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    jayjaycali reacted to + Italiano in CBS will end 'The Late Show' with Stephen Colbert in 2026   
    I watched Colbert's show many many times under the impression it was a comedy show. I love it, I still feel it's a fabulous comedy show, I keep watching it, and I totally understand how it stayed on the air so long.
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    jayjaycali reacted to pubic_assistance in Rising Impact of the News on Mental Health   
    Well THAT is the intention of US news organizations ( all owned by the same three large global corporations). I never listen to US news, and therefore I don't expose myself to the angst-riddled-reporting. Maybe try this for yourself ? I stick to foreign news organizations that don't play this game.
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    jayjaycali reacted to + Italiano in And we're back...   
    You deserve a medal! 👏👏👏
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    jayjaycali reacted to RadioRob in And we're back...   
    Greetings folks...
    As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
    While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
    And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
    There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
    But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
    Rob
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    jayjaycali got a reaction from Nightowl in Any bourbon drinkers out there?   
    I like Woodford Reserve and Four Roses 
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    jayjaycali reacted to Nightowl in Any bourbon drinkers out there?   
    Woodford Reserve Double Oaked is one of my favorites.
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    jayjaycali reacted to + purplekow in The Frick has reopened.   
    You weren't even the first one on this page
     
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    jayjaycali reacted to + Jamie21 in Safe Only escorts?   
    I do a ‘safe only’ option. It’s a kind of work from home service. You stay at home and wank to my porn. It’s really safe. No one has ever caught anything from it 100% guaranteed. Contact me to book (24-7 service) details below. Service delivered via OnlyFans or JustforFans. Terms and conditions apply. Must be 18+. 
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    jayjaycali reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Portland Clubs Update?? Silverado / Stag   
    I spent 3 nights Silverado.  There were at least a dozen dancers each night, with more than half of them my type. Some of them even had no tattoos.  About 1/2 of the dancers got fully nude in the public dance area.  I had private dances with at least 1/2 of them (one at a time).  The private dances were a fantastic bargain even at $25.  There is no house fee for private dances, and the dances are much longer than at other establishments and none of the dancers haggled prices with me.  From time to time the were females in the audience, but they never spoke loud and always gave their money to a male friend to do the tipping.  This is a well run gay establishment.  The fish and chips were just ok.
     
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    jayjaycali reacted to + purplekow in Gym expectations   
    I recently retired and soon after my move to Palm Springs, I started going to the gym each day.  My intention was just to improve my level of fitness and, as the gym is one which caters to a very high percentage of gay middle aged men, to ogle those men who have not been remiss in going to the gym.  The gym has many very muscular men and lots of fit men of all ages.  Going to the gym has been much easier as I know that there will be all kinds of eye candy there.  The people have been extraordinarily supportive of a fat old man doing walking laps.  I have receieved unsolicited encouragement from dozens of people at the gym and it has made this transition to a healthier lifestyle much easier.
    On the first day, I walked a mile and when I was done, one of the trainers came to speak to me and encourage me to keep at it.  Several days later, I saw him again and I asked to speak to him about an eventual training session.   He asked me what my goals were at the gym and I told him that my immediate goal was to be able to get up off the floor unassisted.  He said that he likes people with realistic goals and there should be no trouble reaching this milestone.  He left, I sat for a bit taking in the view and then went to rise from the chair only to have the leg twist and buckle and I landed on the floor.  After the inital shock of being on the floor wore off, I looked around and no one was coming to give me assistance and so I need to get myself up.  I eventually succeeded just as some men noticed me and came to assist.  They were fairly hot looking and I was tempted to throw myself down to the floor just so they would help me up.  Instead, I thought, well my first goal was accomplished so time to set a new one.  
    My follow up goal had to do with activities at the gyn and my personal appearance.  As a fat men over 60, it had been awhile since I had seen my penis without the use of a mirror and some belly shuffling.  So my goal became to see my penis.  Only two methods came to mind, lose substantial gut or get a bigger penis.  I would have preferred the getter a bigger penis option, but that did not seem viable, so I opted for the lose some of the gut al.ternative.  
    Two month later, my walking sessions have stretched to almost an hour and I have increased my distance by 2.5 times the original.  Clothes are looser and energy is higher and yesterday was the day the second goal was accomplished.  There, while looking down at my feet, was an old friend I had not seen for years.  He looked good but a bit less robust than I remembered him.  Still, I was happy to see him and soon afterward he appeared to be happy to see me.  
    So now that I have reached my second plateau, do any of you have any suggestions as to what the third goal should be?  I intend to continue going to the gym, even through the summer inferno of Palm Springs but a fun and achievable goal makes the whole process easier.  I will be adding some light weight training to my regimen.  I have considered that a pec bounce might be the next goal but I am open to suggestions.   
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    jayjaycali reacted to samhexum in Anyone on here claiming a share of the swipe fee settlement?   
    Haven't slept...  was up all night planning how to spend my $4.50 windfall from Wheat Thins.

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    jayjaycali reacted to + Letmeworshipit in Slammer321 FLL   
    Visited this venue last year and had one of the best times in years. I've visited other Slammer clubs, but not in a while. This place is rocking and totally my cup-o-tea. Raised platforms with glory holes and rooms with seating ledges reminded me of some of the better back room bars (Touche). Highly recommended. My theory is that the world would be a happier, safer and more satisfied place if every town had one of these clubs. Oral-oriented guys, feeders and cocksucker alike, love the convenience.
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    jayjaycali reacted to Poppie in Montréal trip report (and first post)   
    Please .... DO report back !
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    jayjaycali reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    Congratulations! 🎉 👏 
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    jayjaycali reacted to Simon Suraci in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    Next year’s gathering may or may not happen, as Oliver cast doubt on whether he is renting his place again. I see no reason we couldn’t have the dinner and breakfast as usual.
    InnDulge is a great place for pool parties except that we couldn’t invite a large crowd outside of the hotel guests. Having a few people is no problem, but 30+ people that aren’t staying there crashing the party may be a problem.
    I would like to discuss alternative plans for the pool parties with other interested regular gathering attendees. Maybe one or more of us can rent a place with a pool, but I fear it would be prohibitively expensive. Short term rental landlords are not fond of parties of any size, no matter how tame. Long term rentals for a month minimum stay in high season would cost a fortune.
    I’ll have to give this some thought. Maybe the pool party/ies would take a different form or location. Maybe it does not have to be a pool thing or clothing optional thing, considering most of the party guests don’t even get in the pool or even get naked anyway. Considering the typical Friday and Sunday times are between lunch and dinner, maybe it doesn’t have to include food, to simplify things further.
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    jayjaycali reacted to DavidNY in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    Looks like I just missed it 😞
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    jayjaycali reacted to White Daddy Top in 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend   
    Me too. I didn't even know it existed, but I'll keep an eye out for next year.
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    jayjaycali reacted to White Daddy Top in Provider face pics and privacy?   
    Hi, thanks for your reply. I'm glad I'm not the only one who has thought of this.
    The reason I prefer no face pics in a provider's profile is that, to me, it signifies someone who is more discreet and more likely to take privacy seriously. I'm concerned for the provider too of course, because IMHO this type of business should be legalized, but that's just not the world we live in. I also don't want to know that my provider might be picked up and harassed.
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    jayjaycali got a reaction from 56harrisond in Bear market! Recession has it begun.   
    I love this "stripper index".  
    I hope we get to see a "bullish spread" 😄 and consider taking a long position in the stripper's index. Maybe even put a collar on it.  
     
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    jayjaycali reacted to + tassojunior in 86% of Gen Z and Millennials have 'menu anxiety'   
    Boomers see a menu and read down the list of 20 in order.
    Gen Z sees that menu and tries to open 20 windows at once. 

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    jayjaycali reacted to pubic_assistance in 2025 Stock market crash affecting escorts and masseurs?   
    You know what else is good for your mental health ? Ignoring the mass media.
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    jayjaycali reacted to + Lucky in Attention! – Annual Palm Springs Weekend, 2025   
    The Palm Springs Weekend did not want to end on a quiet note, so nature sent us some real shaking as a 5.2 earthquake could be felt rather strongly here!
    Magnitude 5.2 earthquake Affected countries: United States and Mexico 11 miles from San Diego Country Estates, CA · 10:08 AM
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    jayjaycali reacted to nate_sf in 2025 Palm Springs Weekend   
    Welcome Skyler! Great to have you joining us. 
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    jayjaycali reacted to Skylerdiamond in 2025 Palm Springs Weekend   
    Looking forward to meeting with you all tonight and tomorrow! Happy to be here ! My first time in Palm Springs! Can be shy but I’m very friendly and would love to meet you all! 


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    jayjaycali reacted to + pizzaBoy in Is the profile photo really you?   
    Exactly. It's 2025, not 1999; These forum platforms need to get with it. I'm not manually downsizing photos just to post something. 
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