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Thanks, all. I'm going to contact the guy I found on RentMasseur and go for it.

Thanks, Russ. Information noted. Do you ever travel to the Midwest? Sure would love to meet you here in Columbus, Ohio!

Thanks, guys. How much is a premium membership on RentMasseur? Unfortunately, this guy only advertises on that site and not on the other two, so there isn't anything to cross reference.

Good evening, all. I have used Masseurfinder and MassageM4M before to hire erotic masseurs. I found one I like for my city who only advertises on RentMasseur. I tend to be wary of sites I'm not familiar with, so I thought this would be a good place to come for advice. Have you ever hired masseurs from RentMasseur? Is it a legitimate website?

Oh, how I wish John would visit Columbus. <sigh>

Despardo, I have the same problem. It's difficult for me to articulate exactly what I want. Or probably more accurately - I know what I want, I just have a hard time asserting my wishes for fear of coming off too pushy or rude. I err on the side of being overly polite, but that sometimes leads to me leaving a session feeling unsatisfied and then kicking myself that I didn't speak up enough. I empathize with you. In any case, I'm sure even a mediocre/passive session with Jack was worth every penny spent! I think I'd be wet just looking at him and watching him undress.

Would love to know if despardo saw Jack, and if so, what he thought???

I would hire Russ for a few hours if he ever came to Columbus. The man is fucking hot as hell!

That's the part that astounded me. I mean, good for him if he's got it to spend, but damn, that's a lot of money!

I hire because I'm in a sexless marriage, and this hobby allows me to stay sane and feel sexually fulfilled. It allows me to fulfill the fantasy of sleeping with the hot jock/muscled bodybuilder/hairy muscle daddy types that aren't normally interested in me. And since I've had so little experience in my life, hiring is allowing me to explore what I like sexually in a non-threatening environment (when I can quell my nerves about an encounter, that is). I'm learning as I go.

My husband and I will be on that cruise with friends of ours. Bucket list trip for us. Have you been to that part of the world before?

Sure wish Kurtis Wolfe traveled more. I would hire him in a heartbeat!

Where did you find written reviews for him? I've searched on Daddy's and cannot find any.

Definitely do the Blue Hawaiian helicopter flight. The best thing we've ever done on any vacation. You can purchase a DVD of your particular flight afterward. I will never forget flying between two rainbows. Breathtakingly beautiful!

Sure wish he'd come to Columbus. I'm sure I sound like a broken record by now, but I will keep trying. <sigh>

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/luke462.shtml Based on the comments in the various threads here about Luke, I reached out to him a week ago. Lo and behold, he's traveling to my city this weekend (!), so I set up an appointment with him. Based on the limited communication we've had, he seems like a really nice guy. I scheduled 90 minutes with him because he's gotten such raves. So...based on the comments here, I am assuming the experience will be more than therapeutic. But we didn't discuss this, and (being the non-assertive guy I am), I didn't feel right asking him questions about mutual touch, mutual oral, etc. I was too afraid of coming off like a perv. Should I have brought it up? Are masseurs accustomed to people asking? He advertises on Masseurfinder in the "Relax" section. It's been my experience that those masseurs who advertise there offer more than strictly therapeutic touch. Just not sure how direct I should be with a masseur versus an escort? It's been intimated that Luke will go quite a bit further than just massage, but how do I find that out? Thanks for any feedback.

He is seriously delusional. And I personally find him unattractive. But there's a flavor for everyone, so good luck to him.

I've got foot worship and armpit licking covered.

I've been seeing your posts, Tarte Gogo, and thank you for the feedback. I will try your approach and see how it goes.

I agree. Saw it 4 days ago, and I am still obsessed with it. When I think about it or watch youtube clips or even listen to the Mystery of Love or Visions of Gideon, I weep. I don't think a movie has touched me so profoundly. It also has a profound message not to let life pass you by - to open yourself up, to take risks, to not squander your days. Probably the most beautiful love story I've ever seen portrayed on screen. I also have the novel but haven't read it yet. I'm glad it got 4 Oscar nominations this morning. It deserved so many more. It was robbed in directing, cinematography, and supporting actor. Both Armie Hammer and Michael Stuhlbarg deserved nominations. If Timothee Chalamet doesn't win for Actor, the Oscars have no relevance anymore.

Unfortunately, MikeyGMin, I don't have the kind of funds to be able to afford toads. I have to make sure they are princes before I commit.

I do see your point about not inundating them with messages. I guess I just don't view 5 or 6 brief back-and-forth messages that much of an intrusion. Where I disagree is about you not being the center of their universe. I think the truly great escorts would understand that, considering the steep rates they are asking you to pay, you should very much be the center of their universe for the duration of the time that they are with you, and they should be willing to put forth a minimum amount of effort to establish that your money will be well spent on them. Maybe I just don't have the amount of disposable income to spend on this hobby that most of you do. This is something I can only afford to splurge on a few times per year, and it's pretty much my only outlet for sex, so I have to do the vetting to ensure the match is going to be successful.

This is a great example of why more than one text or email is necessary. I, too, worry about sending personal details to a wrong number. So the first text is just to establish that I've reached the correct person.

Yes, most escorts have asked me to text, and on those occasions where I initially reach out via email on RM, they have unanimously asked me to switch to text. I abhor texting, but I do it because it seems like the only way most are willing to correspond. Texting takes far more time than emailing or simply picking up the phone to call them, so I don't get it, but I guess that's the way of the world these days.

I didn't mean to violate any rules, but in this case, I thought my query did appeal to two different audiences. Did you have any advice to offer about my actual question?