SuenosAmor

I have a lot of internalized homophobia, which I've been working through for most of my life. I've been out since my teens, but it wasn't until my 40s when I became 100% confident having sex with men.

I didn't like bottoming for many years because I didn't know how to prepare for it. Of course, the guys in porn made it look so easy.
 
Changing my diet (fish, light carbs & veggies only) and practicing with large dildos have made the biggest difference. So for me, it was a lifestyle change.

I think we must be very careful when we use the word discrimination. Unlike black people, fatties were never enslaved with their children bought and sold or after freedom told to go sit in the back of the bus or separate toilets etc.
Unlike women fatties were allowed the vote , owned property etc.
 
In some culture fatties were preferred as a sign of wealth.
 
However there is a prefernace. Am I going to pay someone who is 500 pounds to massage me or escort -no. However that goes for extremely homely people too-I ain't paying either.
 
Plus being extremely fat does have medical consequences. Now as a former fattie and as someone who is still considered fat by gay standards-normal by regular standards, I don't care. This whole fat shaming concept is deluded-I got plenty of action when I was fat. Admittedly not by many 10s, but hey when you look like a land whale, don't expect Chris Hemsworth to come sweep you off your feet-you might crush him!
 
I think today's concept of comparing micro aggressions, personal preferances etc to the struggle of civil war, ending slavery, womens right to vote etc is frankly insulting to the old heroes who faced terrible consequences for their actions. Someone say fighting for the women and gays in Saudi Arabia or Iran has tremendous courage.
 
I did face a lot of insults in the gay world-just let it roll off like water of a duck's back. Apart from that, never did face any "discrimination". Someone not wanting to sleep with me is not discrimination-that is just preference. For long time, I did not want to sleep with women-does that make me a misogynist?

He's grown into his looks and looks much better with a beard.
 
Face-wise, I like Grigor Dimitrov and Borna Coric. Rafa Nadal has a nice ass, among other body parts.
 
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/09/20/article-2039687-0DFC1FCD00000578-836_634x443.jpg

He's grown into his looks and looks much better with a beard.
 
Face-wise, I like Grigor Dimitrov and Borna Coric. Rafa Nadal has a nice ass, among other body parts.
 
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/09/20/article-2039687-0DFC1FCD00000578-836_634x443.jpg

He's grown into his looks and looks much better with a beard.
 
Face-wise, I like Grigor Dimitrov and Borna Coric. Rafa Nadal has a nice ass, among other body parts.
 
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2011/09/20/article-2039687-0DFC1FCD00000578-836_634x443.jpg

How about Borna Coric? I find him pretty attractive. I like his stubble.

I'm not sure if it's 80% for me, but I've certainly had my share.

You must have beautiful, supple skin ?

Weed for all! (18+, of course)

I am all for legal weed anywhere & everywhere.....regarding Nick Lachey's involvement in Ohio advertising.....apparently he's maybe a member of a business group who would / will benefit financially from legal in Ohio.....
 
http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2015/10/30/nick-lachey-could-get-rich-growing-pot-in-ohio/

The super hot ones and the ones with huge cocks. I'll never forgot what one guy said when I was getting ready to suck him, "Are you sure you're ready for this?"

I agree with you! I think Asian/Asian-American men are swell and attractive-looking. (As the daughter of a Korean-American man, it would be a bit self-loathing of me to think otherwise.) But there are many who do not agree, possibly (to bring in another factor) because Asian men are perceived by Westerners as looking feminine, just as Africans and African-Americans are perceived as hypermasculine and white men are perceived as "just right." (There's actual research on this subject.)

I once say an ad that stipulated no blacks, asians or redheads. I wouldn't waste my time on anyone with such a limited view of sex

It is some of the MOST prevalent discrimination in the gay community. Obviously you can't quantify it with sizeism and ageism, but there's a reason why you see "no fats, no fems, no Asians" in many posts, or the succinct and equally offensive "no rice or spice" (no Asians or Southeast Asians).
 
Just google "gay racism." Fwiw I grew up in the Bay too.

He's STILL great. And you might be surprised about getting "something extra"! But, yes, a very solid massage.

This guy was GREAT years ago...
Sexy and handsome - no promise of anything extra but a great solid massage

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/aussieian.shtml
 
He is back in Hawaii, but I think he's in Honolulu. Highly recommend him if you can make the connection.

Not a fan of Russia, though I loved visiting the museums in St. Petersburg.
 
I'd recommend taking the train, visiting the cities of Vienna, Prague, and Budapest. AMAZING trip.

Not a fan of Russia, though I loved visiting the museums in St. Petersburg.
 
I'd recommend taking the train, visiting the cities of Vienna, Prague, and Budapest. AMAZING trip.

Yeah, I work with sales people and they are constantly sending me email. This is often how they start off their messages.

Nothing wrong with the sentiment. It just doesn't make grammatical sense. It should be "I hope you're doing well." An email can't find anything.

Yeah, I work with sales people and they are constantly sending me email. This is often how they start off their messages.

From work... "I hope this email finds you well." Overused and doesn't make any sense.

I'm guilty of the basic idea, though I tend to say "I hope you're doing well" or something similar, rather than the grammatical stupidity of hoping that "the email finds" - even if we all understand what's really meant.
 
But of course the whole need to use that kind of greeting is rather superfluous - it's a meaningless way of easing into the real purpose of the email rather than a sincere wish that the person is well. It's a bit of politeness, but nothing more than that.