have been a hand full of times when a provider couldn't perform, the meeting ended early and he would not accept any money, even for time spent. 
         

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