HornyRetiree

Lol, at my early hiring days (which is kinda funny since I really just started 1.5 years ago), I had one experience where I did look at 'available now' coz the guy I had planned to have a session with just decided not to see me (it's all good, we're friends now), so then I was checking my plans B, C, and D in that order to see if one was available - couldn't waste a properly cleaned hole for the night...haha.
I guess now I am lucky enough to have some of them reach out a few weeks in advance to let me know when they're going to be in town so I can get those sessions scheduled in advance. And good thing for the existence of thrusting and vibrating dildos and the Pulse for the instances where I turn into those "I'm horny now" thirsty dudes. And yea, not into 'available now' either nowadays coz God knows how long it takes to friggin' prepare down there.

Good word 👏🏽 I especially emphasize the part when you say “waiting around on the off chance”. 
 
I understand and can even appreciate guys seeing my ad and wanting to meet right away. But I really don’t like being “assumed” that I’m available just out the blue. I know gay sex has happened like that for millions of years before the advent of cell phones, but it doesn’t mean that it needs to stay that way.
Fortunately, as I’m getting “older” (older as in mid 30s versus early 20s) I’m finding clients are more willing to schedule ahead, but that also makes me expect less that I “have to” do last minute visits. At the same time...I’ve met a lot of great clients who just happened to want to meet the same day, and not always with a whole lot of notice. Which is okay. 

I’m never ‘available now’. For one thing I have other work to do so I’m not just hanging around on the off chance someone will call. Plus those kind of “I’m horny now” clients aren’t the sort I want. Ok spontaneous liaisons can be great but not in a provider / client context, not for me anyway.
 
I prefer clients who have thought carefully about visiting me and made a decision with more than their dick. A last minute decision to use my services to unload isn’t likely to be an uplifting and meaningful experience so that’s not the type of booking I take. 

Interesting story you gave. I’ve always said, many clients don’t always realize what goes on behind the scenes and what all we put into to create an experience.
However, in the case of this guy...I don’t really see how it emphasizes what an escort has to do. Non of what you mentioned, that he mentioned...is exclusive or necessary to being a sex worker. Gay guys who aren’t escorts go to the gym, do roids, get cosmetic and gym stuff too. Non of it is really a requirement or “background” to being an escort. When I started in the game back in 2008, I was a skinny kid with a chipped tooth...but still managed to attract a following. 
 
I’m not saying that providers don’t (or shouldn’t) put a lot of work into their appearance or biz, but not all of us are hell bent on the superficial/expensive aspects of vanity. Escorting is not a beauty contest or bodybuilding competition. You can really just be a regular guy who takes good care of himself, knows how to tap into a base, and have a genuine like for the type of clients who come to you.
So in the case of the provider: I don’t really see it as being “doing all that to be an escort”, but more of “I’m being an escort so I can also maintain all of that”. And that’s not me trying to be a bitch: but I hear guys think about coming into escorting so they can support a lavish lifestyle...and I’m like, don’t get your hopes up. It ain’t that easy lol.
I introduced one friend of mine who is an “aspiring” escort to a client buddy of mine, over dinner. He had all the beauty and glitz, but not even 2 minutes went by, my client got up and left the table. My friend was being an obnoxious queen, and my client was not for it.
 

A couple of weeks ago I went on my "make up for 2020" trip and met a provider that I had been wanting to meet for years.  After we took care of business we ended up talking for a while.  He let me peek behind the curtain of what his life is like and I had no idea just how much work it is to be a provider. 
He started with showing me his, what we call at the gym "gear" and then told me how much it costs.  Although I'm not a faithful to the gym as I used to be I never used anything to give me an edge to make me bigger.  I've never been approached by a dealer either but when he told me the price I was stunned.  Then he told me about gym memberships, the diet, the clothes, and the plastic surgery and other medical expenses.  I was surprised just how much went into him being the persona of this person online.  On top of rent and a car payment he said he did well but he had his moments that things got financially strapped.  He then told me about the other ways he brings in money, like videos, worn apparel, pics, appearances and collaborations.  He told me that while it pays, it's not nearly as lucrative as one may assume. 
He had a roommate, that wasn't in the biz and that was never home.  I was surprised by that as well, I assumed he lived alone till I saw the bathroom and feminine products laying around.  He told me Vegas was starting to get as expensive as California and that his apartment was considered a decent place but not fancy. 
He was a very nice guy, and drop dead gorgeous with an amazing body.  I thanked him for giving me a new perspective.  He told me most clients don't ask and really don't care about what goes into the art of making the fantasy a reality.  I told him not many guys are talkative after our time is up.  He gave me a good bear hug and sent me on my way. 
To all the providers that make the fantasy a reality....Thank You!!!!

I did see a table partially collapse at a massage training session I was at one time. An interesting event…12 naked guys on massage tables with 24 semi naked women learning how to give a sensual massage to a guy. I was one of the 12 demo models. The females would rotate around every so often so that they got to practice on different guys. At the start of the evening the guy doing the training was demonstrating a move which meant he had to lean on the table. As he leant over it one of the table legs collapsed, rendering it unusable. I was asked to give up my table so the now table-less volunteer could use mine. As I was a pro masseur and knew the guy running the event I stopped being a practice model (unfortunately) and helped him to train the women in how to massage their man. They did well, 10 of the 11 guys reached climax. 
We discovered later that the collapsed table had a screw missing. Generally I think most tables are sturdy. It’s just that if the person on the table is big then it’s difficult for the masseur to mount the table. 
Sometimes if my client wants to be fucked it’s better if they bend over the table and I can fuck them from behind rather than having to mount the table myself. It’s quite a good position. 

Anybody who’d reject you based off physical looks shouldn’t be in the biz. Any provider would be lucky to have you and the ones who reject you again shouldn’t be providing. I’ve never rejected anybody for anything, it’s also not my place to do that. The truth is that I’m here to provide, not judge. I understand the rejection for size because I’ve been there. Just keep your head up cause we’re not all AHoles🥰

If you feel somehow uncomfortable with your weight, I suggest to be upfront with the provider and see how he reacts about it. If he is not okay with your weight, he is not worth your time. As a provider, I would never reject a client because of his weight. The things I expect from a client are respect, politeness, good hygiene, and being std clean.

Any provider worth his salt should be happy to see you, but it never hurts to briefly describe yourself beforehand, especially if it will make you feel more comfortable during the session.
Kevin Slater

That just sounds awkward and kind of sketchy!

A client offered me a ton of money to do cocaine with him. I declined and got in my car and left. I don’t even drink alcohol, and I live an extremely clean, organic, non-toxic lifestyle, so that was definitely not happening. 

I often get asked to do surprise visits to client’s partners. It’s always a “no”. The person I’m seeing must always know the nature of the booking. Surprises just don’t work unfortunately.
 

If the Masseur is a one load a day guy, I have found that the last appointment gets his load:):) After all the sexual tension from earlier sessions, it is usually a big, powerful one:)

MY policy in life has always been to GIFT and never loan - I will ask them to pay it forward 2x over life -- doesn't have to be big gifts for them to pay forward - they can do it in 20s when that is significant to the recipient!
 
Right now, I have a session prepaid with a long term masseur (years) - I expect to get to have the session - but if circumstances and the world prevent that from happening -- no problem -- better he have it than heirs fighting over what is left.

keep their skin pulled back behind their cock head even when flaccid?
 
The HOTNESS factor of an uncut cock is the skin over the head -- soft or hard!!

AT THAT RATE, there should be more involved than therapeutic:)

AT THAT RATE, there should be more involved than therapeutic:)

Communicating is important. Personally I like a bit of teasing touch mixed in with a legit massage and then a HE. But I usually have some sore muscles that need actual tending to. Finding someone who can & will do both is a joy.

Mine was a negative and my very first massage when I was in college! The masseur had me draped with a sheet and stayed 12-18" away from my groin -- knew about and expected nothing else at the time as it was my first and was recommended by my physician -- once I was on my back, I ejaculated spontaneously with a TOTALLY flaccid penis! I didn't have a semi/chub and no tenting of the sheet beyond the mound a flaccid penis would cause. When my semen liquified and the wet spot showed through the sheet, The Masseur went CRAZY and yelled at me that that was disgusting and the massage was over -- he left the room as he told me to get dressed and leave..
 
I was shaken and horrified as I had done nothing, he had done nothing - it was just the energy flow from the massage that had me ejaculate.
 
After that it was years before I went for another and I ALWAYS clarified that I needed to be undraped and that during a good massage, I would ejaculate spontaneously - I wanted a masseur who would work nude and who was not afraid of any portion of the male body.
 
My spontaneous ejaculations while flaccid interested them:) and once I started working with the same masseur, this natural release was followed by a second at the end -- either hand or mouth generated.
 
I have, over the years experiences a new (1st time) masseur go down on me unexpectedly while I was zoned out and he blew me to completion -- later mutual oral was part of our sessions.
 
I had one masseur who would fuck me as he worked my back and gluts -- then come around front so I found finish him off -- my HE with him would be oral at the end.
 
Now I have two I use -- my prostate masseur who is hands and body only who spends 1/3 on back, 1/3 on front and 1/3 on prostate and my highly skilled therapeutic masseur where I enjoy mutual oral after an excellent and skilled groin area massage is worked into the full body procedure.
 
Looking for a few to try as I travel south this winter and I will look to this forum for feedback.

Good, courteous communication can make everything clear - with Masseurfindes system now it is impossible to be 100% sure even when trying to read between the lines!!!! CONVERSE and let him know what you are looking for he -- he will or he won't - Better to know before money spent.

Have you ever hooked up with a contractor that came for a service call at your house(cable guy, plumber etc.) or a delivery man(pizza, ups, fedex)? Let’s share our stories.
 
I’ve offered a few cable guys head when they’re done with what they’re fixing in my house. None have ever taken the offer but one did show me his dick. It’s always been a fantasy of mine so wondering if anyone else has had success?

Mine is a glass casting:)

MY policy in life has always been to GIFT and never loan - I will ask them to pay it forward 2x over life -- doesn't have to be big gifts for them to pay forward - they can do it in 20s when that is significant to the recipient!
 
Right now, I have a session prepaid with a long term masseur (years) - I expect to get to have the session - but if circumstances and the world prevent that from happening -- no problem -- better he have it than heirs fighting over what is left.

I’m curious to hear from the escorts how you stay erect with a client you are not attracted to? It’s it Viagra/Cialis? Or just amazing control? I’m a new client and I’m very curious how that works. I could not keep going if I wasn’t attracted to the other guy.

Anybody have any experience with this guy?
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Serf_gay