JBrian72

He's back in NYC. Bumping to see if there's any more info/experience on him as a masseur.
Rentmasseur ad: https://rentmasseur.com/Michael_V

He's sexy AF, but I wouldn't complain if he trimmed back the beard a bit.

Any feedback on technique and extras? Pm welcome. Thanks.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35882/

He's a total dream. I'm in SJ fairly often. I may take a chance on him.

I've been away so long, I may go wrong and lose my way.

I've been away so long, I may go wrong and lose my way.

OK the worst was also the first. Many years ago in my 20’s just broke up with a boyfriend. I saw one of those ads in the back of the local gay rag, hot buff guy pictured offering massage, got up the courage and made an appointment. When I got there the man who opened the door was of course not the man in the picture, more of a 60ish sort of Captain Kangaroo with a “Dutch Boy” hair doo. The apartment could only be described as, in the Liberace style on a K-Mart budget.
I was too shy and scared to run, so I stayed. He took off his robe to reveal only red satin boxers. There was a massage table so I got undressed and laid face down, under the towel.
I don’t really remember the massage, I think it was OK but I was too scared to move. There was a point where his big Persian cat jumped on the table and walked along my side. He yelled at the cat but cat kept coming back. Can’t tell what was going on in my head just wanted out of there. I did the turn over, more massage, the the attempt of a happy ending, but being in my 20’s it was quick and easy. After I came he knelt down with his head on the massage table and started praying and crying. I got up, got dressed, put the money by his head and ran out of there left him in the praying crying position in his own world. It was probably another 10 years before I went for another massage.

Who needs a 12-inch dick? It is basically a curse to have one. Most people, male or female can't accomodate it. It is also very hard to achieve full erection with that size. Back in the Stella Bar days, I hired 'Bam Bam' who had a dick in that size range. He could get it semi-hard but no full erection. I thought it was MY fault. Later on, I did see him in an amateur porn flick. Same story - could not achieve erection. I will say, it was a consolation of sorts.

M star spa NYC, I had a regular massuer Allen, cute, avg dick but he'd jump onto the table and lay with me. A few times he came too. I randomly met him on the subway and we hung out a few times. I really appreciated him. One day I asked for him and they told me he had to move back to China because he didn't have any money. I would have helped him out if that was the case. I ended up meeting Charley, even though Charlie is Sexier I still think of Allen. I know the game but we had a connection.

Martha and the Vandellas in 1962.

I have not reached out to a provider since March due to Covid (although I have texted with and supported my regulars). Flaking has not happened to me in the past year - thank goodness! I do screen my providers quite well before meeting and tend to stick to regulars. Whenever I reach out, my first question is “are you in town and available”. If I get a sense of hesitation I dont persue a meet. It has served me well.

There’s another side to the story too. Today I had a client book a 2 hour session. He booked it 3 days ago and I had confirmed with him yesterday. I don’t see clients at my home, I use a studio which is about 45 minutes away. So I travelled to the studio and prepared only to have him message me 5 minutes before the start...in response to my text telling him to knock when he’s arrived...telling me he had hurt himself and wasn’t coming and oh he hadn’t had time to let me know. I should have learned because he’d booked a session a week ago and had again cancelled an hour before the start time with an excuse. I get it that stuff happens so I always give the benefit of the doubt once. But not twice. I’m sure that he changed his mind and just didn’t bother to think to let me know. To him I’m just some guy who is disposable. I kick myself because the signs were there....too many questions, an off hand attitude to the arrangements, telling me he’s straight and wants to explore. I guess he enjoyed the thought of it and got scared at going ahead. I get it but just have the decency to tell me beforehand. I turned down other clients because I was busy. Well his number is now shared with other guys (yes we have those networks) so he won’t be able to book anywhere without paying 100% up front.

He is absolutely beautiful!

I lived in Atlanta during my coming-out phase. We had Etcetera magazine with print ads, some even with photos, and a local alternative newspaper called Creative Loafing, also with print ads. At some of the local gyms there were bulletin boards with masseurs' business cards, too, and a personal trainer I had for a while was also a masseur. I still have my Rolodex from the 1990s with my favorite masseurs in it!

Nothing better than a ballet dancer who knows how to give a good massage! Absolutely stunning

He lived in a place in the Edgewater neighborhood in Chicago at least 13 years ago. He left and came back briefly a year or two ago. I was tempted in 2007 but not now. One of those pics was used then. And if you search Bradford (no space) you'll find many so-so comments in these forums. He was in his mid 20s back then (at least). So at least in his 40s now.

I've seen him twice. Technically proficient massage, nice body, but detached and aloof. If you need a good massage and expect nothing more (unless you're younger than him and hot), he's a good choice. Also, because he's always on the go, he tends to stay in crappy places. The last time I saw him he was in this sad, tiny studio in Chicago, in an apartment building where you could smell the food of poor people in the hallway.
 
We did have an interesting conversation the second time and he did warm up a little and delivered a semi-enthusiastic HE. I'd give him another try if he were to show up in my area (after this crisis is over).

He does look younger but is definitely early 40s. He's always on the move. I've seen him a few times and massage is pretty good but anything beyond is YMMV.

Jeff Stryker always seemed a bit plastic to me.....

One would be "Stu" during his Sean Cody years:

Rico Marlon. Everything about him turns me on, but those eyes! Be still my beating heart!
 

Just had to post to saw I saw Gus and this dude is the real deal - a nice guy with a great body, decent rates, and heavy focus on the erotic elements. You can PM me if you want more info, but if you were considering him, take the plunge! I didn't see any other posts about him to comment on so I thought I would make one.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40141/
 
https://rentmasseur.com/MassageByGus

Some people don’t like the taste of cum. I don’t particularly like it but if I’m really into the guy or session I might let the guy cum in my mouth. Even then 9 times out of 10 I spit it out. Only one guy ever wanted to cum on my face but he never did in all the times we had sex. We would talk about it but It never happened. I guess he got the impression I wasn’t keen on it, even though I told him it was ok.
 
There are some who even have an aversion to it for whatever reason.
 
Plain and simple, people love the feeling of ejaculating, but not everyone is into the bodily fluids aspect. ?

Too bad he isn't as good about keeping clients' appointments as he is about his waxing appointments.

It's not surprising that's your most clever remark, but while you go ahead and joke, people are dying and you could very well end up contributing directly to the death of someone you know and love. COVIDiot.