Cyd_StVincent

A month or so ago I reached orgasm while laying out on the deck. I was face down with my dick between the 2 panels of fabric on the lounge chair. There wasn't any friction on my dick, so I wasn't exactly thrusting into anything, but it still didn't feel like a truly hands free orgasm. Today I tried it again, this time on my back. By just focusing on my breathe and caressing my chest, stomach and thighs I came after less than 4 minutes. My dick never got hard the entire time, in fact it actually shrunk up a bit and then got just a bit hard right before I came. I shot a video of it and posted it on my Tumblr. It was a horrible angle, and I hesitated to post it, but felt it might inspire some to see our potential as erotic beings.
 
Anyone else out there able to do this?

It's an opportunity for escorts and clients who have chatted in the forum to meet in the flesh. There are no specific aims beyond that. People no doubt do pair off, clients do contract with a provider to accompany them to the events but that's incidental to it. I attended the last event, in 2016, and also the similar event in Palm Springs last April; they are friendly, social and there is no pressure on anyone. The event is fun and social with the potential for closer engagement. For providers, it offers the opportunity to meet potential clients, but they should not expect a bonanza. The event also offers an opportunity for clients to talk to other clients, and likewise for escorts. I leave it to the escorts here to comment on the value of meeting each other.
 
As an aside, it's interesting to read the subsequent Daddy's reviews that were for meetings at these events. My reaction to them was to conclude that I had not been trying!!

Please mark your calendars for the next Forum DC Gathering, January 12-14, 2018.
 
@ArVaGuy and I have been working the past couple of months to put together plans for next year's gathering, and we'll be co-hosts. As with past DC gatherings, the weekend will span the MLK weekend, and coincide with Mid Atlantic Leather (MAL). There will be a range of get-togethers, culminating in the traditional brunch on Sunday, January 14th.
 
Last year's effort for the gathering had the best of intentions, but fell short when a venue for the brunch was not arranged. No harm, no foul, but not something anyone wants to have happen again. For this next year's event, arranging the venue for the brunch has been the first order of business, and it's been all confirmed. This event WILL happen, and you can start making arrangements with confidence.
 
Along the lines of making arrangements, we wanted to post an announcement early particularly for those interested in booking a hotel room in the MAL host hotel, or one of the hotels nearby. As of this writing there are still rooms at the MAL host hotel, but in year's past the host hotel has sold out well in advance of the event. So if you've been thinking you might want to book a room in the host hotel, you might want to do that sooner than later. Here is the link to the reservations page: http://www.leatherweekend.com/hotel/
 
For those of you who may not be interested in MAL or the leather scene, not to worry! Traditionally the DC gathering has coincided with MAL because it's a long weekend and many of us are in town, but the forum gathering is otherwise independent of the leather activities and is welcoming to all forum members. You may choose to sample some of the MAL activities, or go "whole-hog", or alternatively forgo them completely. That's up to you.
 
At this early stage we are posting so you can plan the dates ahead, book your hotel if inclined, and let us know if you're interested in attending so we can start putting together a head count for the brunch.
 
If you're interested in attending, please send a direct message to either @ArVaGuy or @nate_sf or both of us (direct messages can include more than one recipient). As the date approaches, we'll get in touch with each member who has expressed interest.
 
And if you have general questions or suggestions for the gathering, please do so in this thread.
 
We're excited to be continuing this fun tradition and hope you'll join us!

Within the milieu I grew up in, tattoos mark clan and kin relations. A persons tattoos tells me who they are without us ever speaking.
 
The same applies, in some respects, for escorts. They choose to identify themselves by their tattoo choices. Their choice of markings provides some insights about them as a person.

Within the milieu I grew up in, tattoos mark clan and kin relations. A persons tattoos tells me who they are without us ever speaking.
 
The same applies, in some respects, for escorts. They choose to identify themselves by their tattoo choices. Their choice of markings provides some insights about them as a person.

I assume most clients cancel because they jerk off and then the mood is gone. If it was something that I did that is addressable, rather than a trait of mine that is innate, I'd like to know so I can be sure I'm presenting myself well.

I assume most clients cancel because they jerk off and then the mood is gone. If it was something that I did that is addressable, rather than a trait of mine that is innate, I'd like to know so I can be sure I'm presenting myself well.

I think that also explains why many a post on these forums appears to be an unfinished thought.....

I assume most clients cancel because they jerk off and then the mood is gone. If it was something that I did that is addressable, rather than a trait of mine that is innate, I'd like to know so I can be sure I'm presenting myself well.

I'm always so excited when I get guys into fisting - both ways - it's one of my favorite forms of sex. I've had some really amazing moments with clients during these sessions. I'll just say, once you feel someones heartbeat at the tips of your fingers you don't soon forget that time with them.

This doesn't sound like a woman who was marrying for love. She sounds more like a lesbian who was pressured to marry.

http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4027/4479498064_d1dab64039_o.jpg
http://www.lettersofnote.com/2010/04/you-must-know-again-my-reluctance-to.html
 
They married in 1931 and were still married when Earhart's plane disappeared in 1937 while she was attempting to circumnavigate the world, so she never invoked the one-year bailout.

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.

Due to kidney and osteoporosis Issues I'm not able to take PreP. Plus I'm still traumatized by the epidemic in the 80's. I use condoms faithfully.

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.

I love the aesthetics of Polaroids and the subject & context of those above in the '70's is perfect for that raw, in-your-face realism.
Looking at #15, 21, 25 & 42 above is like a moment of deja-vu... you can practically hear the creaking of the door opening when you step into the tiny room and smell the sex.
 
tagging @Cyd_StVincent for filmaker fun

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.

Condoms, PrEP, serosorting, conversations, taking anonymous bareback loads - they all have their place and what risk you decide works for you in your life (because there is no such thing as no risk) is great.
 
However, as someone who worked in an STD clinic for a long time, I think the idea of HIV being the only STI that 'counts' is a short sighted one. This is not the 70's and the antibiotic arsenal is not what it once was. While gonnorhea is much less likely to kill you, having it for life or having to go to the hospital to get it cured - which is a very likely soon future - is something I don't take lightly and therefore act accordingly. I hate people who shame other for their well informed choices, I just wish I felt like more people were better informed.