JudasKane

The vagueness of the term certainly leads to as many different interpretations as there are clients and providers.
However, I think a general impression can be culled from our individual ones: That BFE is just as much (if not more so) about compassionate mental-emotional affection and interaction as it is about whatever else may take place.
 
For me, it means that we spend time together and there's a general ebb and flow with our physical interaction as opposed to having a laundry list of physical acts to take place. A fair amount of time could be spent hand holding, cuddling, talking about the great mysteries of life, etc --- generally behaviors one may expect in an established relationship versus what behavior one may expect from picking someone up at a bar.
 
I think I would be remiss if I didn't mention a fantastic piece about BFE by @tylerthebadwolf for thought catalog - https://thoughtcatalog.com/tyler-darlig-ulv/2017/05/what-being-a-professional-companion-really-is-because-it-isnt-sex-work/

The vagueness of the term certainly leads to as many different interpretations as there are clients and providers.
However, I think a general impression can be culled from our individual ones: That BFE is just as much (if not more so) about compassionate mental-emotional affection and interaction as it is about whatever else may take place.
 
For me, it means that we spend time together and there's a general ebb and flow with our physical interaction as opposed to having a laundry list of physical acts to take place. A fair amount of time could be spent hand holding, cuddling, talking about the great mysteries of life, etc --- generally behaviors one may expect in an established relationship versus what behavior one may expect from picking someone up at a bar.
 
I think I would be remiss if I didn't mention a fantastic piece about BFE by @tylerthebadwolf for thought catalog - https://thoughtcatalog.com/tyler-darlig-ulv/2017/05/what-being-a-professional-companion-really-is-because-it-isnt-sex-work/

The vagueness of the term certainly leads to as many different interpretations as there are clients and providers.
However, I think a general impression can be culled from our individual ones: That BFE is just as much (if not more so) about compassionate mental-emotional affection and interaction as it is about whatever else may take place.
 
For me, it means that we spend time together and there's a general ebb and flow with our physical interaction as opposed to having a laundry list of physical acts to take place. A fair amount of time could be spent hand holding, cuddling, talking about the great mysteries of life, etc --- generally behaviors one may expect in an established relationship versus what behavior one may expect from picking someone up at a bar.
 
I think I would be remiss if I didn't mention a fantastic piece about BFE by @tylerthebadwolf for thought catalog - https://thoughtcatalog.com/tyler-darlig-ulv/2017/05/what-being-a-professional-companion-really-is-because-it-isnt-sex-work/

Top/vers/bottom is merely an indicator of who would be doing anal penetration (or in the case of BDSM -- who is the active participant).
 
Imagine the possibilities if we didn't let this label for a single sexual activity (anal sex) limit the types of interactions that can take place between two (or more) people.
 
( Also, I top and I love swallowing. )

Top/vers/bottom is merely an indicator of who would be doing anal penetration (or in the case of BDSM -- who is the active participant).
 
Imagine the possibilities if we didn't let this label for a single sexual activity (anal sex) limit the types of interactions that can take place between two (or more) people.
 
( Also, I top and I love swallowing. )

Very popular in India and its called MD here right now. Majority of local escorts seem to get addicted to it sadly.
 
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I always see PNP as referring to hard drugs beyond alcohol or marijuana. I’m practically a devotee of ganja so 420 is obviously more than cool with me... if someone else doesn’t use it then I’m not going to show up smelling like it or smoking it but you can rest assured that I am *medicated* alllllll the time, and I perform in such a manner that I guess you’d never really know. Cuz that’s my normal state. I do play around with hard drugs occasionally in my personal life, but never with clients / while working. Even if requested. So you wont ever see PNP-friendly in my ads. I do usually have a bottle of poppers and some kinda weed (probably something more discreet than a smokeable) tucked away in my trick bag, but they only come out upon request.
 
Except for the fact that I’ve now gone slightly public about my 420 use via some images of me smoking hand-rolled joints in my marketing, my goal is that even someone who doesn’t use any substances (including alcohol) could meet with me without having an issue. I never raise the subject on my own to avoid bothering anyone who might find it detracting.

I’m a big fan of sluts and like hearing stories about any/all of my sexual partners other escapades! When the line is crossed into negative gossip, I get very uncomfortable and I think it reflects badly on the client more than anything. Likewise with sharing intimate details that might best remain private. I love hearing that you fucked your last hire in the washroom of an Amtrak train on your way down to D.C.! I don’t need to know his real name, his medical conditions, or any other personal details that he might have shared with you in confidence. Likewise, I don’t need to hear if he asked you to bareback him and you were shocked and decided not to hire him again even though the hookup was awesome. You may be looking for someone to share the story with and expect a sympathetic ear from me, but pretty much any time the conversation crosses into negative-gossip it becomes over-sharing to me.

Just hire me! I specialise in experiences like the one you’re looking for. My rate’s already about double the going rate tho... so no need to double it again!!
 
I have a lot of reviews written by ‘sensitive bottoms’ on TER from before I started my transition if you want to read all about it...
https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=190835
 
I agree that a lot of the battle can be mental. But there are ways for an escort to hold your hand through that part too, in addition to giving you the gentle approach that you need to enjoy it.

I’m a fan of Double Scorpio (https://doublescorpio.com/collections/all) and uspopshop as mentioned by @Despardo above.

For those interested. My review about @JudasKane has been posted on daddys page. =)

@JudasKane , you know I’m looking forward to your return! ::hugs:: Still waiting for the daddy’s review to be put up!! Takes a little bit for it to be posted

Anecdotally it’s well-known that couples are more likely to be “fantasy bookers”. Maybe it’s because I make people jump through a lot of hoops to get a booking with me, but I’ve never actually had a couple who managed to get an appointment with me cancel it. I’m selective about the circumstances under which I will book a couple though. For example, I have to speak to both partners on the phone before I’ll accept the booking.

If prostitution was decriminalised I would run an agency and help people get into the industry in exchange for a percentage of their earnings. I would also teach them how to market themselves so as soon as they decide that they’re sick of sharing their earnings, they are equipped to go independent and keep all of them. An ethical agency can serve a good role in helping newbies enter the industry smoothly and safely. And to support experienced escorts who simply don’t care to handle the marketing aspect of their work (part-time escorts with demanding full-time employment outside the industry, for example).
 
With the current legal climate in the US, however, I would never take the risk. The level of legal risk for agencies is infinitely higher than the level of legal risk for an independent provider.

That is a scam. I've received the same messages before.
 
FYI there's another one where the "client" wants to book you for an overnight or weekend. The person says their agent will send a check to you. That one is easy to identify.

If you have a chance to meet this amazing man, run , do not walk, run to him. THE most caring, warm, intimate connection I've had in , I don't even know how long.

Older guys tend to be way more talented in the oral department, I've noticed. Probably because practice makes perfect...
 
Also, not always, but usually, older clients are more emotionally mature, which means less inconsiderate behaviour and drama. I find that more often I have those kinds of problems with mid-life-crisis-aged guys than older ones.
 
And believe me, drama-free-dick IS a turn on...

I know I can't be the only one who has gotten properly dicked down by, exchanged piss with, and fisted guys in their 60's and 70's?
 
I've also had workaholic insomniac 35-50 year olds fall asleep on me less than halfway thru a session. Or just walk out early for a meeting. Age is honestly no indicator of who is going to fall asleep on me. The power executives are more likely to than the retired guys tho, that's for sure.

Lol I'm so confused by the discrepancy between the title and the clarifying question in the OP. I can only guess that it makes no difference whether the escort in question is truly into older guys or is simply a good actor?
 

 
It confuses me why this question would be in the "as an escort" section then. Are you asking us to judge our own acting abilities? Why ask us if you don't care about whether we would TRULY rather be playing with older guys or not?
 
I'm not an older guy who's met with dozens of younger escorts, so I'm in no place to judge who "appears to be really happy" with older clients. But as an escort I can say for sure- older guys come in every shape, size, smell, and personality type just like everyone else. Even tho I'm someone who has zero hangups about sleeping with older men, it's completely impossible to state that I'd truly enjoy being with ANY older man. Chemistry determines that just like with anyone else.
 
But when chemistry fails... I'm a good actor too. Why? Because everyone (who treats me with respect) deserves to feel like the sexiest guy in my world when we are together.
 
I guess I'm in a unique position right now due to my FTM transition and hormone treatment where I look almost a decade younger than I am. Hence I'm able to provide a "young teen" (18? 19?) type of fantasy experience while maintaining the experience and wisdom of my 28 years. I'd say that's been going over very well so far... guess I'd better enjoy it while it lasts!

The clients whom I don’t look forward to seeing are in the small minority. I am genuinely excited to see the majority of my clients, it’s neither a marketing strategy or an “act”. Perhaps I’m blessed to attract good energy, which is far more important than a great body.

They wink if you press the right buttons.

Sexually fluid and indiscriminate. #Allbodypartsmatter

In sharing Adam's experience it was not my intent to make anyone afraid. We can't allow fear to keep us from the things we enjoy and from doing what we are passionate about. All we can do is be smart, trust our intuition and hope for the best. Does this mean that nothing bad will ever happen? Of course not, but on our death bed it's more likely the things we didn't do that we'll regret, not the things we did.

Of course it's fine! It's your body and you should wear whatever makes you feel sexy IMO.
 
Wearing a buttplug to a date makes it easy to bottom. It takes way less time to remove a buttplug and slip into a stretched, pre-lubricated hole than it does to warm up a tight asshole from scratch...

I’ve said this before...but whenever I feel an escort
is suspicious about me being vice when I open the door
(I tend to have a very police/military haircut and look),
I immediately unzip their pants and put their cock in my
mouth.
 
They usually laugh and say “thanks man I was nervous”.
And then we go on to have a great time together.
 
I also agree. Absolutely no talk about sexual activity or
money until after we’re done fucking. It’s a little dicey,
but if they’ve got a good ad on Rentmen...I know all the
basic info that I need.

IS MASCULINE?



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Perhaps we've arrived at a time that a population, presumably familiar with bias, stops perpetuating stereotypes.