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I know there's a traveling escort section, but I can find nothing.
Are any escorts traveling to San Francisco for the Folsom Street Fair the last weekend in September?   Should be a very busy and lucrative time,  Leather week begins Sunday, 09/22 leading up to the Fair on Sunday, September 29.

Hope to see you here!

I have an opinion which may or may not make you feel better.  I have thought that if I could go back to any age, I would pick 38.  If you have taken care of yourself, you should still have the physical vitality of youth and if you have not, you are still young enough to recapture most of it.  You are mature enough to have thoughtful opinions based on experience and learning.  If you decide to have a family, you are young enough to be the cool older dad and if you decide that you do not want that, you can be the doting uncle or the internationally traveling uncle.  Options are open, but many of them with imperceptibly at first but more obviously soon enough, become less available or viable.  
So I believe the best advice right now is to take a good hard look at your life.  If you are living in fear, it is time to drop it. If you are living in debt, it is time to pay it off and plan for the future.  If you are unhappy with your relationships, it is time to change the relationship or move on.  These are seminal years.  There is no turning back and so you need to plot the best course you can for the rest of your life and then start living that life.  
 

I was there in the 80’s with my then boyfriend. I could see that there was lots of talent available had I been single. The boyfriend is long gone but the lust remains!

Just got back from Montreal. Wad there from Wed to Sun.
Wed, don't bother with Stock Bar. Campus was fire.
Taboo is lame. Mostly malnourished twinks.
Stock Bar generally seems gayer. Dancers are more effeminate. Didn't bother to do any privates. Had reserved tables for hen's nights on Fri and Sat, and the only straight hunks will gyrate towards them. Dances on stage were mostly covered up except for quick peeks and the one shower show I saw.
Campus on the other hand. FIRE!!!! So so so much fun and full on erected cocks on stage. Go after 11pm and all the dancers will be full on horny. Like pretty much anything goes. Fabio from Stock Bar works there now Thur to Sun.
Have fun, and people in Montreal are really nice and friendly too.

This is a great point. The fact that they block certain words points out the fact that they don’t encrypt end-to-end. WhatsApp, iMessage, Signal and Telegram all do.  That’s why I use my Burner number for WhatsApp. 
 

I find it's gets tricky with the address book / contacts list.  On the same phone, one misclick on contacts permissions and your 'fun' contacts get shared to the rest of your apps and LinkedIn is recommending them as people you may know and probably vice versa.  
Burner app I think keeps its own contacts list, but others not sure (WhatsApp I think asks for contacts lists to work). 
Separate phone comes in handy.  
 

Actually that reminded me, Android now has something called Private Space where you can partition apps away and with a different Google login so it's treated like a separated account and can't share.  At least i think that's what it does.  Haven't tried it myself. 

I find it's gets tricky with the address book / contacts list.  On the same phone, one misclick on contacts permissions and your 'fun' contacts get shared to the rest of your apps and LinkedIn is recommending them as people you may know and probably vice versa.  
Burner app I think keeps its own contacts list, but others not sure (WhatsApp I think asks for contacts lists to work). 
Separate phone comes in handy.  
 

I find it's gets tricky with the address book / contacts list.  On the same phone, one misclick on contacts permissions and your 'fun' contacts get shared to the rest of your apps and LinkedIn is recommending them as people you may know and probably vice versa.  
Burner app I think keeps its own contacts list, but others not sure (WhatsApp I think asks for contacts lists to work). 
Separate phone comes in handy.  
 

I watched Colbert's show many many times under the impression it was a comedy show. I love it, I still feel it's a fabulous comedy show, I keep watching it, and I totally understand how it stayed on the air so long.

Well THAT is the intention of US news organizations ( all owned by the same three large global corporations). I never listen to US news, and therefore I don't expose myself to the angst-riddled-reporting. Maybe try this for yourself ? I stick to foreign news organizations that don't play this game.

You deserve a medal! 👏👏👏

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

I like Woodford Reserve and Four Roses 

Woodford Reserve Double Oaked is one of my favorites.

You weren't even the first one on this page
 

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I spent 3 nights Silverado.  There were at least a dozen dancers each night, with more than half of them my type. Some of them even had no tattoos.  About 1/2 of the dancers got fully nude in the public dance area.  I had private dances with at least 1/2 of them (one at a time).  The private dances were a fantastic bargain even at $25.  There is no house fee for private dances, and the dances are much longer than at other establishments and none of the dancers haggled prices with me.  From time to time the were females in the audience, but they never spoke loud and always gave their money to a male friend to do the tipping.  This is a well run gay establishment.  The fish and chips were just ok.
 

I recently retired and soon after my move to Palm Springs, I started going to the gym each day.  My intention was just to improve my level of fitness and, as the gym is one which caters to a very high percentage of gay middle aged men, to ogle those men who have not been remiss in going to the gym.  The gym has many very muscular men and lots of fit men of all ages.  Going to the gym has been much easier as I know that there will be all kinds of eye candy there.  The people have been extraordinarily supportive of a fat old man doing walking laps.  I have receieved unsolicited encouragement from dozens of people at the gym and it has made this transition to a healthier lifestyle much easier.
On the first day, I walked a mile and when I was done, one of the trainers came to speak to me and encourage me to keep at it.  Several days later, I saw him again and I asked to speak to him about an eventual training session.   He asked me what my goals were at the gym and I told him that my immediate goal was to be able to get up off the floor unassisted.  He said that he likes people with realistic goals and there should be no trouble reaching this milestone.  He left, I sat for a bit taking in the view and then went to rise from the chair only to have the leg twist and buckle and I landed on the floor.  After the inital shock of being on the floor wore off, I looked around and no one was coming to give me assistance and so I need to get myself up.  I eventually succeeded just as some men noticed me and came to assist.  They were fairly hot looking and I was tempted to throw myself down to the floor just so they would help me up.  Instead, I thought, well my first goal was accomplished so time to set a new one.  
My follow up goal had to do with activities at the gyn and my personal appearance.  As a fat men over 60, it had been awhile since I had seen my penis without the use of a mirror and some belly shuffling.  So my goal became to see my penis.  Only two methods came to mind, lose substantial gut or get a bigger penis.  I would have preferred the getter a bigger penis option, but that did not seem viable, so I opted for the lose some of the gut al.ternative.  
Two month later, my walking sessions have stretched to almost an hour and I have increased my distance by 2.5 times the original.  Clothes are looser and energy is higher and yesterday was the day the second goal was accomplished.  There, while looking down at my feet, was an old friend I had not seen for years.  He looked good but a bit less robust than I remembered him.  Still, I was happy to see him and soon afterward he appeared to be happy to see me.  
So now that I have reached my second plateau, do any of you have any suggestions as to what the third goal should be?  I intend to continue going to the gym, even through the summer inferno of Palm Springs but a fun and achievable goal makes the whole process easier.  I will be adding some light weight training to my regimen.  I have considered that a pec bounce might be the next goal but I am open to suggestions.   

Haven't slept...  was up all night planning how to spend my $4.50 windfall from Wheat Thins.

Visited this venue last year and had one of the best times in years. I've visited other Slammer clubs, but not in a while. This place is rocking and totally my cup-o-tea. Raised platforms with glory holes and rooms with seating ledges reminded me of some of the better back room bars (Touche). Highly recommended. My theory is that the world would be a happier, safer and more satisfied place if every town had one of these clubs. Oral-oriented guys, feeders and cocksucker alike, love the convenience.

Please .... DO report back !

Congratulations! 🎉 👏 

Next year’s gathering may or may not happen, as Oliver cast doubt on whether he is renting his place again. I see no reason we couldn’t have the dinner and breakfast as usual.
InnDulge is a great place for pool parties except that we couldn’t invite a large crowd outside of the hotel guests. Having a few people is no problem, but 30+ people that aren’t staying there crashing the party may be a problem.
I would like to discuss alternative plans for the pool parties with other interested regular gathering attendees. Maybe one or more of us can rent a place with a pool, but I fear it would be prohibitively expensive. Short term rental landlords are not fond of parties of any size, no matter how tame. Long term rentals for a month minimum stay in high season would cost a fortune.
I’ll have to give this some thought. Maybe the pool party/ies would take a different form or location. Maybe it does not have to be a pool thing or clothing optional thing, considering most of the party guests don’t even get in the pool or even get naked anyway. Considering the typical Friday and Sunday times are between lunch and dinner, maybe it doesn’t have to include food, to simplify things further.

Looks like I just missed it 😞